The skilled widow is busy farming

"I know you are a good boy, so I just babbled a few words. Your mother-in-law is honest and honest. She always thinks that whatever others say is true. She is warm-hearted and sometimes does wrong things, but she is not evil-minded."

"Yes."

Wang Yulan is a daughter of an official family and has met many people. She knows that her mother-in-law is not good at hiding her thoughts and is not a very thoughtful person, so she is very satisfied with this marriage.

"She is a straight person. If we have any grievances in the house, tell her directly. She can help you suppress that brat Rui Brother. If Rui Brother bullies you, just complain to your mother-in-law. I'm sure she can make the decision for you. Get ahead.”

"When socializing outside, you have to take the initiative to stand up and make arrangements. If your mother-in-law says something wrong or promises something that shouldn't be said, stop her immediately. She won't blame you. We are two sisters-in-law, and you may have noticed that we are outside. I am her boss, and she never blames me. Otherwise, how could I get over her and raise her three children? As long as it is good for our family, just go ahead and do it. Just explain it to your face when you get home. There is no need to bend over backwards. Yaoyao, you said it too tactfully and she couldn’t understand it.”

Xiuniang understands what kind of person her sister-in-law is, a capable and honest person who doesn't play tricks. She only does what she can do, and she doesn't do what she can't do.

For example, when raising children, the elder sister-in-law is uneducated and does not interfere. When Xiu Niang hits her children, she never complains or feels wronged. She will never tell outsiders that Xiu Niang spanks my children. She knows what is good and what is wrong. She always says that all three of my children are the same when she meets others. What Xiu Niang taught me is not my fault. My son must provide for Xiu Niang in his old age, otherwise I won’t be able to see my ancestors.

A good thing about a sister-in-law is that she knows how to repay her kindness, knows how to treat others well, and knows how to be grateful.

"Second Aunt, don't worry, I will take care of my filial mother-in-law."

"If you are really embarrassed to tell your mother-in-law directly, just tell Brother Rui and let him go talk to your mother-in-law. If it's not possible, you can talk to Qing'er. I have already told you that your mother-in-law will listen to you and her outside. As for Qing'er, listen to your son and daughter-in-law at home."

"Second Aunt, please stay a little longer so that we, the younger generation, can be filial to you. Our brothers are also engaged. There are a lot of things to deal with. I am young and short-sighted. Please teach me."

Wang Yulan begged Xiu Niang with a serious look on her face. She deeply felt that her parents were so kind to her that they chose such a good family for her. Her husband understood etiquette, loved others and protected her shortcomings, and her husband's family was not embarrassed at all and delegated power generously.

Xiu Niang touched her face and smiled lovingly, "Silly children, I can't patronize you. I still have children in ethnic studies to teach. The Li family has not yet reached the level of the Wang family, so I still need to help. Now I still have the strength and can do my best. When I get old, I will come to bother you again."

"Auntie, you can come as often as you like. Second Master and I will reserve a room for you."

Wang Yulan's eyes were red. She felt the sincerity and magnanimity of her widowed aunt, who devoted her whole life to the clan and her children and grandchildren and never complained.

"Okay, while I can still move, I can raise a few more good children. Regardless of whether men or women can succeed, it is the hope of the future. When I get old, the next generation will be old enough to get up, and then they won't need me. I will give them an example, let them know how to develop clan culture and how to raise children and grandchildren, so that the clan can prosper."

"Yes, you are right, it is not just one person who will benefit from this, but the entire clan."

How could Wang Yulan not understand this truth? This is also the upbringing and family tradition of the Wang family. It was because of this that she was married to the son of the Li family.

"I will leave in a few days. I have asked Qing'er and Yingzi to learn to take care of their dowries themselves. Don't worry about them. You will bear the losses and gains by yourself. We are all engaged. We must learn to be independent and strong. When it comes to suffering, you can’t just go to your parents’ house whenever something happens, otherwise you won’t be successful.”

"Yes."

Wang Yulan promised, saying in her heart that if there is any difficulty, I must remind her that my sister-in-law cannot be made to lose money. This is the hard-earned money that my aunt has earned with her own hands and feet, so how can she lose it.

"You don't have to get involved in the restaurant's affairs. Let Brother Rui worry about it. In the future, Brother Jing and his wife will come over and take turns with your father-in-law and the others. From now on, Brother Jing and the clan brothers will take turns managing the restaurant. We won't let one person continue to manage it, so as to avoid If you have a big heart and corrupt accounts, this rule is set by me.”

"The son-in-law of the family who serves as an official only takes care of common affairs and does not do business. Those who do business are not officials. You will gradually understand in the future. If you don't understand, just ask Brother Rui. There is nothing to hide in our family affairs. That is to say It's too trivial. You and your wife can discuss it among yourselves." Xiu Niang wanted to explain everything about the family and clan clearly so that her children would know what the family affairs were like. This was how she taught Brother Jing's daughter-in-law when they came in. .

"In the end, all that's left is the matter of Yingzi and Qing'er. When the two uncles come, they can't meet each other every time. There must be someone watching over the girl. They are not allowed to meet at night. When she is taken out, her servant brother must follow her. They cannot be alone together. People Words are scary.”

"Yes, don't worry, I understand."

Wang Yulan nodded immediately with a serious expression. The reputation of her daughter's family must not be ignored.

"There's nothing else. If you have something to do, you can discuss it with Brother Rui. If you really don't understand, just go and bother your father-in-law and my eldest brother."

Brother Rui has become more and more stable in the past few years, and Zhou Yi has been knocking him hard. Now he can even speak a few words to the emperor. Li Rui is very talented and has a good brain. It is extraordinary for a person to be stable.

"Yes."

"Lastly, keep an eye on Brother Qun. He still can't grow as fast as Brother Jing and Brother Rui. There are two brothers in front who bear the wind and rain for him, so he just hides behind and does trivial things on weekdays. Just tell him to do the job, otherwise you will have to carry him for the rest of your life."

"Then I'll carry it for the rest of my life. As for my brothers, this is nothing. Brother Qun is very stable and sensible, but he is still young. With his brother supporting him, he just hides away. In fact, once he does things by himself, he is very clear and agile. .”

Wang Yulan said with a smile.

"Just pamper him. He's already spoiled. There's also Brother Chun, that brat who's writing letters asking for something. Don't pay attention to him. He's asking for it from the moon in the sky. It's really..."

Xiu Niang shook her head helplessly.

Brother Chun is the youngest. He has many older brothers and sisters, and the pain is severe. Every once in a while, you can see that he has some valuable and interesting things, and there are also a lot of books. They are all bought by his older brothers and sisters, secretly not called Xiu. Mom knows, and she will beat her if she knows.

"Okay, I'll watch."

Wang Yulan laughed and liked Li Jiaerlang very much. Even the youngest brother Chun was sweet and sensible, and knew how to advance and retreat. However, Xiu Niang was very strict with her children.

She felt that her second aunt was very much like her grandmother. She was strict and demanding, and could understand her love for her children. All the characters of her children were in her heart.

After nagging for a while, Xiu Niang felt relieved after explaining everything that needed to be explained clearly.

Within two days, the sister-in-law handed over all the account books of her family's general affairs to her daughter-in-law, and made it very clear that what she did not give was the clan's account books. This could not be given to her. It was for the clan to check in turn and was not under the control of Brother Rui.

Wang Yulan became more and more happy. The family was open-minded in dealing with things and treated her as one of the family members. Accounts were clearly explained and there was nothing to hide. This made her very happy that she was accepted by her husband's family so quickly.

Now Yulan is in charge of the courtyard and general affairs, and the sister-in-law has given all the reins to her, and all accounts are explained very clearly.

He also said that when the two brothers get married, they will also have a share of the industry, and Xiu Niang cannot bear the burden. Yu Lan readily agreed, as this is how it should be.