Farm widows have space, pick up a treasure on the way to escape

Chapter 407 I want to understand
Judging from her words, she should be asking about feelings.

After knowing her for so long, she still knew something about He Jiuniang.

He Jiuniang was bought back by the Lu family, which was not a good thing. The only good thing is that the Lu family is very nice and has never treated her harshly since they bought her back.

On the second day after their wedding, her husband left for escort. After many years of absence, the Lu family did not blame her for this fault.

I reunited with Lu Baichuan some time ago, and it seems that the relationship between the couple should be pretty good.

Since it is good, then why is she asking herself questions about feelings now?

Jiang Ruoya was a little nervous. This child had not been taught by her mother since she was a child, and she didn't know much about her daughter's character. For a while, she really couldn't figure out what she was thinking.

"You said."

Despite this, she still responded to He Jiuniang with a smile. No matter what, she had to listen to what she meant first.

He Jiuniang thought for a while and said: "Aunt Jiang, you also know what happened to me and my husband. He left home on the second day of the wedding. Over the years, my impression of him is only a little more familiar than a stranger. Some time ago I was actually not as happy as I thought we were reunited, and I even selfishly thought that if he never came back, my life might be easier."

"In the beginning, my relationship with him was polite and distant. I always felt that he suddenly broke into my world, which made me feel a little uncomfortable."

"But he has not been involved in prostitution for many years. Instead, he has devoted himself to building a career and bringing glory to the entire family. He is also very kind to me. He will ask my opinion before making a decision no matter what. He will never force me to do anything. What I don’t want to do, even if I go to the capital for so many days this time, I can receive letters from him every now and then."

"I'm very confused. I don't know what my feelings are for him now. I was happy and excited when I saw his letter, but I kept avoiding some emotional issues when I wrote him a reply."

"I don't know how to face him now, and I don't know how to express my thoughts to him. My whole person is like a mess, and I don't know what to do..."

As she spoke, she sighed, feeling that this emotional issue was too complicated.

Jiang Ruoya shook her head and smiled helplessly after hearing what she said. It could be heard that she was really confused, and even her words were very scattered, which showed how tormented she must be.

However, the problem He Jiuniang mentioned was much better than what she thought. She originally thought it was something serious, but she didn't expect it to be an emotional problem between husband and wife.

If this was a bad relationship problem, it would really be a headache, but from He Jiuniang's words, it was clear that there was a good situation.

She thought about her words and said, "Actually, I think from the moment you told me this and explained so much to him, you already had the right answer in your heart. There is no doubt that you fell in love with him."

"Your feelings for him now are not like when you just got married, where you were just together to complete the mission of life, nor is it because he is Gou'er's father or has some blood relationship, but because you have truly fallen in love with him. The person he is.”

"Relationships do progress step by step. From the beginning, when you were a little resistant when he came back, to slowly getting along with him, to now being unable to control yourself, there is a specific process. You are attracted by his advantages and Attracted by personality charm, apart from all external reasons, this is the person you love.”

"It's just that you have never had such an experience, that's why you are so troubled now. Since you came to me, it means that you trust me enough, so I won't hide it from you."

"A person's life may not be long, but it may not be short. It is not easy to meet someone who treats each other sincerely. Now that you have met him, don't miss it."

"He is naturally good to you because he has you in his heart. If you keep avoiding him, he will mistakenly think that you don't have that kind of thoughts for him. You also said that he will never force you to do things you don't like. If you keep avoiding If you avoid him and don't respond positively, maybe he will secretly hide that love in his heart and never show it again." Jiang Ruoya's meaning was very obvious, that is, let her seize the opportunity to let the other party know as much as possible, and don't miss such a person. A good man.

He Jiuniang originally thought so, but now she felt relieved when she heard that Jiang Ruoya was so supportive.

"But how should I speak? Let me tell him directly. I really can't say it!"

He Jiuniang sighed and stopped picking vegetables. She pursed her cheeks with worry and waited for Jiang Ruoya to give her some advice.

Jiang Ruoya only found it funny. Her daughter really didn't understand the relationship between men and women. Looking at her upright temperament, she didn't know who she learned it from.

"You don't have to say it if you can't say it. Some things don't have to be said. You can show it through actual actions and let him know that you have him in your heart. That's okay."

When He Jiuniang heard this, she immediately felt that she had found the right person. Why didn't she think of it?
Her mind was full of postmodern confessions and the like. If she loved him, she should let him know it, and she should tell him loudly.

If they were a couple with a very good relationship, then she could say those intimate words without any pressure, but now they are in a more conflicting and awkward relationship, which is a bit hard to say.

Therefore, expressing through actions is the only and best way now.

So what exactly should she do?

He Jiuniang actually already has the answer to this specific approach.

After all, the special clothes she designed have helped many couples strengthen their relationships. There is no reason why she, the chief designer, can't use them for herself.

Just kidding, she is an all-around athlete in the new era. She has never eaten pork or seen a pig running?

If it really doesn't work, the worst thing is to get into space and make up for a few classic episodes, hehehehe...

Thinking of this, her mood suddenly brightened, and she no longer felt depressed and helpless just now.

"Oh, Aunt Jiang, I should have asked you if I knew this kind of thing. You are so kind!"

She hugged Jiang Ruoya and jumped up and down. She had never felt so happy.

"You are right. Time flies by. You should cherish the people in front of you. There is no need for me to be so worried."

Before, she had always had a knot in her mind and couldn't get along with herself all day long, but now that she thought about it, Lu Baichuan was considered a high-quality man in this era. If she didn't express her attitude as soon as possible, another woman might come to interfere.

Wasn’t Yufen’s previous case an obvious one?
"As long as you can figure it out, I will give you some advice based on my many years of experience. Mr. Lu is indeed a very good husband, and you should cherish it."

(End of this chapter)