Farm widows have space, pick up a treasure on the way to escape

In the past, I saw that these children of the Lu family were really fond of them, so I expected that one of my own children would be so well-behaved and sensible.

Her expectations were so high that when she found out she was giving birth to a little devil, she felt like the sky was going to fall.

In the past two years, they have been trying to correct their son's temper while he was still young, otherwise it will be harder to discipline him when he grows up, so the couple put a lot of thought into it.

But the beatings and scoldings had little effect. The child even became more rebellious and was about to become enemies with them.

"I don't care, I just hate him and you guys!"

Peng Ke shouted loudly, his eye circles instantly turning red.

It's all the dog's fault. His parents have forced him to learn from him since he was a child. Everything is the dog's fault.

Peng Yuan was so angry that she raised her hand and wanted to hit someone. She didn't know who this child's temper was. It was okay to be noisy at home, but when she came to Lu's house to play, she still didn't know how to restrain herself. The old mother's heart was broken.

"Stop hitting the child, Yuanyuan, what are you doing!"

Seeing that Peng Yuan was not joking, Jiang Jiuniang hurriedly pulled the child into her arms to protect her.

Peng Yuan used to be such a gentle girl, why did she turn into a tigress after not seeing her for more than two years?

"Sister Jiu Niang, I only have one child, and I can't bear to beat him. But because I only have one child, I am afraid that he will learn bad things, so I can only discipline him harshly. This child has not obeyed discipline since he was a child. I am really afraid. His temper will cause trouble when he grows up."

What mother doesn't love her children? Every time she hits her son, it hurts in her heart. But a loving mother often loses her son. She knows this truth very well, so no matter how reluctant she is, she will still discipline her when it's time to do so.

Jiang Jiuniang saw her look like she hated iron, and then looked at little Peng Ke with red eyes and bulging eyes in her arms. She sighed helplessly and said, "But your method is wrong. Not only can you not manage the child well, He will deliberately go against you, so why bother?"

"Let me ask you, have you compared him with dogs since he was very young, asked him to imitate dogs, and required him to be proficient in both civil and military arts?"

Peng Yuan was stunned, how did she know?

As soon as Jiang Jiuniang saw her expression, she knew that she had guessed correctly, and she said earnestly: "Yuanyuan, this is wrong for you. How can anyone grow up according to other people's lives from birth? He is an independent individual and has his own Thoughts, but you let him do everything the dog does, would you like it if it were you?"

"He obviously didn't do anything, he just didn't want to be like a dog, so you hit him. It would be abnormal if he didn't resist."

"When I raised a dog, I didn't ask him to learn from anyone. I trained him according to his own conditions and advantages, and according to his preferences. The reason why he grew up like this is because he experienced hardships when he was a child, and his mind is stronger than that of ordinary children. He needs to be more mature, secondly because he is influenced by his father, and thirdly because he clearly understands what he wants, so he works hard for it."

"But Ke'er is not like that. He also has his own ideas and preferences. You should respect his ideas instead of copying everything about the dog and giving it to him. Just like other children in the Lu family, we have no requirements. Every child should be like a dog. They should do whatever they like. Respect the child’s wishes. You will save worry and the child will be happy. Why not?”

What's even more outrageous is that Peng Ke was forced to learn so many things when he was less than three years old this year. Peng Yuan and his wife really went too far.

Even if they only have one child and the couple is somewhat hopeful that they will have a successful child, they should not force one child like this.

Peng Yuan didn't say anything, but Peng Ke, who was in Jiang Jiuniang's arms, grinned and cried after listening to Jiang Jiuniang's words. He knew that this was Gou'er's mother, and he thought that Gou'er's mother would show off Gou'er's goodness to his own mother, ask him to learn from Gou'er, and even encourage his mother to beat him, but nothing happened. , and also advised his mother not to force him like this.

Over the years, Jiang Jiuniang was the first person to speak for him.

I was filled with grievances, but today, someone finally understood.

Ever since he could walk and talk, his parents had forced him to read, learn calligraphy and practice martial arts. If he didn't do well, he would be beaten. They would praise the dog for how powerful he was and belittle him for how inferior he was to humans.

He once wanted to study hard and make his parents happy, but he found that no matter what he did, his parents were not satisfied, so he became frustrated and started to rebel. Then his parents beat him even more fiercely.

Peng Yuan looked at her son who was crying in Jiang Jiuniang's arms. She felt as if something was blocking her heart. It was the first time she was raising a child. She didn't know how to raise it right. She only knew that all the little princes in her sister's family had done it before. I wanted to send him to the Lu family to learn from Gou'er, so he felt that it was definitely right, so he kept asking his children to follow Gou'er's standards. Who knows, not only did he make no progress at all, but he also raised his son to be like an enemy.

It turned out that she was wrong.

Remembering that she had always thought of a loving mother as a loser, who could not spoil her children, and was so cruel every time she spanked her children, she blamed herself so much that she wanted to cry. It was obviously their fault as parents, but they still blamed the children. It was really You don't deserve to be a parent.

"Okay, okay, don't cry. My aunt taught your mother a lesson. She knows she was wrong and won't treat you like this in the future. If you cry again, your face will be ruined."

Jiang Jiuniang took out her handkerchief and wiped Peng Ke's tears. She still felt distressed seeing such a young child.

"Gou'er, take brother Keer to play with his sister."

She called the dog and personally handed Peng Ke over to the dog.

Gou'er was not far away just now. He had listened to most of Peng Ke's story. He felt very sympathetic to this younger brother and did not refuse. He took the initiative to say to him: "Let's go, brother will take you to play."

Peng Ke originally hated the dog, but now that the dog's mother spoke for him and the dog wanted to take him to play, he couldn't hate it anymore. He wiped his tears without even looking at his mother and just went straight Followed the dog.

Peng Yuan's heart was as sharp as a knife, her son completely hated her.

"Sister Jiu, what should I do? I just want him to learn well, and I'm afraid he will learn badly, so I'm so strict."

Peng Yuan sighed. She had come to the Lu family happily to play, but now she was not in a good mood at all. How on earth could she save her precarious relationship between mother and child?

"You want him to learn well, but your intention is to learn well, not just like a dog. All good things can be learned, not everything should be learned like a dog. Although he is young, But if you look at his aggrieved look just now, it shows that he is sensible in his heart. You can go back and discuss it with Brother Qin, apologize to the child, and teach him again."

Jiang Jiuniang never expected that these two people would teach their children to such extremes. Fortunately, she came back early and it was still too late to correct her. If it had been a few years later, it would not have been so easy. (End of chapter)