Farm widows have space, pick up a treasure on the way to escape

Chapter 352
Lu Baichuan nodded and said, "We will definitely support you if you want to go out, but now that the second sister-in-law is still pregnant, I suggest you wait until she gives birth before going."

"Okay, then listen to you!"

Lu Laoer was persuaded. Although he felt that his wife had already given birth twice and there should be no problem this time, he was still willing to listen to the third brother and wait until she gave birth before going.

Lu Baichuan said again: "Second brother, I remember your character. You are not the kind of person who likes to be adventurous. Why do you want to go out all of a sudden?"

In fact, he could probably guess some of the specific reasons, but he still wanted to hear Lu Laoer say it himself.

Sure enough, when asked about this topic, Lu Laoer's face darkened, with a look of annoyance on his face.

"You're right. I'm really not the kind of person who likes to be adventurous. I want to be content with the status quo. I even feel that our family's current life is very comfortable. I don't want to go anywhere in this life. I just stay with my parents. I should eat. Eating, drinking, and working are all the same as before.”

He adjusted his emotions and spoke with a wry smile.

Lu Baichuan thought there was nothing wrong with this, nodded and said, "Yes, this is the real you, why do you want to go out all of a sudden?"

"Because life in our family is better now, and everyone can do what they want. The third brother and sister once asked us what dreams we all have. The eldest brother wants to be a goldsmith, and now he has gone to learn the art from a teacher. My sister-in-law I want to open a restaurant, and now I have become an apprentice to the restaurant chef. Not to mention you and the third brother and sister, each has his own ability. As for our second room, it seems that there is no progress or any dreams. I am worried... "

"Seeing that my third child is about to be born, but I am still accomplishing nothing. I am not as good as my eldest brother and even worse than you. I feel that I have embarrassed my family and will also embarrass my children in the future..."

Having said this, Lu Laoer wiped his face and sighed again, feeling that life is really difficult.

It used to be difficult when I was poor, but I think it won't be difficult when life is better in the future.

But now that life is getting better, people have other pursuits, and their hearts seem to never be satisfied and are always greedy.

And if he doesn't make progress, he will be left behind by his brothers.

"I don't understand," Lu Baichuan interrupted him, "You are obviously a person with dreams, how can you say that you don't have dreams?"

Lu Laoer didn't understand and turned his head to look at him.

Lu Baichuan continued: "Your dream is to be content with the status quo, stay at home, accompany your parents and wife, and take care of the fields at home. You just need to follow your own heart and do it. Why bother so much? Even if you violate your heart, If your heart goes to the grassland, you will not be happy in this process, and you will even feel more pressure. What's the point of living like that?"

"Everyone has his or her own ambitions. My eldest brother wants to be a goldsmith, I want to be a general who protects our country, and you just want to be yourself. There is nothing wrong with that."

"What's more, both my eldest brother and I will leave home for our own reasons, and there will be no one to honor our parents at home. Wouldn't you just be helping me and my eldest brother by staying at home?" At this point, Lu Baichuan patted his shoulder, his expression Very gently, he continued: "Being a child's role model does not necessarily require great achievements. In the eyes of a child, your words and deeds can become the object of imitation. You are his father, as long as you love your wife." , honor your parents, take on the responsibility of a father, raise them up, and you can become a role model for them."

"Let me give you an example. I was absent from the most important four years of Gou'er's life and did not participate in his growth, but he felt that I was his father, so he still regarded me as a role model. Of course, Jiu is inseparable from this. There is no doubt about my mother’s teachings.”

He knew that the second brother had entered a dead end and began to doubt himself. This was a normal phenomenon. As long as he figured it out, he would find that it was really not a big deal.

Lu Laoer was indeed surprised by what he said. He had always thought that people must be like his eldest brother and third brother, with dreams and pursuits in order to become a role model for his children. But his third brother told him that was not the case. Seriously If you do your own thing well, you can also shine.

With just a few words, the things he had been struggling with for a while suddenly became clear. With tears in his eyes, he wiped his face to cover it up. How could a big man shed tears casually?Wouldn't it be a joke if the children saw it?
"Okay, I understand. It turns out that I didn't understand it myself all along!"

He burst into laughter and said, "I'm not afraid of being laughed at if I tell you this. I'm actually quite scared. As you said, the journey is difficult, and you might encounter horse bandits. I'm neither civilized nor martial, so when I go out I just I don’t want to go out and drag others down if they are a burden to others.”

The two brothers were speaking in a sensational way. Mrs. Sun came over from a distance, pointed at the two brothers and scolded them: "Didn't I ask you to buy mutton? Why are you still here for a while? Don't you want to eat tonight? Got it!"

The two brothers looked at each other, jumped up from the ground in a hurry, faced Sun with a playful smile, and then ran out quickly: "I know, I know, let's go buy it now!"

"Third brother, stop here! If you look like this, don't go out and scare people. Stay at home and kill chickens and ducks!"

After arriving home, Lu Baichuan took off his mask. Naturally, he was watched by everyone at home for a while. However, he looked much better now than at the beginning and was not so scary. Everyone said a few words of comfort. No more thought.

But Ms. Sun was still worried that he would scare the villagers when he went out like this. Then the villagers would start gossiping again. She was too lazy to explain to those people one by one, so she tried her best to prevent him from running out like this.

Lu Baichuan, who had all run to the door, glanced at his second brother, looked at his second brother's silly smile, touched his nose and came back dejectedly.

"Mom, how many chickens and ducks do you need to kill?"

As he talked, he started looking for chickens and ducks in the yard, and found that the yard was clean, not to mention chickens and ducks, not even a piece of chicken daddy.

Mrs. Sun felt bad when she saw him like that, and wanted to curse when he opened his mouth, but it seemed that this was his first time back and he was not very familiar with things at home, so he said: "The chickens and ducks are raised outside, let Leizi take care of them." You go and catch them, there are a lot of people at home tonight, your brother Fugui and the others will also come, just four chickens and ducks each will be enough."

Lu Baichuan nodded repeatedly and asked Leizi to catch chickens and ducks together, while Lu Laoer also drove the carriage to buy mutton.

Lu Laoer, who was trying to untie his knot, hummed a little tune along the way. He had thought about it, and this was what he would do for the rest of his life. He would listen to his third brother, stay at home with his wife, take care of his parents, and take good care of the things at home. Industry, just as they planned from the beginning.

(End of this chapter)