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Chapter 152 Can communication solve problems?So what does the beating I received count? (Three-in-one monthly pass plus updates)

As soon as Lin Feng said this, the audience in the live broadcast room became excited.

"Damn it, I originally thought that Wang Jianfeng and Zhang Xin were in similar situations, but I didn't expect there to be such a big difference!"

"Before, I swore that Wang Jianfeng was just like Zhang Xin looking for recognition in the game. It was a slap in the face."

"Teacher Lin is right. Wang Jianfeng's grades have always been very good, so in reality there is no lack of recognition and sense of achievement. Zhang Xin's situation cannot be copied mechanically."

"As expected of Teacher Lin! He was so keen that he noticed the different needs of the two children through the differences in games, and thus discovered the root cause of the problem!"

"Two words: admire!!"

"In addition to admiring Teacher Lin, I also feel sorry for the child Wang Jianfeng. It turns out that from the child's perspective, many things are not good."

"Yes, I used to think that it was a good thing for Wang Jianfeng's parents to pick up and accompany their children, but now it seems that they have deprived their children of their physical and mental freedom and social rights."

"As a parent, I also have to reflect on whether the things I think are good have caused any trouble to my children."

"After Teacher Lin's guidance, I now begin to understand Wang Jianfeng."

"Yes, if I think about it from his perspective, if I were Wang Jianfeng, I might not be able to persist until I am admitted to key junior high schools and key high schools."

“Oh, it’s so lonely without friends!!”

"Besides, Wang Jianfeng has not had many friends since he was a child. In high school, he came into contact with mobile phones and games, and when he met new friends, he naturally became addicted to them. Although this is wrong, it is also normal. He has rebounded after hitting bottom!"

"Teacher Lin said that this is a kind of retaliatory compensation. It is so right. I have had this experience. When I was a child, my parents thought that stuffed toys would distract me and would not buy them for me. I was greedy for other things. Now that I have grown up, I don’t actually need stuffed toys anymore. However, I don’t know why I am keen on buying all kinds of stuffed toys. I have a whole cabinet of stuffed toys at home..."

"Haha, I was not allowed to eat snacks at home when I was a child. They said they were junk food. Therefore, I am now keen on collecting and tasting various snacks from all over the world...I will even go to the school gate just to have a few bites of them. The food sold by the growers and stalls... Sigh! The needs that were not met in childhood will be filled when you grow up. I can understand Wang Jianfeng."

"..."

Backstage at the show, director Liu Yong was filled with emotion as he watched the discussion in the barrage area.

"Except Teacher Lin, who would have thought that parents' excessive involvement in their children's lives would actually be an intrusion into their children's 'free' will?"

Now Lin Feng has clarified everything, and Liu Yong has finally cleared up the clouds.

Indeed, whether it is an adult or a child, first of all, he is a "person" and will have personal needs.

From their own perspective, parents give their children what they think "the children need."

Do children actually need it?

It's hard to say.

At least, what Wang Jianfeng's parents gave Wang Jianfeng was something he didn't want.

In this way, Liu Yong also began to understand Wang Jianfeng.

It's wrong to be addicted to games, but this is also his helpless resistance.

In real life, he wants to make new friends and play and relax with his friends. These requests are not allowed by his parents.

But when the needs are not met, just as the audience in the barrage area said, everyone will find a way to satisfy them.

Therefore, I have to compensate for my childhood as an adult.

The same goes for Wang Jianfeng. If he can't meet my needs in reality, he will find a way in the virtual world.

So much so that I ended up getting addicted to the game...

Thinking of this, Liu Yong looked at Lin Feng with admiration.

He originally thought that he would be able to keep up with Teacher Lin's ideas this time, but in the end, he was always one step behind.

"This is... a judgment call!"

Liu Yong couldn't help but sigh.

Beside him, Wu Peng said to Sun Wei in surprise:
"I also said that Wang Jianfeng was similar to Zhang Xin, but now that I hear it, they are completely different."

Sun Wei paused and smiled relievedly:
"Aren't you different from them? It can be seen that no situation in the world is exactly the same."

Wu Peng nodded, then looked at Lin Feng with admiration and said:

"As expected of Teacher Lin! Just because the game is different, you can figure out so many things, and all of them are hits! It's incredible."

Sun Wei also smiled and said:

"Teacher Lin never sees a problem in a one-size-fits-all manner. We all know this, but we still get into trouble."

Wu Peng chuckled:
"What if it's Teacher Lin?"

The two smiled at each other.

Then, Sun Wei thought of something and sighed:

"Actually, it's not easy for Wang Jianfeng. Think about me, my parents are also very strict, but I can't get into a key high school..."

Speaking of this, Sun Wei's face turned a little red.

Wu Peng also blushed a little and said sheepishly:

"Ahem, I will study hard in the future, like Wang Jianfeng before."

Sun Wei adjusted her expression and smiled:
"Wang Jianfeng should also be very powerful in the future. A creature like a top student, as long as he turns a corner, he will still fly all the way."

Having said that, the two of them were full of expectations for where things would develop next.

However, at this time, the two of them thought of the uninvited guest at Wang Jianfeng's house - Wang Jianfeng's uncle.

"Wang Jianfeng's uncle, I don't know what's going on now. Is his face swollen?"

Wu Peng raised his eyebrows and said with some gloating.

However, Sun Wei shook her head:
"A person like him who is stubborn and only knows how to beat and scold children may not be able to listen to what Teacher Lin says."

"what?!"

Wu Peng was a little surprised and a little angry:

"Children are not the property of their parents. The more they beat and scold them, the more they fail to communicate, and the less likely they are to solve problems. Sooner or later, conflicts at home will break out!"

Sun Wei nodded.

However, it was the two of them who understood the truth, not Wang Jianfeng's uncle. Now, both of them were a little discouraged.

"It's okay, it's okay. Let's keep reading. Maybe there will be a turn for the better."

This time, it was Wu Peng who comforted Sun Wei.

The two continued to stare at the screen.

……

Wang Jianfeng's home.

Wang Jianfeng's parents were sitting on the sofa, listening to Lin Feng's analysis and watching the barrage.

After listening to Lin Feng's words, Wang Jianfeng's mother pushed her husband's elbow in surprise:

"Hey, listen, this is different from what we thought before."

Wang Jianfeng’s father scratched his head and said:
"I have been comparing the situation of Zhang Xin's family before! Now it sounds like I am totally wrong!"

The couple looked at each other and saw the shock and joy in each other's eyes.

"As expected of Teacher Lin, he found the root of the problem as soon as he took action. Without him, we don't know how many detours we would have taken!"

Wang Jianfeng’s mother said with emotion:

"Listen to what Jianfeng said. He wanted to play with his classmates, but we didn't let him... Thinking about it now, it's not a big deal. We were too harsh on him."

Wang Jianfeng’s father nodded and echoed:

"At that time, I mainly thought that my children would go to big cities in the future, and it would be useless to make friends now. Who could have known that it would turn into such a big problem?"

Wang Jianfeng’s mother sighed:

"This is what we want, and it is different from what the children want."

Wang Jianfeng's father nodded, and then he saw the barrage area. Regarding the retaliatory compensation speech, he quickly nudged his wife:
"Look, there are a lot of kids like Jianfeng."

Wang Jianfeng's mother squinted her eyes, got closer and took a closer look, and then her heart tightened:
"It turns out that if children's needs are suppressed for a long time, there will be such bad consequences! These children...my Jianfeng...ugh!"

Seeing this, she lost her composure and thought about it for a moment. It seems that this kid Jianfeng really likes basketball?
So, Wang Jianfeng’s mother said with a sigh of relief:
"Otherwise, let's buy the child a new basketball and some basketball uniforms, and let him go out to play, right?"

Wang Jianfeng’s father smiled:

"I think it's okay, but... let's ask Jianfeng if he wants it? Otherwise, we'll force him to play basketball again."

At this point, the couple looked at each other and smiled.

"In the future, we should listen more to the children's opinions and don't always start from our own point of view."

"Okay! We can't let Teacher Lin work in vain, right?"

Uncle Wang Jianfeng on the side was stunned when he heard the discussion between his sister and brother-in-law!
The surprised expression on his face never stopped.

If I heard Lin Feng mention before that the problem was with his parents, it was an impact on his outlook on life.

So now, after hearing Lin Feng's explanation, the uncle felt that his three views had been completely subverted.

However, he would not admit that what Lin Feng said was reasonable.

It’s all nonsense!
Uncle Wang Jianfeng was filled with contempt:
Can you tell such a skill by playing a game?What do today's children lack?
After a pause, Uncle Wang Jianfeng confirmed:

This teacher is just following what the child Jianfeng is saying!
The purpose is to gain the children's trust and achieve your own goal of sensationalism!
Because in his opinion, first of all, today's children have no shortage of food and drink, and can still study. Compared with when he was a child, they are countless times happier. How can they still lack anything!

Secondly, my sister and brother-in-law have done a great job!

How many rural people can start a business step by step like them and afford a house in the town?
Moreover, he treats his children very well, as evidenced by Wang Jianfeng's ability to get into a key high school in the county.

The situation in their family makes me, the eldest brother, envious and jealous. How could there be a problem?
Why did Lin Feng say it was the parents' problem?

Why do you think it is your sister and brother-in-law who are restraining and suppressing your children?
Moreover, the barrage had small characters and kept floating around. It made people dizzy. Is there anything worthy of my sister getting closer to see?
What a mess! !
Not to mention hearing his sister and brother-in-law talking seriously about their own problems, he couldn't bear it anymore.

Therefore, Wang Jianfeng's uncle spoke directly to the couple:

"Wait a minute, it's useless for you to talk so much!"

The uncle sighed heavily and said:
"Oh, what is there to understand about a child?!"

As soon as these words came out, Wang Jianfeng's parents frowned and disagreed very much.

Children are human beings too!

However, before they could speak, Uncle Wang Jianfeng continued:

"The situation in your family is that this kid Jianfeng is just too playful!"

"How important is the high school stage! Getting into a good university is the first priority!"

"Now is the time to put pressure on him and force him to study hard."

Having said this, Uncle Wang Jianfeng pointed at the TV:

"You have been brainwashed by Teacher Lin. If this continues, this kid Jianfeng will be destroyed in your hands!"

As the uncle talked, he even said that he was in a hurry, and ordered loudly:

"Listen to me and send this kid Jianfeng to Professor Mu Yi! We can't afford to delay him!"

As soon as the order came out, Wang Jianfeng's father became unhappy and said directly:
"Uncle Jianfeng, now is not the time to talk about this."

Wang Jianfeng’s father also pointed at the TV and said:
"We as husband and wife respect Teacher Lin very much!"

Wang Jianfeng’s mother also nodded:

"Our family's problems are about to be solved by Teacher Lin, so why send it to Professor Mu Yi?"

"Yes!"

Wang Jianfeng’s father waved his hand and said:
"Sending it to Professor Mu Yi costs money, time, and energy, not to mention."

"What if Jianfeng comes back and becomes like your Yucheng?!"

Speaking of this, Wang Jianfeng’s mother also had something to say:
"Jianfeng can talk and laugh with Teacher Lin now, and he will talk and laugh with us in the future. This is a normal family relationship. Yucheng that child..."

Wang Jianfeng’s mother hesitated to speak:

"...You still have to serve some snacks."

When he heard what his sister and brother-in-law said, it meant that there was something wrong with the child Yucheng, and Uncle Wang Jianfeng became angry.

"My child is very good." He stamped his foot angrily:

"Isn't this good for you? Now you are talking about my Yucheng."

Seeing that his uncle was anxious, Wang Jianfeng's father immediately realized that something was wrong with what he said before, so he immediately softened his attitude and explained:

"Uncle, it's not that I won't adopt your suggestion, and it's not that I have any opinions about you or that kid Yucheng, it's just that there is a better choice now."

When Wang Jianfeng's mother heard this, she quickly came out to smooth things over:

"Yes, look, Jianfeng and Teacher Lin are talking and laughing, quite like children. Didn't you always say that Yucheng is too dull before? It means that we all hope that our children can be more lively."

After saying this, Uncle Wang Jianfeng was at a loss. He stared at the TV angrily and refused to say anything.

He just has one thought right now. Time will prove that I am right. Then you can come and ask me for Professor Mu Yi’s contact information!

Seeing that he stopped talking, Wang Jianfeng's parents sighed slightly and continued watching the live broadcast.

on the live screen.

Wang Jianfeng lowered his head and digested Lin Feng's words just now, feeling shocked in his heart.

It turns out that I have a desire to retaliate and compensate?
If you think about it carefully, this is indeed what he did.

If you can't make friends in real life, then try your best to make friends online.

At this time, Wang Jianfeng felt a heartfelt admiration for Lin Feng.

Teacher Lin's insightful ability is so strong that he can restore the truth of the matter as if he were peeling off the cocoon.

At the same time, Wang Jianfeng smiled bitterly.

Why do I get annoyed and quarrel with my parents when I can't even exchange a few words with each other?
It's because I have been restrained for too long.

Thinking of this, Wang Jianfeng looked at Lin Feng with a touch of emotion in his eyes.

Teacher Lin really spoke to his heart in every word and helped him summarize everything.

He is really a good teacher who understands children!

"Mr. Lin, thank you!"

Wang Jianfeng said emotionally:

"Actually, I have said many things to my parents, but they didn't understand. Only you, after listening patiently, can still understand me."

Having said this, Wang Jianfeng's eyes flashed with admiration:
"Your conclusion is correct. I didn't even realize that I was resisting my parents' excessive restraint. I used to think that they didn't understand me and that they were so annoying..."

Having said this, Wang Jianfeng felt a little ashamed:
"If I could clearly express what you summarized before, my parents might not be able to listen."

Lin Feng smiled, looked at Wang Jianfeng kindly, and said:

"Jianfeng, you don't have to blame yourself. As the saying goes, those who are in charge of the authorities are confused and the beholder knows clearly. The teacher can conclude this, isn't it because he is on the outside?"

Even so, Wang Jianfeng knew.

Teacher Lin was comforting himself and couldn't help but identify with him even more.

At this time, Lin Feng continued:

"There is no point dwelling on the past. We should move forward."

look ahead?

Wang Jianfeng's eyes widened and he was a little confused.

Lin Feng smiled slightly:
"Now that I understand the situation in your family and have found the root of the problem, is it time to solve the problem?"

"Oh! Yes!"

Wang Jianfeng nodded like a chicken pecking at rice.

Then, Lin Feng stared at the camera and said solemnly:
"Jianfeng's father and mother, you should also be watching the live broadcast, right?"

"Now please come to Jianfeng's room. I have something to tell you."

"Besides, I think your Jianfeng also has something to say to you."

Wang Jianfeng's parents listened to the conversation between their child and Lin Feng, and felt mixed in their hearts.

"The child's father, we always complain that the child does not communicate with us, but behind this refusal to communicate, it turns out that the child has already said it, but we did not listen..."

Wang Jianfeng's mother said bitterly.

Wang Jianfeng’s father lowered his head:
"It's us parents who have closed the door to communication ourselves!"

The couple looked at each other with deep guilt in their eyes.

They have always said that they want to understand their children, but when it comes to actions, they want to achieve the purpose of making them more obedient by understanding them...

Even Jianfeng was like that, and they were still forcing him to follow their own requirements.

"Ugh!!!"

Both of them sighed at the same time.

At this time, Lin Feng's voice came from the TV, asking them to go upstairs to solve the problem.

This time, their moods suddenly lifted.

"Teacher Lin means that we need to solve our family's problems!"

The couple's hands suddenly held each other's hands, and deep joy arose in their hearts!

"That's really good!"

"I've been looking forward to this moment!"

At that moment, the two of them stood up with a "swish" and said excitedly:

"Let's go and listen to what Teacher Lin will teach us."

"Well, you must listen carefully this time. You can't make the same mistake in the future."

As the two of them spoke, they opened their legs and prepared to go out and go upstairs.

However, at this time, I saw my uncle out of the corner of my eye, and I felt a little embarrassed. Isn't this a little careless?
Then, Wang Jianfeng’s father said:
"Um...uncle, you heard it too. Teacher Lin has something to do with our couple, so just sit here for a while."

Wang Jianfeng’s mother also said:
"It's just like home! It doesn't matter if we are here or not."

After saying that, the two of them joined hands and hurried upstairs.

As for Wang Jianfeng's uncle, he was left in the room by his sister and brother-in-law.

"..."

The uncle had no time to speak.

Just staring blankly at their backs as they walked out, he suddenly felt embarrassed.

"Now, my child is up there, and my brother-in-law and his family are also up there, so what am I doing here?"

Uncle Wang Jianfeng felt a thorn in his back and could not sit still.

"Should I go up too?"

Go ahead, you're not invited.

don't go...

Wang Jianfeng's uncle didn't want to admit it, he wanted to be there.

I want to hear what Teacher Lin will say to his sister and brother-in-law, and then give some pertinent opinions.

"Hey, mother-in-law, please don't invite me to this kind of occasion... okay?"

Now, he was a little angry because he didn't get the invitation.

……

And upstairs.

Guo Yucheng, Wang Jianfeng's cousin, listened to the conversation between the two, looking surprised and inexplicably shocked.

Before, Teacher Lin said that when he thought the problem was with the parents, he didn't believe it, but he still listened to it to find out what was going on.

However, after listening to them chatting for a long time, it turns out that my cousin plays games really because of his parents’ fault! ! !

This realization was difficult for Guo Yucheng to accept.

"Pressure? Retaliatory compensatory behavior?"

Guo Yucheng murmured, thinking over and over again in his mind about his cousin's previous conversation with Lin Feng, trying to deduce other meanings.

But it doesn't mean anything else.

In Teacher Lin's opinion, my cousin became addicted to games because his parents were too restrictive and too stressful, and he was deprived of the right to make friends.

Even this argument has convinced him.

Moreover, Guo Yucheng could not ignore one thing, that is, Lin Feng's words were full of understanding and tolerance for his cousin.

This emotion was something he had never experienced before.

In this regard, Guo Yucheng felt deeply strange and incomprehensible.

How could anyone in this world think that playing games is right?
However, Guo Yucheng heard his cousin say, "Teacher Lin, everything you said is right," and he meant that he wanted to have a good talk with his parents.

Guo Yucheng was confused again.

Isn’t playing games really a heinous crime? ?
Can children and parents sit down and discuss things as equals?

It was difficult for Guo Yucheng not to take it into himself and start to think...

When did I start playing games?What do I think about when I play games?
Am I really what my father said, that I am not self-disciplined enough and willing to degenerate?

If it were me today and I proposed to sit down and talk with my father, how would my father react?
After thinking about it, an uncontrollable thought came to Guo Yucheng's mind:

"Could it be that...my father's concept of education is wrong?!"

At this moment, Guo Yucheng's three views were completely subverted!
He didn't believe, and didn't want to believe, that his father's educational ideas about him were wrong.

Guo Yucheng began to tremble when he thought of the severe beatings he had received at home and the punishment he suffered at Professor Mu Yi's place.

At this moment, he was in a turmoil!
It was at this time that Lin Feng's voice entered his chaotic mind.

"Do you still want my sister-in-law and uncle to come up?"

This invitation made Guo Yucheng's heart skip a beat.

What if, my sister-in-law and uncle also think what Teacher Lin said makes sense.

What if they sat down calmly and talked about their cousin playing games.

If my cousin is addicted to games, it can be solved simply.

in case……

Guo Yucheng's hands were firmly grasping the seat handle.

He didn't know at this moment whether he still hoped that his cousin's family could solve the problem smoothly.

In his heart, there was even a restless resentment and anger roaring at this time:
"Now that we can communicate and solve this problem, and my cousin can even play games later, what about me?"

"What the hell is it that I have been beaten and cursed by my father and Professor Mu Yi for more than half a year?!"

At this moment, Guo Yucheng clenched his teeth tightly, and a faint smell of rust began to fill his mouth!

However, he couldn't care anymore!

Just then, there was a light knock on the door.

"Dong dong dong."

Every blow hit Guo Yucheng's heart!

The voices of Wang Jianfeng’s parents also came:

"Jianfeng, can we come in?"

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