tenth year of teaching

Chapter 275 Resignation
A person's happiness or sadness must be justified as long as he is not pretending.You can share his happiness and sympathize with his sorrow, but you cannot tell him what to do, because this is against human nature. ——Wang Xiaobo
Commands are simple and crude, but direct and effective methods. Many people will involuntarily choose this method to solve problems when they are tired or busy.

For example, parents to children, teachers to students, leaders to subordinates, even you to me, husband to wife, friends to friends.But when things seem to be going smoothly, you will find that the effect is greatly reduced and cannot meet expectations at all, because you can control a person's behavior, but you cannot control his inner desires, and the inner heart will make the effect of the behavior low and ineffective.

"He can't order me to do it! I asked all the leaders of the Education Committee and I must resign. If I can't do it, I just can't do it. My family is like this now, do you want me to die in school?" Li Zhonghong wailed in the secretary's office When crying, it was the first time her mother issued a critical illness notice.

"Do you think this is a good idea? I'll give you an appropriate reduction in workload, or you can just stop doing it and you won't have to come on duty. We other cadres can take care of each other and get through it." The old secretary still comforted him gently.

"You mean that others help me, do I have to accept it? And if I don't do it, who will do the job in this position now? Whoever does it will say that I occupy the latrine and don't shit?"

The old secretary frowned: "Zhong Hong, this is not what a Communist Party member should say."

Li Zhonghong calmed down her emotions. She was determined to resign. She had been determined to quit all management jobs and only teach for more than a year.One is the heavy burden on the family, and the other is the experience of the past few years, which is really not enough to support myself to continue working.

"Secretary, I know you do it for my own good, but I do have difficulties that I can't adjust. Even if I beg you, please let me live. I can't let my mother not enjoy the blessing of children before she dies! "

Li Zhonghong's resignation was very tortuous. The cadre who took the position of director had already been registered by the Education Committee, and he was a young man born in the [-]s.Young people are unwilling to be cadres. Starting from the [-]s, Maslow mentioned in Psychological Needs that after people meet the lowest level of material needs in life, they pursue higher-level psychological needs.

Many parents born in the [-]s have already prepared material conditions, which also leads to their desire to pursue positions not as strong as their predecessors.

For Li Zhonghong, her parents are retired, she owns a car and a house, she has two children, and she has a high-level job.Although her husband works out of town, his annual salary is one million.Why are you still working so hard in your workplace?Especially when his mother is seriously ill and needs help.

"Secretary, have you heard this sentence? You raised me when I was young, and I will raise you when you are old. I don't want to regret my current decision after my parents pass away."

"Zhong Hong, you better think about it again. Let me tell you my story. My child is in elementary school, my parents are in poor health, and the school has heavy workload. I have to take the shuttle bus to see the elderly every weekend. We are here While studying on the road, when the shuttle bus turned a corner, I asked my son why people tend to move in the opposite direction?" The old secretary fell into memories again. "We learned physical knowledge such as inertia and force on the shuttle bus." He looked at Li Zhonghong firmly and said sincerely: "Think about it again, it's not easy to have come this far."

Li Zhonghong bit her lip and raised her head: "I'm sorry to disappoint you."

Chu Xia was called to the conference room on the third floor the next day. The principal, vice-principal, and secretary were all there. He asked about the situation at home recently, and got straight to the point.

"You see that Director Li's family has some special circumstances. Is there any problem with you taking on some of her work?"

Chu Xia knew her family's affairs, so she nodded: "No problem, the senior year is pretty busy here. I can do more with the Academic Affairs Office."

"Do you have any plans to have a second child?" the vice principal suddenly asked.

Chu Xia was stunned for a moment: "Not yet."

The three of them looked at each other and smiled, and Principal Guo nodded with satisfaction.

"You will take over the next work of the Academic Affairs Office. The first thing to do is to compete for positions in the next semester."

"Huh?" Chu Xia returned to the office confused and happened to see Li Zhonghong packing things.

"No, are you really quitting?"

"Yes, I completely agree this time, no need for me to talk nonsense." Li Zhonghong smiled with satisfaction.

I don't know if it was Chu Xia's illusion, but I still saw a trace of loneliness flash across her face.

"I have been in grade school for seven or eight years." She sat down on the armrest of the sofa. "At first, I followed the deputy director of academic affairs and taught the grades together. At that time, I had a bad temper, and I was inevitably criticized for what I posted and handed down. , sometimes I was so angry that I burst into tears. The old director said to me: ‘It’s just a matter of patience. As a leader, your belly is stretched out.’”

Chu Xia smiled and leaned on the edge of the table to chat with her.

"Actually, this position is just about looking at the scenery, but behind the scenes there are a lot of grievances. As for you, there is no need to be serious about everything. There are some people who you and she can't be serious about."

Chu Xia nodded, thinking of Li Guangqin, and she was very grateful to Li Zhonghong for taking the laboratory back.After taking over the job after the college entrance examination, no matter what tasks were assigned, Li Guangqin would be full of complaints and would either not answer the phone or reply to messages. Every time, a clerk would be assigned to watch her work.

"Let me tell you, pay attention to the position in the biology laboratory during the competition. Now Teacher Zhao and Xiao Lin are eyeing this position."

Teacher Zhao works as a clerk in the Academic Affairs Office. He was unsuccessful in the competition with Xiao Lin for a laboratory position last year.A new document came out later, saying that a laboratory technician was considered a front-office position, while Teacher Zhao was in a logistics position, a high-vocational low-level position, and would have to pay more than 1000 yuan less per month.Later, I repeatedly negotiated with the leaders and argued with Xiao Lin, but in the end I still failed to get what I wanted.

"Teacher Zhao has been keeping an eye on this matter. If you don't handle it well, it will be difficult for you." Li Zhonghong thought for a while and finally added: "Xiao Lin was successful in the competition because someone from the Education Committee said hello. I arranged things according to the instructions above, so if Teacher Guo has any objections, he can’t take it out on me."

"Oh, ah?" Chu Xia didn't expect that there were so many complicated relationships behind this. Her right temple began to beat bulgingly. She rubbed the bulging veins, feeling a little helpless.I have been on the frontline of teaching for many years, but I just don’t want to get involved in these human relations, which are complicated and involve too much.

"Anyway, you should be careful. When I leave, you will be left to take charge of the Academic Affairs Office."

Chu Xia nodded, which actually meant that she had to take responsibility.

(End of this chapter)