A leisurely life that begins with the possession of a game character

(Part of this chapter has been deleted. Please forgive me for some unclear sentences.)——

(Some legal provisions on supporting the elderly have been deleted. Most of the different parts are about examples, where laws and regulations conflict with facts. You can just read them briefly.)

After hearing Zhang Lan's idea, Chen Jian smiled and shook his head and said, "No, what you said won't work at all."

When they first called, Chen Jian and Liu Ximing had already checked the relevant regulations and cases. There are still many such things. It is too common for young people to abandon their wives and children and abandon their husbands and children. Now it is too common for people to return home and ask for support from their children when they are old.

It doesn't matter whether he has a history of domestic violence or not, whether he pays alimony or not. The morals of society are like this, you have to support him when he gets old.

As for what kind of secrets there are, no matter how angry people are, unless there is a criminal dispute between two people, most of the time, they are obliged to support them.

As long as the old man is determined to find you and ask you to fulfill his obligations, no matter who comes over, it will not work. Even if he goes to court or something, he will definitely lose. I have consulted lawyers and there is absolutely no way I can win. No one will take this kind of case because the outcome is doomed.

It can only be said that the relevant laws are still being improved, society is gradually progressing, and various regulations are also being gradually improved.

But at this point in time, what we pay attention to is respecting the elderly.

And sometimes it is a personal issue. Some people are not responsible for others when they are young. Can you still expect them to change their minds when they get older? Some people can, but such examples are too rare.

It's more about what he was like when he was young and what he will look like when he gets older.

This kind of people only want to stay in the community and go to the streets. Crying and saying that the children do not support them. He is free and bothers you every day. What can you do in this situation?

There are many reports on this kind of thing. Chen Jian once saw an old man in his 60s who was physically disabled and had a broken leg. He had no one to take care of him.

He goes to his 30-year-old daughter every day and asks her to fulfill her support obligations. She ignores him, so he sits in front of her door every day, poops and pees in front of her door, and smashes her door with bricks and sticks. Who do you see in the community? They all preach that daughters are unfilial.

After receiving reports from the masses, the media visited the site to understand the actual situation and held discussions with the daughter, who revealed the truth.

In her early years, her father abandoned his wife and daughter because of domestic violence, cheating on his wife, and his daughter. After the divorce, he refused to give his wife and daughter any property. Then he married his mistress and helped his mistress raise his son as a stepfather. He ignored his ex-wife and daughter. The mother worked hard to raise her daughter, and then died of illness due to overwork. The daughter received almost no help from her biological father when she was growing up.

Later, her father got old and was deceived by his mistress into transferring two properties under his name to the other party's son. Then he kicked him out and no longer raised him. When he went to pester her, the other party broke one of his legs.

Finally, he thought about having a daughter, and began to pester her to fulfill her support obligations. What his daughter told the media is that she only hates her biological father. If his biological father goes to court, she will pay him any amount of alimony awarded by the court. She just wants to never see him again!

At that time, the media went to the old man for confirmation. At first, the old man complained that his daughter was unfilial. When he talked about abandoning his wife and daughter when he was young, transferring his property to his mistress, etc., the old man limped and stopped accepting interviews and left by himself.

If Liu Ximing's father was in the same situation, Liu Ximing could still say he wanted to sue him and pay whatever amount he had to pay. But Liu Ximing's father can no longer take care of himself. Once he is gone, Liu Ximing will have violated the law.

Zhang Lan shook his head and sighed, and Chen Jian continued: "It is the most troublesome thing like this that can't take care of oneself. Liu Ximing, I have discussed this with the street. If I had someone sue instead, I might get more than this." More. The main reason is that Liu Ximing just doesn’t want to meet people. He wants to meet people who are better than this.”

Every family has its own sutras that are difficult to recite. After picking up a drink and clinking a glass, Chen Jian said with a smile: "Sometimes I always feel that it is really difficult for our generation. I thought it was okay before, but now as time goes by As time goes on, I always feel that it is quite difficult for most people." Zhang Lan thought for a while and said: "How do you say this kind of thing? It depends on where you compare."

If you compare yourself with your peers, you will naturally have better and worse lives. But to put it simply, in this country now, we can enjoy peace. If you work hard, you can always support yourself.

Just such a simple thing has already surpassed many people.

Most of the worries of ordinary people come from money worries. Compared with the worries of some foreign countries, it is much easier for us.

If possible, learn more about people and things. Then you will find that there are always things that make it difficult for you, and there are always people who are worse than you.

Everyone has their own things to face. When we wish, we often say that everything goes well. In fact, being able to smoothly go through the bumps and valleys in life is already beyond most people.

How can there be so many things that go well? No matter when, there will always be some things that are difficult to settle.

What Chen Jian kept talking about was that he had seen through life. From time to time he would smile and say that after sending his parents away, he would find a place by himself and die alone in peace.

But Zhang Lan advised him to abandon this idea. Everyone has his own philosophy of life, but life will never develop as people imagine.

In Zhang Lan's view, if conditions permit, it is best to do something at any age. It can be a little later, it doesn't matter if it's a little later, but the best thing you can do is do it.

Things you didn’t do when you reached your age will be told to you again by life one by one when you reach your later life. Why was it not done when it should have been done?

Such as studying hard, such as starting a family and starting a career. Those who always claim that they will not regret it most of the time have never experienced any unexpected events.

They say money can solve most problems, but the problem is that most of the time, most people don’t have money.

Then these people who are short of money often want to get closer to the life philosophy of those who are not short of money.

Chen Jian's cell phone rang. After taking a look, he said to Zhang Lan: "Liu Ximing is calling. I'll answer it."

Before he said a few words after the call was connected, Chen Jian's expression became serious and he quickly replied to the phone: "Okay, I understand. I'm in Kyoto now. I'll go back by car today, and we'll be together tomorrow morning. Past." (End of chapter)