Farm widows have space, pick up a treasure on the way to escape

Chapter 86 He Jiuniang’s education methods
Yu and the others all covered their mouths and laughed. Such days had never been dreamed of before.

While they were talking and laughing, the puppy pulled Lotus over.

Lianhua is a very sensible girl. When the puppy went to call her, she was helping to clean up the site where the men were building a house, and picked up some of the remaining wooden piles used in building the house to burn as firewood at night.

"Mother, I brought Sister Lianhua!"

He looked at He Jiuniang excitedly and stretched out his clean hands to show her.

Lianhua lowered her head in embarrassment. She really didn't dare to think that Aunt Jiuniang would actually buy her flowers.

"I know, I know!"

He Jiuniang agreed with a smile, took out the hairpin from her arms and handed it to him.

Originally, she could have given it to Lianhua herself, but after thinking that this was a gift from Gou'er to her sister, it would be better to let him give it away with his own hands.

"Wow! It looks so good!"

Youya and the others all came together to take a look. Almost no girl could resist such a beautiful hairpin.

Not to mention the children, even the Yu family couldn't help but look at it a few more times.

"Third brother and sister, this hairpin looks very exquisite. It costs a lot of money, right?"

Mrs. Qin couldn't help but speak, the smile on her face was a little bitter. Her three younger siblings had already sent her son to study, and now she was buying such a good hairpin for her niece. She couldn't return this love. over.

"It's not worth a few bucks. It's a gift from Gou'er to my sister. It's also his sincerity. It's very hard for Lianhua to take care of them."

He Jiuniang said, urging Gou'er to give the hairpin to Lianhua.

The dog immediately handed over the hairpin, but Lotus didn't dare to take it.

"Brother Gou'er, Aunt Jiuniang, this... I really can't accept this!"

She has never seen such a beautiful hairpin in her whole life. These things can only be worn by girls from rich families. How can she, a girl from the countryside, wear such a beautiful hairpin?

"Sister Lianhua, just accept it. This one my mother bought is very beautiful!"

Gou'er looked at the lotus with bright eyes, and then continued: "When Gou'er saves enough money, he will also buy some for his mother and grandma!"

"Oh, the dog is so filial! Lotus, since it is the dog's heart, you can do it. It is very rare for a child as young as him to have such a heart!"

Yu narrowed her eyes with a smile. Speaking of which, although Gou'er was young, he was the one who knew how to care for others the most among a group of children.

"Yes, just accept Lotus!"

Lu Guilan also followed the advice, and Lianhua subconsciously looked at Qin. Qin smiled slightly and nodded, and Lianhua accepted it sheepishly: "Thank you, brother Gou'er, thank you Aunt Jiuniang!"

The flower hairpin was so delicate and beautiful that Lotus couldn't bear to put it on, and put it properly in her arms. It was very close to her heart, and she could feel her heart beating very fast.

Yu asked: "Third brother and sister, the dog is so young, why did you start giving him money?"

This question comes to everyone's mind. Life is better now, especially with a big house and a second bedroom. I still have 20 taels of silver in my hand. However, I have never thought about giving pocket money to my children. I feel that it is useless for children to hold money and it is easy. Lost or deceived.

But when they saw that He Jiuniang was willing to give Xiao Xiaoer pocket money, and that Xiao Xiaoer could do such heartwarming things, they felt that He Jiuniang's actions were reasonable.

He Jiuniang received the most advanced education and felt that it was normal to give pocket money to her children, but now she faced a group of women from the feudal era, and she didn't know how to answer for a while.

After careful consideration, she said cautiously: "I am actually training the dog to learn to do something in a planned way. By giving him pocket money, he can decide what he wants to do. Just like this This time, he took out his pocket money that he had saved for a long time and bought a hairpin as a gift for Lotus. He thanked Lotus for taking care of him." "And I don't give him money blindly. I need him to do what I ask. For example, if he plays with building blocks at home without causing trouble, or if the building blocks are built in a unique way, I will give him pocket money as a reward, which can also encourage him to become better and better. "

Yu and others were stunned that there was such a statement!
Sure enough, there is a reason why the youngest dog is sensible. He Jiuniang taught him well.

On the other hand, these people actually don't care much about their children. They only think about raising their children into adults, even if they have fulfilled their responsibilities as parents.

Compared with He Jiuniang, they seem to be much worse.

He Jiuniang saw that they were moved, but not everyone had the ability to give their children pocket money every day. After all, except for her, every family had two or three children, so it was very unrealistic to give them money.

So, she said: "Of course, giving pocket money is not the only kind of reward. You can ask the children what their wishes are. If you think they can be satisfied, give them tasks. If they do well, help them realize them. This It’s also a very good method.”

He Jiuniang didn't want to talk about these too advanced educational concepts, but since they had asked about it, there was no need to hide it.

"This way is good!"

Lu Guilan clapped her hands happily, but she really didn't have that much money. If she didn't rely on her parents' family to support her, let alone give her children pocket money, the whole family would have starved to death on the road.

Several other people also thought it was appropriate. After all, not everyone can make as much money as He Jiuniang.

And there are many children in the family, so it is really impossible to give that much money.

Mrs. Sun originally thought that He Jiuniang could stand and talk without hurting her back. Who knew that she would talk about this method again later and she immediately became silent.

Whether you can educate a child well is an important factor that determines the rise and fall of a family.

Their family is obviously developing in a good direction now. Several children have gone to school, and the family has started a business. In the future, life will become easier and the family will gradually prosper.

All this is thanks to He Jiuniang.

Thinking of this, Mrs. Sun's eyes became a little gentler when she looked at He Jiuniang.

The third daughter-in-law used the disaster of her death to exchange for the transformation of the entire family.

Even as an elder, she must keep this feeling in mind.

Not long after, the Zhang Song brothers also collected their feathers and came back. Yu wanted to wash the feathers, but Sun stopped him.

"Let the old men wash it by yourself. You and Lianhua go to cook first. The second family will lead the others to cut cloth and make clothes. Take the time to make the clothes and see the effect. Only then will you know whether this business can be done." .”

"Mom is right, you women just do some easy work, and we can do the dirty work!"

Zhang Song smiled and had no dissatisfaction because of this matter.

Mrs. Sun was very satisfied with Zhang Song's attitude and said, "Don't be in a hurry. Let's drink some water and rest for a while before going."

"Eh!"

Zhang Song agreed, but did not rest immediately. He and his brother Zhang Yong got the feathers out of the car, and then went to the river to get water to wash the car clean.

It's not the end of the day now, so it's actually a little early to cook dinner, but there are still things to do after dinner, so it's okay to eat early.

Mrs. Yu responded and went to the cooking hut to start working. Lianhua helped, while Mrs. Qin and others entered the hut and started cutting cloth.

Not long after I started, there was another annoying sound coming from outside.

(End of this chapter)