The skilled widow is busy farming

"Good boy, I know what you are thinking. Your aunt treats you like her own daughter. You and Brother Jun live a good life. We all have the same thoughts and hope that you will have a good life."

"Yes, I listen to my mother."

"Good boy, your sister-in-law must have a stronger character. I know you have to give way to her when you come in, and you have suffered a lot. But you must also understand that the palms and backs of your hands are all flesh. You will be separated in the future. Don't you need your brother?" I have a brother and a sister-in-law, so I can’t take too much care of the whole family, it seems like I’m too partial.”

"If we break up in the future, that's the big deal. If we have a good relationship now, we can still communicate with each other in the future."

How could Mrs. Lu not know that the eldest daughter-in-law often deliberately made things difficult for Qing'er by the old servant, but this younger daughter-in-law was really smart, upright and handled things very well.

After being in the family for more than a year, the eldest daughter-in-law valued her more and more, becoming less targeted and more harmonious and tolerant.

"Actually, I can understand the grievances of my sister-in-law. I am a junior. As you said, brothers can never have an overnight feud. When I was at home, I also watched how my mother and my aunt got along, and how my grandmother and uncle Okay, I understand in my heart.”

"Well, that's the reason."

This is a girl raised by a big family. She has seen the world, has a large family, can handle such disputes, and has a broad mind. This trouble will be nothing.

After chatting with her mother-in-law, Qing'er returned to the yard. She didn't have much to do today, so she just spent some time copying and painting in the study.

She is the younger daughter-in-law. She has an eldest sister-in-law who is the housekeeper and a director, so it is not easy for her to interfere. When she first got married, the eldest sister-in-law was afraid that she would seize power. She wanted to test and bully her, so she asked her to get out of the way. After a long time, she got the smile of the eldest sister-in-law. and show kindness.

But the grievance was not in vain, and the relationship between her and her husband was growing day by day, which actually promoted their relationship as husband and wife. The man became more considerate, knowing her grievances and difficulties, and always helping her.

Her mother-in-law also thinks that she is generous and sensible, but secretly she prefers her. She also likes that she does not love power, does not fight, and allows the sister-in-law's family to live in harmony. She is usually the one who takes care of her mother-in-law, and the slaves are very respectable. .

Qing'er is living a very comfortable life now. She doesn't have many things to do with her dowry, so it's easy to handle. Her men take care of the outside matters, so she doesn't have to worry too much. They are one husband and wife. If she loses money, it means that her husband has to lose money. Lu Jun He's not stupid, so he naturally takes care of her and controls his slaves.

On the contrary, I have a lot of free time on weekdays, and my mother-in-law is not difficult to take care of. She is not a demanding character, but is tolerant and generous. I rely on my elder sister-in-law and favor her. Seeing that she does not love power, I like her even more.

The old lady is very easy to get along with. She treats the two granddaughter-in-laws equally. She hardly cares about anything but family matters are in the old lady's mind.

Lu Jun came back from the next day and saw her painting, so he quietly went over to take a look.

"I painted well today, and I seem to be in a good mood."

"Master is back. Are you tired today? The big kitchen is cooking. My father-in-law and eldest brother will be back soon. Let's eat together."

Qing'er put down her pen and took off his official uniform, asked someone to wash him with face wash, then changed into regular clothes and went to greet his elders.

"Okay. What have you been busy with today?"

"I went to sit with my mother for a while, and played chess with my grandmother for a while. When my grandmother was tired, I came back. I had to copy books for a while, draw a picture, and plan to weave tapestry silk."

"The family is not short of money, so don't be tired."

Lu Jun spoke quickly.

"I know, I am here to support the embroidery building. My aunt is old, so I can't rely on her. I have learned this craft, and I have to teach the people in the embroidery building their skills."

"Okay, as long as you don't get tired."

"Today, I told my mother about the money my aunt gave me. My mother said that I should ask the steward to ask me to buy it into a village. You can help me organize it."

"Okay, I'll listen to you. Say hello and I'll get it for you." Lu Jun nodded in agreement.

"Auntie gave a gift to my eldest brother and sister-in-law. You can send it directly to my eldest brother later. You can give father-in-law a piece of the gift. I won't go to the study."

"Row."

"My sister-in-law is pregnant. I still hope that my sister-in-law will give birth to a son."

Qing'er knew why her sister-in-law was running against her, because she was afraid that she would steal her husband's wife from Lu's family and grandchildren.

In fact, she didn't want that. The second aunt had made it clear to her a long time ago that it was not just a son who could decide who should give the Lu family's connections and resources.

The eldest sister-in-law had a child before, a daughter. Now she is pregnant again. The baby is tight and she only wants a son. This is inevitable.

"Well, after she gave birth to a son, she felt at ease and could embarrass you less. I felt unhappy, and I couldn't talk to my elder brother about trivial matters and embarrass him. When we got married, I knew that you had a large dowry and that my elder brother was sneaky. Give me two shops and one village, my sister-in-law has to endure it, and I am embarrassed."

Lu Jun comforted his wife.

"I know you are in trouble. It doesn't matter if you are a family member. My grandmother also gave way to my uncle and aunt. It has been like this for many years. It's hard to figure out who suffered the loss and who took advantage. It's hard to figure out who is the family member."

"The same is true for my mother and my aunt. It seems that my aunt is more domineering and cares about this and that, but my mother has not suffered at all. The three of us brothers and sisters were all raised by my aunt. My mother hardly bothered, and even got married. My aunt provides most of the property. My mother is kind-hearted and doesn't care about superficial things. Instead, she always teaches us to be filial to our aunt."

Qing'er took her own family as an example. The couple did not suffer any loss in the property. The eldest brother of the Lu family was really like an elder brother. This is why her mother-in-law ignored the disputes between their sisters-in-law, suppressing them one by one to maintain balance.

"My wife is still broad-minded and generous. I have kept it in my heart. You will be more relaxed when we can let her go."

"it is good."

After changing clothes and getting gifts, the couple went to the main courtyard to have dinner with the parents-in-law and the elderly. This was the only time the family could get together and say a few words. They were all very busy during the day, and the men didn't want to do anything during the day. Things don’t go into the backyard.

The rules of the Lu family are really strict, and I am not lying. It is impossible for a husband and wife to joke around in the house during the day. If this does not happen, they will be scolded.

As long as the men can talk and joke in the house after getting home in the afternoon, they can go out to do things early in the morning.

""Dad, my eldest brother and sister-in-law, Qing'er's aunt and relatives sent me gifts. I will bring them to you. You have worked hard to take care of my wife. The Li family is also very grateful and sent a boat to deliver them. "

"Oh, I'm so sorry, I didn't do anything."

The eldest sister-in-law blushed a little. She didn't expect that the Li family paid so much attention to their younger siblings, and they didn't get any gifts even during the holidays.

"I told my aunt that you have always taken care of me and taught me. My aunt asked me to learn more skills from you. When I go out, I should learn to have a high eyebrow and a low eye. I act according to your eyes. Don't do something wrong and lose my husband's family. She specially asked me to give the gift Bring it to my sister-in-law."

Qing'er also took the letter and showed it to her sister-in-law.

It is impossible for Xiu Niang to write bad things. She always teaches her own children, and she speaks in a polite and flattering manner. She earnestly teaches her children to know how to advance and retreat, and to respect their eldest sister-in-law.

After reading this, my sister-in-law's face turned red obviously and she felt embarrassed.

"I asked Aunt Li to worry about it. She made me blush when she said, "Am I that good? Don't tell anyone. I'm afraid people will expose my shortcomings."

The sister-in-law couldn't help but laugh and joke.