If life had a starting line, someone was born in Rome

Chapter 5 So what is the meaning of our efforts?
Lin Feng's last sentence, "There are people outside of people, there is a sky beyond the sky, don't just sit and watch the sky without knowing it", can be said to have completely defeated the psychological defense of these students!
The children looked at the starting lines in front of them, which were only a few meters away, but they were actually out of reach. They squatted down slowly, covering their heads and faces in pain.

"What do you mean? Does it mean that no matter how hard I try, I can't catch up with others?"

One of the students muttered to himself subconsciously, and then began to sob quietly.

The mood and atmosphere are contagious, and gradually the sobbing on the runway began to grow.

"Then what's the use of my hard work?! I might as well not work hard!"

"Yeah! Then what's the point of us studying and studying day and night?"

"Woooooo! Parents, what is the meaning of my life?"

"..."

This scene fell in the eyes of all parties, with a lot of taste.

The school leader looked at Lin Feng, and a thin layer of sweat broke out on his back.

He admitted that what Lin Feng said was the truth, but on this occasion, this kind of behavior would definitely cause a lot of misunderstandings.

What exactly are the consequences for the school's reputation?How will this teaching activity be carried out in the future?
In a hurry, the school leader didn't have the heart to think about other things at all.

Professor Zhang Li next to him looked at Lin Feng, frowning slightly, thoughtfully.

As an education expert hired by the school, he has no conflict of interest with the school, so he will not be disturbed by various factors like the school leader when looking at problems.

At this moment, recalling the ten questions Lin Feng asked, he found that each question had a deep meaning.

The first question is the education background of the parents. It sounds mediocre at first, but you will know it after careful inspection.

Parents with high academic qualifications have a strong learning ability and have accumulated relatively more knowledge.

If children can have such parents, then they may be able to solve the problems directly with their own parents without asking the teacher.

And parents with low education, when their children ask questions, they can only ask the children to wait and ask the teacher.

But the child's thirst for knowledge has a time limit, saying that he will go to the teacher the next day.

But whether the child asked or not in the end, the parents didn't know.

Over time, the gap will naturally emerge, and this is not a matter of IQ.

As a result, the gap between the two types of children has further widened.

The second question, please have one-on-one tutoring.

Even if parents are not well-educated and unable to help their children with homework, as long as financial resources allow, most parents will hire one-on-one tutoring for their children.

In this case, children who are also behind in their grades, those who have tutoring will naturally improve their grades more easily and faster than those without tutoring.

Moreover, some children with top-notch grades may improve their grades after receiving tutoring, and even learn the next stage of knowledge in advance after the holidays!
And these are things that cannot be learned in school classrooms, and there is no way to learn them in advance.

Therefore, there is a huge difference between having and not having tutoring.

The question about maintaining a specialty is also very interesting.

May I ask which parent does not hope that his son will become a dragon and his daughter will become a phoenix?

When I was young, I gritted my teeth and had to report for special classes.

However, it is easy to get started but difficult to master, and it requires parents to devote not only money but also time and energy.

Many children learned a "specialty" more or less when they were young. How long did it last?

Only two or three years!
It is a huge gap in itself to be able to study until now after schoolwork.

And whether parents have been praising their children in front of relatives and friends is also an idea.

Parents praise their children and regard their children as their own glory. This sense of recognition will infect the children and make them confident and self-reliant.

And if a child who lacks encouragement is more likely to be living in depression at all times, because from his point of view, he has tried his best, but his parents will never say that it is not enough, not enough hard work, not enough grades, not enough personality...

Without the support of parents' sense of identity for a long time, children will lose self-confidence, become introverted, and shrink back.

The expectation under this kind of pressure will cut off the child's wings.

The future development of these two kinds of children is stronger and weaker, which can be seen at a glance.

This question has nothing to do with money, but actually asks whether the child's spiritual world is rich!

Regarding the possibility of studying abroad, Zhang Li didn't think that Lin Feng meant admiring foreign countries, and thought that foreign schools were better than domestic ones.

But if the child can study abroad, that is an extra option in life.

There is a big difference between "can go but not go" and "can't go, so I can't go".

Whether the parents have five social insurances and one housing fund is related to a series of issues such as the parents' future medical care and pension.

Parents can get medical treatment and care for the elderly without worry, and children can work hard in their careers after they grow up.

From the fact that there are no brothers and sisters, it can also be seen whether the parents have sufficient resources and the ability to raise two children.

For people nowadays, having only one child is more of a forced helplessness. Most parents do not want to have one, but dare not have one.

And this kind of helplessness of pouring all resources on one child will cause great pressure on both parents and children.

There is a difference between not having a choice and having a choice.

I also asked my parents if they have a fixed workplace. Having a fixed workplace means a stable income and a stable living environment.

Stability is a necessary condition for raising a good child.

If there is no stable job, the sense of drift and pressure will subtly affect children...

Zhang Li was analyzing Lin Feng's various deep meanings when the phone rang suddenly, interrupting his train of thought.

Taking out his mobile phone, Zhang Li looked at the number, hesitated for a moment, and hung up directly.

Looking back at the playground, he muttered to himself:
"But, Lin Feng, if you expose the bloody reality to the children now, how will you deal with the children's collapse?"

At this moment, there was a "wow", and Zhang Li looked in the direction of the sound.

A man kicked off his chair and stood up, shouting excitedly at Lin Feng:

"You teacher, what are your intentions?!"

He looked at his crying daughter on the runway and was heartbroken:
"A teacher, just teach well, but if you have to do this, is it fun?!"

From this point of view, they are the parents of the more than 50 untouched children.

Accompanied by his emergence, another seven or eight parents stood up one after another, all glaring at Lin Feng.

yes!Lin Feng was right!

There is indeed a gap between their parents, which also determines that the starting line of the children is different.

But how many years can children be innocent?

In the future, they will be severely beaten by society. Now let them live a peaceful life, can't they just concentrate on studying?What are you talking about?
The corner of the school leader's mouth twitched. Isn't this just worrying about something? !
"Where's the class teacher? Hurry up, go and persuade him."

However, without him speaking, the audience is already full of teachers and parents.

"Father Xiao Zhang, don't get excited, just talk if you have something to say."

"Big sister, big sister! Peace is the most important thing! Take your fingernails off..."

"I feel distressed when I see the child crying, but if there is a conflict with the teacher, will the child still be able to read?"

"Hey, how many years can we protect our children? That's all, I think that teacher is just reckless, not really bad."

"..."

Everyone was pulling and persuading, and the parents' seat was in a mess.

In the midst of this chaos, Lin Feng took the initiative to walk over and smiled lightly:
"Parents, I know you are anxious, but please take it easy."

???

This is the end of the matter, is there anything more to say?
The parents looked at Lin Feng suspiciously, and reluctantly suppressed the unhappiness in their hearts.

Lin Feng looked at the parents who had already stood up, and said:

"You should be the parents of those 50-odd children?"

"Just right, please come and join me in the next round of comparative experiments."

(End of this chapter)