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Chapter 59 Let her have enough confidence
Yang Manchun rolled his eyes:

"I did this before I told Li Changchun completely."

But the matter was done. Even if she later gave up the idea of ​​revenge against Wu Mingshuang, the matter had reached a point where she could not control it and could not end it:
"What else can I do? I can't tell my classmate that I did it on purpose, right?"

You can only make mistakes, and Wu Mingshuang was not wronged anyway. As for whether she can keep Li Wenping, it depends on her means and luck.

"It's probably hopeless."

Wen Minghua shook her head and laughed. Judging from the information she got, the Wu family probably didn't let go of the bride price.

Yang Manchun frowned, and for some reason, she thought of the dowry her mother had prepared for her:
"Mom, if I get married, how much do you plan to ask for as a gift?"

In fact, in recent years, the talk about betrothal gifts has not been very blatant, because most young people pay attention to free love. Since it is free love, there is no mention of wedding gifts and dowry.

But this is only on the surface. In private, there are really very few people who can send their daughter out without a bride price.

Wen Ming rolled his eyes at her:
"What, you got married again?"

Before Yang Manchun could speak, she laughed:
"You will definitely need a bride price, but the amount depends on how satisfied the man is with you."

For Wen Minghua herself, the betrothal gift is more of a formality, an indispensable formality.

"If their family is satisfied with you, then they won't care about the amount of the betrothal gift. If they are not satisfied with you, they will find fault with you and use various excuses to discuss the amount of the betrothal gift with you. You have to think carefully about such a person. Is it worth it for you to marry?"

She broke the words into pieces and said:
"Marriage is not just a matter of two young people, but also a matter of two families."

When two young people are in love, it is natural that they are deeply in love with each other, and they are full of love and water, but getting married is about living a life, counting the daily necessities of life.

Life is simple in three words, but it is not simple.

To live a life, to live happily together as a family, is to live a life;

The family is noisy, he dislikes you, and you dislike him, but it's just a matter of getting along.

But no matter which one, it is inseparable from the relationship between the two families. To be precise, it is the relationship between one party and the other family after arriving at the other party.

A harmonious family suddenly has a person who does not belong to that family. One party has to work hard to blend in, and the other party has a strong sense of territoriality. There is a collision of ideas, living habits, and education and upbringing. Collision, can there be no contradiction?
Yes, no matter how harmonious the family is on the surface, no matter how loving the couple is, they cannot guarantee that there will be no conflicts between them.

Therefore, this requires the two parties to constantly tolerate and retreat from each other, so that one party can truly integrate completely and the other party can get used to it.

This process may be long, or it may be very fast, but in the end, it is a process that must be experienced.
"So if you are really dating someone again, what you have to look at is not only whether you really love this person, but also the family that raised and educated him."

Wen Minghua doesn't have any sectarian ideas, and she is confident that when her children get married, she will buy a betrothal gift and dowry that she thinks is very good.

But just because she doesn't care doesn't mean that others don't, so no matter in her previous life she would be very rational when considering marriage, now for her daughter Yang Manchun, she also hopes that she can treat her marriage partner and her marriage rationally.

Yang Manchun was thoughtful. She had never heard these words from Wen Minghua.

For example, when it comes to betrothal gifts and dowries, the first thing she thinks of is why Wu Mingshuang's family must have so many colorful gifts. Are they selling their daughter?
Wen Minghua knew what Yang Manchun meant by asking about the bride price. Seeing that she was thoughtful, she then sighed: "Every family has a different definition of the bride price. Some people think that if the bride price is too much, they are selling their daughters. Others think that if the bride price is too much, they are selling their daughters. , the bride price will be less, and the man will not cherish the daughter that his family married in the past too much."

Therefore, the issue of bride price is really nothing to worry about. In her opinion, it is actually very simple:
Raise your daughter to be a person who can live well without a man, so that she has enough confidence. If your family gives you enough confidence, will the man feel that it is natural not to give a bride price?

If this is the case, as she said, if he really values ​​her, he won't mind giving her any amount of gift. On the contrary, she has to think carefully, is he really worthy of her trust?

Yang Manchun took a deep breath,

"Is that why you and dad prepared a dowry for me that is as large as my brother's and the others' betrothal gifts?"

Wen Minghua nodded,
“This is only half of the confidence that we, as parents, can give you, and the other half of the confidence needs to be earned by yourself.

In spring, as the saying goes, to strike iron, you need to be strong yourself.Mom doesn’t have much education, so she can’t tell you any special truths, but one thing she knows is that, whether it’s your work, study, or finances, as long as you can be independent, no matter what you will experience in your marriage in the future, you will be able to succeed. You won't lose yourself. "

Yang Manchun bit his lip, blinked his eyes, and tried hard to hold back the tears that were about to overflow:
"I understand, Mom, I will study more and work hard in the future."

If there is a suitable opportunity, she will find a way to become a regular employee.

Because the difference between temporary workers and regular workers is really big.

As for the person to talk to, she had no idea yet. However, she raised her eyes and glanced at Wen Minghua, who had turned around to fold clothes, walked over and leaned on her back,
"Mom, if I fall in love with someone again in the future, I will bring him back first and let you keep your eye on him. If you agree, I will date him. If you say no, then I will not date him."

"..."

Wen Minghua didn't know whether to laugh or cry, and felt angry for some reason:
"I owed you something in my previous life, right?"

It’s not like her lover wanted to marry her and gave her the palms and eyes. She was full and strong.
"Gungun, if you have nothing to do, go sweep the floor at home and wipe the windows."

Yang Manchun didn't mind the disgust in Wen Minghua's tone at all:
"Anyway, I have decided. I will listen to you in everything from now on."

After saying that, she followed Manni's example, touched her mother's face with her lips, turned around and ran away:

"I'll sweep the floor."

"..."

Wen Minghua was stunned for a moment, then raised her hand to wipe her face in disgust, and then burst into laughter.

Manni blinked and looked at Yang Manchun who ran out, then looked up at her mother and got up from the bed:
"Mom, kiss."

You can't favor one over the other. If my sister kisses my mother, she wants it too.

The wrinkles on Wen Minghua’s face instantly appeared:
"Okay, mommy, give our sweet baby a kiss."

　Thank you very much for the tip from Yu Baobao for not buying any fish today. I’ll add another update!
　　Dear children, Happy Mid-Autumn Festival!

　　
　
(End of this chapter)