Doctor Zhao, help!

Chapter 368 The Essence of Modern Marriage

After dinner, Zhao Sheng drank tea with his teacher Yu Zhongbo for a while, and took away a can of old tree tea that Yu Zhongbo's old friend had recently given him. Amidst Yu Zhongbo's rare laughter and scolding, Zhao Sheng and Teacher Tang went out. .

After leaving the door, getting in the car and starting the car, Zhao Sheng said casually with some sigh: "The teacher's condition is better than I thought. To be honest, his mental quality is much better than mine."

"People of Professor Yu's generation have gone through great storms, and their mentality must be very good."

Teacher Tang nodded and said.

"Yeah, it's not like me. The thing I'm best at is being depressed."

Zhao Sheng said mockingly.

Being depressed is just an exaggeration, but while having ideals and ambitions, it is also true that you want to live a good life of your own.

Therefore, I can't do that if I put my heart and soul into it.

"I'm afraid you are asking too much of yourself."

Teacher Tang smiled and said after hearing this.

In her opinion, Zhao Sheng could not be said to have recovered from a fall in any aspect.

"The teacher just asked me when I would get married."

Zhao Sheng said something casually, seemingly unintentionally.

"Then what did you say?"

Teacher Tang smiled slightly, looked at Zhao Sheng and said, although the two had already discussed this matter, she still wanted to know what Zhao Sheng was thinking now.

After all, she and Zhao Sheng were in a perfect relationship and life, and she didn't want anything to ruin it.

Of course, it is normal to have some small differences on some things.

But for a big event like marriage, consensus must be reached.

"After this year, we can start preparing for marriage next year."

Zhao Sheng said very matter-of-factly.

Actually, to be honest, it's just because Zhao Sheng lacks everything now, has wealth and freedom, and his girlfriend is an almost perfect woman like Teacher Tang, otherwise, he wouldn't want to get married.

It is the nature of boys to not want to get married.

Since ancient times, men's willingness to get married has been far lower than that of women, and men's willingness to have children has also been far lower than that of women, because men have to pay a huge price to get married.

For example, the economic costs, including bride price, house, adopted woman, raised children, adopted daughter's parents and other relatives, exist as a money-making machine at home. If the man does not get married, there is no need to pay for this money at all. So now only in single-child families, old people who still have family values ​​are urging their children to get married and have children. If it is a family with several children, one of the children has already married and had children, and the father and mother have become grandparents. Don’t rush the other kid, let him let himself go.

It is women who want to get married more, because women can benefit from marriage, and women can also benefit from having children.

The reason is that women will hope to improve their status through marriage and having children.

How many women look forward to marrying into a wealthy family.

How many women hope that their spouses will provide more money to satisfy their consumption desires.

How many women hope that their blind dates will help them repay their online loans.

How many women hope that their sons will succeed and then take them over to enjoy the blessings.

How many women are more eager than their husbands to send their children to learn this and that.

When tutoring and tutoring classes became popular a few years ago, someone calculated statistics and found that the vast majority of people who signed up for classes for their babies were women, and the vast majority of those who signed up for chicken babies were their mothers. Men actually didn’t care about their babies’ grades. Men were more willing to do so. They let their children go because they feel that no matter how hard they work, it will be difficult for their children to rise to the next level. Spending their energy gambling on their children will not make a difference in their fate.

But women hope to rely on others to change their destiny. In the past, they looked forward to their parents, boyfriends, and husbands. After giving up on all of them, they now look forward to their sons, daughters, and daughter’s boyfriends. Anyway, they don’t look forward to themselves. For example, the ancient movie "Raise the Red Lantern" very realistically reflects what men think about marriage and women. Of course, this is triggered from the perspective of a master in feudal society.

In the feudal era, as long as you made money, you could marry many women.

For example, in movies.

The first wife helps him with his career, is a good match, it doesn’t matter whether he likes her or not, and satisfies his desire to conquer the world.

The second wife is obedient, hungry for herself, there is nothing she shouldn't do, and she satisfies urgent vanity and the feeling of being respected.

The third wife wanted to try new tricks and test the boundaries of her power, so she married a popular actor to satisfy her hopelessness in the world she had worked hard for and her squandering.

This feeling is like: You idiots are still worshiping me, but you don't know that the beauty is already under you.

The fourth wife began to wake up and wanted to pursue some human yearning for wisdom, marry a female student, and be in awe of knowledge.

You study hard in the cold window, and in the end you will become my concubine and show off in another field.

At the same time, they use foot tapping, lighting lamps, and ordering food to make these women become short-sighted and only revolve around the master. Not only do they want to marry into the family, but they also want to conquer all aspects.

The master is the center of this house, so I would like to ask you if you have the motivation to make money, and if you have the motivation to marry a wife?

In the feudal era, it was men who exploited and oppressed women.

In modern times, on the contrary, it is more often an equal transaction.

What's more, women take advantage of men in turn. This idea has been deeply implanted as early as when girls read the fairy tale of Cinderella.

Tell women that by getting married, you can harvest other people's wealth and talents. .

When girls encounter this situation, of course they are willing to get married.

Is this any different from the feudal era?

Of course!

In ancient times, there was inequality. There were only forced trades and no choice.

In modern society, the status of men and women, at least in our country, is already very equal.

The reason why many girls want to join a wealthy family is not because they have no way out, but because they just want to easily cross class through marriage.

When most people are still limited to marriage on the level of love and love, some people have already regarded marriage as a secret to transcending classes and as a business to manage and plan.

"Dr. Zhao, are you not afraid of marriage?"

Teacher Tang smiled and said to Zhao Sheng.

"I'm not afraid at all."

Zhao Sheng said.

She has two apartments in Zhongdu. Her appearance, figure and temperament are comparable to those of female celebrities. She is considerate, intelligent and pleasant. As long as she is not a eunuch, she would want to get married if she met her.

So Zhao Sheng was telling the truth. He wished he could marry Teacher Tang as soon as possible.

"That's good, let's wait until the New Year is over, and then we can start preparations."

Teacher Tang nodded. To be honest, she was not afraid of marriage.

She has nothing to be dissatisfied with Zhao Sheng. Speaking of career, Zhao Sheng has reached the ceiling in the medical field and is thriving in the high-end medical department.

Personally speaking, Zhao Sheng is also a handsome guy, with a very good temperament, quite responsible, and does not mess around with men and women.

So she has no reason to be afraid of marriage.

(End of this chapter)