Collection of Gods

Chapter 299 Desire and Love

In the game, time flies.

After the seventh game ended, Tang Yuan and Fu Xingwen were both a little tired. They put down their game controllers, picked up their phones and looked at their unread messages.

Most of Tang Yuan's WeChat messages were New Year's greetings. In addition, there were Wen Muxue, Su Xiaoxiao and Su Chuchu's WeChat messages.

During the New Year's Eve, Wen Muxue and Su Xiaoxiao were naturally accompanied by their families. The former returned to Beichun and the latter returned to Rongcheng. As for Su Chuchu, it was more miserable. After joining the crew, she started the continuous rotation mode and had no time at all. Time, I can only spend the Spring Festival alone.

From top to bottom, Tang Yuan replied to the messages from the three women and New Year greetings from others. After he finished all this, he glanced at Fu Xingwen next to him and saw that the other party was holding a mobile phone and following a girl named Li Wanqiu. chat.

Seeing this name, Tang Yuan raised his eyebrows slightly.

He was no stranger to the name Li Wanqiu, because it was because of this girl that Fu Xingwen resolutely chose Nanshan University School of Medicine.

"how is everything?"

"I've been studying in this university for half a year."

"Is there any substantial progress with them?"

At this moment, Fu Xingwen was completely immersed in his own world. When he suddenly heard Tang Yuan's voice, he was frightened and subconsciously put the screen of his phone on the table.

"Forehead……"

"That's it."

"It's almost the same as before."

Facing Tang Yuan's inquiry, Fu Xingwen responded somewhat vaguely.

"Similar to before?"

"It's been half a year, are you still the same as before?"

"You gave her milk tea on a rainy day, you bought her sanitary napkins in the middle of the night, you sat silently in the corner and studied with her, and you didn't even tell her why you chose Sun Yat-sen University School of Medicine, right?"

Tang Yuan moved his chair back so that he was facing Fu Xingwen directly. Compared with his smile just now, Tang Yuan looked a little serious and serious at this time.

"Brother, I think the time is not yet ripe..."

Fu Xingwen felt a little pressure inexplicably when he saw Tang Yuan's posture. He didn't dare to look directly into Tang Yuan's eyes, and his tone was a little awkward.

Seeing the situation, Tang Yuan couldn't help but sigh.

What a retribution!
In the love scene, he kills everyone and is invincible, but he never thought that his cousin would become a love sucker.

"Brother, do you know that you are in a big misunderstanding right now?"

Tang Yuan's expression suddenly softened, and his words became somewhat serious.

When Fu Xingwen heard this, he couldn't help showing a slightly confused look. He didn't know why Tang Yuan said that, let alone what the misunderstanding in Tang Yuan's mouth was.

"Brother, when many people are young and ignorant, they always like to use a self-abuse method to create the illusion of infatuation, so that they can stand on the moral high ground of their feelings, so as to obtain a deformed sense of satisfaction. and a sense of security.”

"Whether you brought her milk tea in the heavy rain, or you went to the surrounding supermarkets in the middle of the night to buy her sanitary napkins, in retrospect you may feel that such scenes are like Qiao Feng fighting Guangmingding, Guan Yu Changbanpo Seven in and seven out are equally intense, but in fact, for the other person, milk tea is milk tea and sanitary napkins are sanitary napkins, and they simply cannot carry the earth-shattering emotions you want to put on them."

"You have never been in love, and the other person is your first crush, so you always want to express your full love, but the result is often that you fall into self-performance without knowing it. Therefore, the relationship between two people Memory is biased, and the other person often doesn't feel the same way about the past that you feel is unforgettable, or even doesn't know it at all."

Tang Yuan also came from a young age and has seen many young people gradually mature from youth to maturity. The misunderstanding that Fu Xingwen has fallen into now is not only made by Tang Yuan when he was young, but also by most young people. Similar error.

Just because the girl I had a crush on got closer to another boy, I felt like my world was falling apart. I would either get drunk alone late at night, or have a party with my friends all night long and indulge myself.

But in reality, is it really that sad?

Perhaps, it is indeed a little uncomfortable, but more of it is self-performance, self-abuse, and self-narcissism.

Finally, even if you drink until your stomach bleeds, if the opponent does not have your wingmen to assist you, this matter may be just an insignificant thing in the opponent's world, just like a pebble dropped into the sea, causing no waves at all. .

That masochistic infatuation cannot move others at all, it can only move yourself.This is the love of a teenager. When you like someone, you wish you could make that person a part of your body. If the other person says it's cold, your heart will freeze. If the other person says it's sad, this person will immediately feel like you're in mourning. You'll feel that you're only sadder than the other person. , in order to achieve emotional resonance, lest I cannot express my love.

This love sounds hot and brilliant, but in fact, no one can afford the value of another person.

"Brother, true and healthy love means having the courage to express your love. At the same time, you must learn to control your emotions and your desire to perform. Never lose yourself because of others. You must know the true meaning of love. It’s about mutual attraction and like-mindedness, rather than pursuit and attachment and self-impression.”

"After you have thought about this clearly, you have to touch your own heart and see whether you have more love or desire for her over the years. Many people confuse the two and think they are right. Love, in fact, is dominated by desire.”

Tang Yuan said a lot to Fu Xingwen. It is impossible for his uncle to say these things to Fu Xingwen, and it is impossible for his aunt to say these things to Fu Xingwen. Only Tang Yuan is the right person.

Although it is good to endure more setbacks when you are young, Fu Xingwen has invested too much in this relationship. Tang Yuan still hopes that this relationship can get a good result, even if it is not perfect, even if it cannot end.

After hearing what Tang Yuan said, Fu Xingwen fell into silence.

Tang Yuan looked like this and knew that Fu Xingwen had heard what he said. Instead of disturbing the other party, he picked up the phone again and started chatting with his three girlfriends again.

what?
Are you telling me about love?

Sorry, we don't need that!

We are full of energy, and since we have the ability to shoulder more responsibilities for our male compatriots, we must bravely shoulder heavy responsibilities and shoulder our responsibilities. Who makes us the most socially responsible!
After a while, Fu Xingwen finished his thinking and asked Tang Yuan a question: "Brother, how do you tell whether it is desire or love?"

"Oh……"

"This question is actually very simple."

"Four words are enough to answer everything."

Tang Yuan came to his senses, put down his phone and replied.

When Fu Xingwen heard this, he blinked and stared at Tang Yuan silently, waiting for Tang Yuan's answer.

"First question, what is desire?"

"Four words: I want to C her!"

"Second question, what is love?"

"It's still four words: C, I miss her!"

"Isn't it very simple, do you understand?"

After Tang Yuan finished speaking, he gave Fu Xingwen a look of understanding, and then picked up his phone again and started playing, while Fu Xingwen fell into thinking again.

After another while, Fu Xingwen's eyes gradually became firm: "Brother, I understand, I am absolutely in love with Li Wanqiu, because I really miss her!"

"Since you miss her, tell her."

Tang Yuan stood up slowly. He looked at the darkening sky outside the window and patted Fu Xingwen on the shoulder: "Don't you know where her home is? Didn't you always like to stand silently downstairs in her home as a watcher? ? After the New Year’s Eve dinner, when it’s almost midnight, you go directly to her house downstairs, call her, tell her all the things you have done for her over the years, and then tell her loudly that you like she!"

After saying that, Tang Yuan planned to open the door, because he could already smell the aroma coming from the restaurant, and it was obvious that their New Year's Eve dinner was ready.

"Brother, what if she rejects me?"

Just when Tang Yuan was about to open the door, Fu Xingwen suddenly asked again.

Tang Yuan looked at Fu Xingwen's worry about gains and losses, couldn't help but rolled his eyes, and said angrily: "If she rejects you, just tell her that my brother made more than one billion last year, and I am his only relative." Brother, let her figure it out!"

"I still don't believe it. What can't be done with feelings, can't it be done with money?"

After Tang Yuan finished speaking, he opened the door and walked out without talking to Fu Xingwen.

Made!

Tired of being a life coach!
Pack up and get ready for dinner!
(End of this chapter)