see you in spring

Chapter 207 New Troubles
In mid-April, with the domestic epidemic under effective control, the attitude of the people across the country towards the epidemic has changed from fear and panic at the beginning to calm acceptance and orderly prevention.

Because of the epidemic, Sun Yan and Liu Quantao divorced, and they changed from housewives to professional women. They suffered in the workplace but persevered stubbornly.

Another family cook, Dongqing, also returned to work because of the epidemic.He was luckier than Sun Yan in that he no longer had to work his way up from the lowest level. Instead, he became the department manager of the branch as soon as he got out of the mountain.Although he is a deputy, fortunately, he doesn't care about this. He focuses on technology and has now become a veritable pillar of the family.

Gu Yu and Zhou You are back together, one is teaching their children online classes at home, and the other is staying at home for vacation because the zoo is not yet open.The two of them have more or less changed some of their previous tempers, so getting along now is more sweet than troublesome.

Since starting work, except for maternity leave, this is the longest time Jia Lie has stayed at home.

After Dongqing went to work, Jia Lie at home did a lot of things that she had always wanted to do but had no time to do.For example, I threw away many unused things at home, replaced expired medicines, sorted out my daughter's picture books, cooked hometown dishes for Dongqing and her daughter, and bought insurance for the whole family.After all this was done, she downloaded a yoga app on her phone.After sitting at home for too long, she was worried that her lumbar and cervical vertebrae would not be able to bear it. She was also worried that her figure would be out of shape, so she wanted to seize the time to practice when she had free time at home.

Unfortunately, after she downloaded the software, her children started taking online classes at home.She never opened the software again.

Since the start of school for students has been postponed again and again, Jia Lie, who works from home and takes care of his children's studies, initially spent every day collecting representative myths and stories from ancient China and the four major classics, and read them carefully to his children before going to bed.Later, when her child didn't listen well in class and she was yelled at [-] times for homework, she simply searched for story audio on the Internet and let her child fall asleep listening to the audio.

When she was busy at work, she thought about when she could take a long vacation and spend time with Little Winter Melon.Now that she can finally be at home with her children every day, she just wants to go to work.She was afraid that if she stayed at home any longer, her daughter would almost disown her as her mother, and she was also afraid that one day she would be unable to help but kick this daughter out.

Since taking online classes, the relationship between Jia Lie and his daughter has faced the biggest challenge ever.

I see children who originally had no chance to use electronic products during school days, but now use online classes as an excuse to "never leave their phones" every day.Jia Lie was not only worried that she would not pay attention to the class, but was also worried that she would become short-sighted.

It didn't take long for Jia Lie's worries to come true.

Jia Lie was working at home that day and asked Xiao Donggua to listen to the class by herself in the room.

I thought my daughter was listening attentively in the room, but Jia Lie finished the conference call and took some time to get fruit for the child, thinking of going in to reward her.Unexpectedly, when she quietly opened the door and walked in, she found a small game screen opened under the child's computer.And Xiaodonggua's attention was not in the teacher's small window at all, and his hand was below the game button from time to time.

Jia Lie became angry at the time, but in order to protect the child's face, the teacher did not let her play games know.Jia Lie just coughed lightly at the door, and his daughter was so frightened that she turned off the game.

After class was over, Jia Lie asked his children to uninstall all the games on the computer immediately.

Unexpectedly, Xiao Donggua refused and insisted that she only started playing after class. The teacher was just assigning homework and not teaching at all.

The mother and daughter had a big fight over this.

It was the first time that Jia Lie saw his daughter who was so aggressive and talked back at every word.Her daughter's impatient state reminded her of her own rebellious youth period.But she remembered that her rebellious phase only started when she was thirteen or fourteen years old. This daughter is only six or seven years old now. Why did she have a rebellious phase so early?

When Dongqing came home at night, before Jia Lie could complain, her daughter rushed over and hugged Dongqing and cried aggrievedly.

Jia Lie didn't expect that today's children, at such a young age, would already learn to complain first to evildoers.She was so angry that she listed all the "good things" the child had done today, and asked Dongqing to comment immediately and let him talk about his precious daughter.

Dongqing looked at the wronged and crying daughter on the left, and at the angry wife on the right.Putting down her bag, she coughed twice: "To be fair. In fact, I think the child did nothing wrong. It's fun and educational. You shouldn't force her to delete all the games."

Jia Lie was stunned for a few seconds, thinking he heard wrongly.Dongqing actually said that she was wrong in front of the child?
Dongqing saw that Jia Lie’s expression was not right, so she hurried to make amends, and said to the child: “Of course, mother did this for your study. In the future, even if the teacher is about to finish class and is not teaching, you are not allowed to play games.” You can play after class or after school, do you hear me?"

The daughter nodded obediently.Seeing the two of them acting like a loving father and a filial daughter, Jia Lie was almost furious.

She thought Dongqing would be on her side, but she didn't expect Dongqing to speak for her daughter.Not only did he not let his daughter realize her mistake, he also encouraged her daughter's arrogance and let her know that her father was on her side, making her more confident in the future.How can a mother like her educate her children in the future?

With great difficulty, Jia Lie held back the anger of arguing with Dongqing in front of the children, and said to Dongqing: "You come in for me!"

Dongqing knew that there would be another noise when he entered, and he looked tired: "I just got off work, and I didn't even drink. If you have anything to say, let's talk about it after dinner."

He originally wanted to tell Jia Lie to calm down first, but unexpectedly, Jia Lie was completely furious. He pointed directly at his nose and scolded: "The child is ignorant, are you ignorant too? If you don't come in right away, No one wants to eat today!"

Jia Lie entered the room first angrily and slammed the door hard.

In the living room, Holly looked helplessly at the startled daughter next to her and said, "It's okay, Dad will go in and talk to Mom about something, we'll have dinner later."

Little Winter Melon grabbed her father and quickly poured a glass of water and handed it to Dongqing.

Dongqing was stunned for a second, and the next second, he was so moved that he took it, patted the child's head, drank it in one gulp, and said in a low voice, "Don't worry, I will be able to convince your mother."

The two secretly pulled the hook and smiled at each other before Dongqing got up and walked towards the room.

As soon as Dongqing closed the door, Jia Lie yelled at him: "What do you mean? I work so hard at home every day, I have to go to work, take care of the children, and take care of the housework. You don't want to help me, but you want to add fuel to the fire." ,What do you want to do?"

"I don't want to add fuel to the fire. I'm just analyzing the pros and cons." Dongqing coaxed in a soft voice.

"Analyze the pros and cons? You put it nicely! You just want to make the child happy, saving effort and worry." Jia Lie said bitterly: "How easy it is to make the child happy, without offending anyone, and the child still kisses you. How good are you in analysis? ah."

"Look, where did you go? Talking about the child, why did you end up talking about me again." Dongqing sat down by the bed, a little impatient.

"I'm not bothered yet, but you're getting annoyed first?" Jia Lie said angrily, "You don't see anyone all day long, and you leave me with a lot of troubles at home. When you get home, you'll be a shopkeeper. Isn’t it great to make some money now?”

This sounded familiar to Holly.A few months ago, he was the one who said these words. Now, when these words come out of Jia Lie's mouth, he feels a little magical.

Putting it into perspective, from his previous perspective, he was indeed dissatisfied with Jia Lie.Now that he has become the Jia Lie he once was, of course he understands Jia Lie's feelings better at this time.

Holly sighed: "I really don't mean that. Of course I know you are working hard at home, but the child is now in the first rebellious period in his life. We can't force it, and we have to pay attention to the method of doing things."

"I've never heard of a child being rebellious at such a young age. Stop using these fallacies to prevent her from being a good person. By then she won't be able to study well and won't do well in the exam. I'll see if you're in a hurry."

Dongqing patiently explained to her: "You can check it out. Early childhood education has developed much more than it did back then. Six to seven years old is the first rebellious period in life. I know your worries, but today's children It is no longer the same as it was back then. Don’t always educate and guide today’s children in the rude and single way of the past.”

"Then tell me, what can you do to make her concentrate in class without arousing her rebellious heart, so that she can delete the game willingly?" Jia Lie had her mobile phone in her hand, and she had already found out what Dongqing said During the first rebellious period, she found that what Dongqing said was right, so her anger dropped a lot.

"Look, you still don't understand what I mean. When a child grows up, she not only needs the knowledge in textbooks, but she also needs more knowledge outside of textbooks. It's not just lying on the table reading and doing homework every day that counts as learning and Growth. Think about it, during the epidemic, we stopped a lot of work, why are we still demanding on our children?"

"What do you mean? Leave it alone? Let it be free?"

"It's not that we don't care. I think that at this stage, we should get along with our children more in a family-friendly way, allowing her to freely explore her own interests, and then we can guide them peacefully and democratically."

Jia Lie disagreed: "Then her direction is to play games?"

"Just play games. Games are a new industry now. In their generation, incomplete insurance is a golden industry. We can't use our old experience to teach them how to face the future, are you right?"

"Just bullshit. In the final analysis, you just want to be a peacemaker and take care of yourself. I can't let her play games whenever she wants. You don't care, I have to care, otherwise this child will be useless. "

Dongqing didn't want to argue with her anymore: "Okay, okay, you control it. But we need to use a democratic way to manage it. Do you agree with this?"

Of course, Jia Lie didn't want to arouse the child's more confrontational emotions. Thinking of the careless child and the careless Dongqing in front of her, she suddenly felt frustrated, frustrated, and angry.

She said with a cold face: "I have my bottom line. If she crosses the line, I have no democracy to talk about."

(End of this chapter)