Soft and cute Zaizai wins in the era article

Other girls don't have as many worries about their partners as she does. They would choose to escape just because the partner's mother doesn't like them.

She estimated that other girls might choose to please the partner's mother, give up their careers and marry the partner.

But this is really not what she wants.

She also knew that Wei Kun had been waiting for her to nod, but she really couldn't ignore his mother's feelings.

Before getting married, she could choose not to go to the Wei family to see her face if she was unhappy, but what about after getting married?

How could she not come to the door or face his mother?

If his mother's opinion of her cannot be changed, can she ignore her, not return to the Wei family, and not care about the feelings of Wei Kun, who is like a sandwich cake?

impossible.

After getting married, she will have to face the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law. Not only that, she may also immediately face the mother-in-law's instigation.

Whether it is getting married or having children, they are all in her life plan. She will not get married just because she has to, let alone have children because she must have children after getting married.

She is herself first, and then she is a wife, mother, daughter-in-law, and other identities. Therefore, after thinking about it, Manni chose to break up with Wei Kun.

Call her selfish, she just doesn't want to embarrass herself to do things she doesn't like to do.

"You can be more willful. My daughter, Wen Minghua, what does being willful mean?"

Even if everyone dislikes her coquettishness, it can't change the fact that she is Wen Minghua's daughter.

"You don't have to please anyone, including me."

Manni cried "Wow",

"Mom, I like him, but I find that I seem to like myself more than I like him."

In fact, she was a little doubtful about her feelings for Wei Kun, because in the love she had seen, no one was as frighteningly rational as her.

She wasn't even willing to make a little sacrifice for Wei Kun, such as compromising a little to please her mother. Even if she didn't get married, she could win her favor just like acting coquettishly in front of Wen Minghua.

But she was unwilling and unwilling to wrong herself, which made her suspect that she might not love him as much as she imagined.

Wen Minghua held her and let her cry, just like she did when she was a child, gently patting her back:

"Mom can't say that you are doing the right thing. But mom can tell you that love and marriage are not the same thing. If marriage makes you hesitate and makes you feel uneasy, then you really need to consider it."

She touched Manni's forehead with her lips:

"Of course, I'm not asking you to consider whether you don't love him, but whether he is worthy of your love."

Is it her fault that a man cannot give her a sense of security in marriage?

No, it's him.

Of course, this is not absolute, and she cannot say that Manni did everything right in this relationship.

But as she said before, Manni is her Wen Minghua's daughter and Wen Minghua's only relative in the world. She unconditionally supports any decision Manni makes!

……

"You don't love him!"

Ji Ran is getting married, and her partner is He Wenxiu.

When sending the invitation to Manni, she heard that Manni was going abroad and heard Manni's confusion about her relationship with Wei Kun. She said this with certainty.

Manni also shook her head firmly:

"No, I'm sure, I love him, but I love myself more than I love him."

Everyone is selfish, she is just more selfish than the average person.

However, since she figured it out, Manni has never struggled with this issue again, and she can talk about her own affairs very calmly:

"Are you really determined to get married?"

She knew that He Wenxiu did not actually fall in love with Ji Ran, and she also believed that Ji Ran knew this too, but she was a little puzzled that Ji Ran still chose to get married.

As her mother said, love and marriage are not the same thing at all, but isn't a marriage with love more perfect?

Ji Ran twitched the corner of her mouth, put a hand on her belly, and said in Manni's surprised eyes:

"I'm pregnant, and Wenxiu is also very happy." She knew that He Wenxiu had liked Manni. Even now, she might not be able to compare with Manni's status in his heart, but since he was willing to marry her, she was willing to wait.

She believed that one day he would know that she was the one person who loved him most in the world.

"..."

Well, there is one more person that Manni can't understand. The previous one was Liu Xiaolian.

Thinking of Liu Xiaolian:

"Have you sent an invitation to Lianzi?"

Manni really didn't know about Liu Xiaolian's current situation, and she didn't even know that just last month, when school was on holiday, Liu Xiaolian went back to her partner's hometown with her partner.

"They were assigned back to the city hospital in their hometown, which is pretty good."

What Ji Ran was talking about was Liu Xiaolian's partner Wan Hejun.

After Liu Xiaolian left school, she devoted all her energy to making money to support Wan Hejun to continue his studies.

At that time, not only Huang Xiaoxiao advised her, but Ji Ran also advised her, but she didn't listen and left the school with all her might.

Five years later, Wan Hejun graduated from graduate school. He did not stay in the hospital where he practiced as he wished. Instead, he returned to his hometown, and Liu Xiaolian naturally followed him.

Manni nodded to express that she understood, but:

"they got married?"

She didn't hear about the banquet between the two, so she didn't just get the certificate, right?

"No."

Liu Xiaolian and her family wanted to get the certificate in Beijing and simply have a banquet, but Wan Hejun didn't agree, saying that if they really got the certificate in Beijing and had a banquet, wouldn't they become a door-to-door son-in-law?

In fact, Ji Ran couldn't understand what he said, and Liu Xiaolian couldn't help but agreed to Wan Hejun's suggestion for some reason and went back to her hometown to get the certificate and hold a banquet.

"..."

Manni pulled the corner of her mouth and took a breath. She knew Liu Xiaolian had lost her mind after being with Wan Hejun, but she didn't expect that she could become so intelligent. Can she believe Wan Hejun's obvious coaxing of her?

Thinking of Liu Xiaolian mindlessly following Wan Hejun back to her hometown, Ji Ran also felt a toothache. She stopped talking about Liu Xiaolian. Anyway, she felt that they would have no chance to see each other again.

Manni, on the other hand,

"Can you attend my wedding before leaving?"

Of course Manni agreed,

"No problem, I can also be your bridesmaid."

She went abroad for further study at her own expense, but her teacher contacted her about the hospital there and the teacher who took her there.

So just a little later, it won't affect anything.

Ji Ran was of course happy to hear what she said, and the two of them agreed on a time to try on dresses and then dispersed.

Wei Zeyun also learned that Manni was going abroad, and he was even more surprised.

"My brother-in-law must be very sad."

This girl Manni is still as cruel as ever, and she is really willing to break off her relationship for several years.

But thinking about what his grandmother had done in the past few years, he could understand Manni quite well. If he had a future mother-in-law who didn't like him, he would leave without hesitation.

In the new year, I wish you all prosperity, prosperity, prosperity, prosperity, weight loss, and good health!