The skilled widow is busy farming

Brother Rui brought his children back to the capital, and they arranged to live in the clan's yard. There were other clan members living there, and the clan members still lived together. This way they were more united and made it easier to discuss matters.

If you can't handle the relationship between clan members well, it means you are too small-minded and not suitable to go out and do things.

The girls live in the backyard guest room of Brother Jing and Rui, and are taken care of by Xiaoya and Yulan.

The three girls had just arrived and were unfamiliar with many things and very curious.

The three girls were arranged to live in the guest house in Brother Jing's backyard. They lived together. As Xiaoya's sister-in-law, she had to make arrangements.

"The three of you live together. This house is relatively large. It used to be the second aunt's room. It has an inner and outer room. It's enough for you three girls. If you need anything, you don't have to talk to me. You're welcome."

"Thank you sister-in-law."

"Let's rest today. We'll talk about anything tomorrow."

Xiaoya arranged for the three girls and left, leaving her grandma and maid to take care of them in the yard.

"Girl, do you still need a late-night snack? There is hot milk tea and snacks on the stove. If you are hungry at night, you can have a bite. If you three need hot water, call me anytime. I will be on duty tonight."

"Thank you sister, we had a good dinner."

"Okay, just tell me what you need."

"Sister Li, when should we go to say hello tomorrow morning?"

"I don't know what the rules are in the capital. My husband said that we should adapt to circumstances and develop our own brains to observe. Let's go early tomorrow instead of late. We can just wait half a quarter of an hour earlier than the usual time for getting up early and reading in the morning."

"Also."

"Tomorrow, in case the waiting time is long or my sister-in-law has other instructions, I will get up early and eat some snacks to cushion my stomach. I will not be afraid of being hungry when I work."

"to make."

Once you get out of the house, you can see that Xiu Niang has taught her well. The younger one listens to the older one, while the older one makes up his mind and consults with each other to check for leaks and fill in the gaps.

"Then should we give the gifts tomorrow or pick a good day?"

"I'll give it tomorrow, along with sir's letter."

"Row."

"Sister, what are the appropriate clothes to wear tomorrow? People in the capital are very particular about it."

"Common clothes, everyday clothes that are new but not old, choose bright and festive colors, red, honey and green are the main ones, fresh and elegant is better. No jewelry, just tie a ribbon headband at most, you can wear a bracelet on your hand and a pendant on your ear Just one earring is enough."

"Then I'll wear the bracelet. My grandmother gave it to me."

"I just need to wear earrings, nothing else."

"Then I will use a wooden hairpin to tie my hair and tie it with a colorful headband, so that my family will not have to show off."

The three sisters discussed it carefully before going to bed.

Early the next morning, the three girls got up earlier than the maid, which shocked the maid.

"Sister, don't panic. We have just arrived. We have to choose a bed and can't fall asleep. Thinking that my sister-in-law is usually busy, it is also the etiquette of us juniors to say hello to the two sisters-in-law as soon as possible. Sister, help us get some face wash. We will wait for a while. Go see my sister-in-law.”

"it is good."

The maid smiled and agreed, thinking that she was quite sensible.

After washing and dressing up, they would walk around the yard a few times and play Wuqinxi. This was the daily routine of the tribe. They were used to it. They had to get up early to exercise for a while.

After exercising, I ate some snacks from last night and a hot milk tea, then I tidied up my clothes and rinsed my mouth, then went to say hello to my two sisters-in-law, Xiaoya and Yulan.

When they arrived, Xiaoya happened to be up and dressing up.

The three girls were waiting in the penthouse.

Xiaoya listened to the report from the next person that the three children had arrived, and smiled, "This will be the time for the morning class in the clan school. It is a little half a quarter of an hour early. Yes, the time is well controlled." Grandma also tolerated it. He couldn't help but laugh, "Second Madam taught you, you will never make a mistake again."

"That's natural."

I am a guest here to pay my respects to my master or relatives and elders. I cannot come too early. I am still asleep and it is not convenient to see you.

Don't come too late, as it would be inappropriate to ask your elders to wait for you.

What's more, the lady in charge of the house must wash up and dress up before she can meet people. There is no reason why the owner of a house can only meet guests if he is unkempt.

You need to know this right. When a girl gets married in the future, she will also greet her mother-in-law and elders. This means practicing and learning in advance, mastering the right etiquette, and letting your elders have a good impression of you. Otherwise, they will think you are too reckless and rude.

These daily details are not something that ordinary farm girls can learn, and their living habits are different.

This is also the main reason why Xiu Niang insists that girls go to ethnic studies. If you want to marry well, you have to understand the life schedule and daily life of the officials and wives, and develop habits along with them, so that you can blend in. Otherwise, you will be out of place. .

Let me tell you that you are not suitable for our family. You are not from the same family.

Qing'er and Yingzi lived in front of Mrs. Zhou for two or three years after they came to the capital. They learned from Mrs. Zhou in their daily greetings and studies. This was also a valuable experience.

Wait until Xiaoya freshens up and dresses up before coming out to see the girl.

"Greetings to my brother and sister-in-law."

Three girls came forward and curtsied.

"Well, let's get up. Let's have breakfast together."

Brother Jing took a look and nodded with satisfaction. He was well dressed and well mannered, fresh and pleasant, not flashy or weird.

After a while, Brother Rui and Yulan also came over. Their brothers were busy all day long and could only meet each other in the morning and evening. Sometimes the two brothers could not see each other when they came back late at night, so having breakfast together became a daily routine. It was necessary to meet each other. , exchange the latest news and get familiar with things at home.

"Greetings to my second brother and sister-in-law."

"Good girl, you got up really early. Just come over tomorrow night."

Yulan smiled and pointed.

"Yes."

"Our family always has meals together in the morning. Your two brothers are too busy during the day and don't come back. Sometimes they come back late at night. When we get up early, we meet together during this meal to have a few important words. Our work and rest are related to our hometown. It's slightly different, but it's basically the same. You're home now. If you need anything, your sister-in-law won't be there, so you can tell me."

"Yes, thank you, second sister-in-law. Everything is comfortable and well-prepared. There are several sets of clothes and jewelry. We don't have so many at home."

The elder Xiaoli spoke first, and the other two waited for their elder sister to speak, and they supplemented when needed.

Yulan smiled and nodded, "The clothes and jewelry are prepared for you. The capital is different from my hometown. In the capital, you should respect Luo Yi before you respect others. There are many people who look at people through the cracks in the door. You will know about it later."

"If there is something inappropriate at home, just go to your sister-in-law. Brother Rui and I usually come back at night. If there is something urgent, just ask your sister-in-law to go to me."

Brother Jing opened his mouth and told the clan sister that generally the affairs of the inner court are left to the wife to manage, and the men generally don't ask many questions.

"Yes."

"Your parents have gone to work, and some of them are busy. Just stay here with peace of mind. Your sister-in-law will make arrangements for you later. Just listen to your sister-in-law."

Brother Rui added that he wouldn't tell them too much.

Even if we talk about getting married, we talk to our parents and don't talk too much to our sisters.

"Yes."

"Second brother, can we still study? When we came, the teacher also gave us homework and assignments."

Xiaoli glanced at Li Rui and hurriedly lowered her head to ask. She was a little afraid of Li Rui's brother's aura, which was similar to that of the village chief. It was scary.