Siheyuan, I am He Yushui's classmate

Chapter 85 The Difficult Choice of a Grandpa and His Wife
The uncle and his wife have not actively made any noise in the courtyard for two years.

On the one hand, it was because of Jia Dongxu's departure and Sha Zhu's sudden awakening.

The old man's many years of planning have yielded nothing, and it is no longer easy to choose people to help their husband and wife provide for the elderly.

It is impossible for the two most suitable people in the courtyard.Among the remaining few children, there are no sensible and diligent ones.

Lazy and unloving.

Clumsy and impatient, calculating and courageless.

Anyway, Grandpa doesn't like any of them.

And the aunt has taken a fancy to Zhao Jinhe and his wife as candidates for pension support, and they are not bad.It's just that the burden on Zhao Jinhe's hometown is too heavy.The future is likely to drag them down.

But it can be regarded as choosing the taller one among the short ones, and it can be regarded as the last resort in the future.

In fact, the old Jia's family was too financially burdened.If you choose Jia's family, you don't know who will help whom!If they helped raise the child and they left again or refused to recognize the original agreement on supporting and supporting the elderly, the couple would be finished.The money was all spent, and the people ran away again.

In that way, the couple would become a joke!Chicken and egg fight, nothing!
At present, if Zhao Jinhe and his wife can return to the courtyard to live, they are good candidates.

The aunt can help Liu Yu look after the child, and after a long time, they will develop friendship, and get to know each other slowly after getting along for a long time.According to Zhao Jinhe, the children are brought to live in the city when they are a little older, not only because it is better for the family to live together, but also because the educational conditions in the city are better.

There are no nursery schools or kindergartens in the village. The primary school teachers in the village are all graduated from junior high school, while the teachers in the city are graduated from normal schools...

On the whole, the basic service conditions in cities are indeed much better than those in rural areas.

In addition, Zhao Jinhe's income is indeed not too low. Not only does he have a salary, but he also earns some extra income from his skills.

At present, Liu Yu is still waiting to give birth in the village, because there are parents in the village who can help take care of the children and pregnant women.

Moreover, Zhao Jinhe can also make more money and save money quickly while he has time alone, so as to prepare for the whole family to live in the city in the future.Just like today's home has only one big kang, but no other furniture.

After careful calculation, we need to add at least one large bunk bed, a matching table with a bookshelf, and a few optional stacking chairs. It is not only convenient to use, but also saves space when stored when not in use.

And the kitchen...

Yes, the more Zhao Jinhe thinks about it, the more he feels that there are still many things missing in the house, even if he wants to buy, there are not so many tickets!
By the way, second-hand ones are just like bicycles!
After Liu Yu gave birth to the baby in her stomach, she would go to the city after confinement.

To be honest, it is very difficult for Zhao Jinhe to live alone at home. If it is not for the lunch in the factory every day, he can hardly eat a bite of hot rice.

The loneliness is unbearable, so I can only work hard. When I am tired, I fall asleep easily.

I bought some old wood and made some small horses when I was idle. It is not good-looking but very strong and practical.

There are so many fitters in the factory, and occasionally they can help him make some non-standard small parts for bicycle repair.

The days passed quickly, and the busier he was, the more he felt this way. In the early summer, Liu Yu gave birth to a daughter very smoothly.With the help of her natal parents, she sat through the confinement period.And Zhao Jinhe's two sons are almost three years old, they walk and dance non-stop, and they speak fluently like machine guns.The brothers quarreled all day long, but if the adults intervened, within 3 minutes, the two brothers would quietly play together again.

It was as if it was someone else who had just quarreled.

For Zhao Jinhe, the happiest and embarrassing thing is that the two sons keep asking all kinds of questions as soon as they meet.

"Why?" That's a very serious question indeed.

It even affected the communication between the couple.

The two bear children don't understand their father's difficulty at all!
"Liu Yu, how about we bring the children to live in the city together?"

Zhao Jinhe asked a little tentatively.

"Why? I feel that living in the village is good now, isn't it?"

Liu Yu, whose mind was full of daughters, said disapprovingly, and changed her daughter's diaper while talking.

Zhao Jinhe didn't even look at him.

It was the mother-in-law on the side who found her daughter's inappropriate attitude a little bit.After all, the family of the father-in-law and the mother-in-law are similar to the young couple, who have lived separately for decades!She has learned from experience in this matter!
And it’s a very rich experience and lesson.

Back then she...

If you have a beautiful daughter-in-law, you will naturally have a more beautiful mother-in-law or a more handsome father-in-law. But what Liu Yu doesn't know is that his father, who looks ordinary and loving now, was also a handsome man back then.

Beautiful women naturally attract the attention of men, while handsome men also attract many girls.

If it weren't for Liu Yu's three elder brothers, and the father-in-law's family's income was spent on raising children, who knows what kind of story will happen?
But as long as there is no money, no matter how handsome the man is, the women just look at it.

In the old days, men were all the hope of the family.What's the use of being handsome?Most of the marriages are made by the parents and rely on the words of the main matchmaker.

It's not that girls can choose when they see what they like. Girls who don't have a job income don't have the right to choose at all.

But now it’s different. Urban girls don’t need to earn too much income from working. Paying attention to equality between men and women, equal work and equal pay, and women holding up half the sky have become sufficient reasons for many girls to be independent.

The world has changed, life has changed, and it's no longer the way it used to be.

People naturally need to change.

The long-term separation between the two places not only affects the relationship between the husband and wife, but also affects the education of the children.

This aspect really needs attention.

Silly daughters live too easy, everything is simple and happy, they don’t need to worry, and they don’t need to use their brains too much, but don’t they need to be their parents’ worries?
"Well, go! Take the children with you! Live separately, it's not good for Xiao Zhao to have no one to take care of him!"

The mother-in-law suddenly interjected.

"How old is he? Can't take care of himself? It's good for me to take the children to live in the village! Look..."

Liu Yu was still talking happily.

"Go! You must go as soon as possible! How grown up are you! How can you only think about yourself? You can't be too selfish!"

"Am I selfish? Don't I just think about..."

"What do you think about? You should first think about how to be a wife, and then think about how to be a mother!
As for our old couple, there is no need for you to worry about it yet.The most important thing is to live your own life well and not worry your dad and me. "

"Oh!"

Liu Yu, who was still a little unconvinced, was told by her own mother, but she didn't refute anymore.

Zhao Jinhe was very happy when he left.It is really great to have a mother-in-law who can help educate the daughter-in-law. Not only does it save my own energy, but it also tells him the truth that is inconvenient for him.Happiness is passed on from generation to generation.The reason is good family tradition and family training.

　Because everyone knows the reason 83 has not been released for the time being, 84 chapters will be released first to ensure that there are two updates a day

　　
　
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