tenth year of teaching

Chapter 243 Choice
Character is a lever, it can double your value, and it can also double the meaning of your existence.

Family and work seemed to be in trouble at the same time. Chu Xia could not find an exit and could only persevere in the darkness.Fortunately, Little Stone has always been the reason for her to keep going. Ever since the little thing opened her mouth to speak, she started chattering non-stop every day.

"Mom, why do little trees have leaves?"

"Mom, why do I need to wear clothes?"

"Mom, why can other people's fathers play with the baby?"

"Mom, why do I need to eat?"

"Mom, why do girls speak in a high-pitched voice? Why don't boys speak in a high-pitched voice?"

Sweating in the early summer, this brat has all his weird ideas.The opportunity to change Chu Xia came from Dabei's conversation with his son. Because he couldn't see his father for a long time, Xiao Shitou gradually began to understand and would be envious when he saw other people's fathers playing with him.

When Dabei came back for the second time during the summer vacation, Xiao Shitou pulled his father in front of Aunt Wang, patted Dabei's leg and said proudly: "This is my dad! My dad! My dad!"

Every time I recall this scene, Chu Xia will feel sad, and I can't help but burst into tears.She knew that no matter what Dabei had done, it was impossible for the two of them to separate for the sake of the child in this life, at least she could not ignore the child's feelings and choose to separate easily.

At night, Dabei went to bed with his child and started the three thousand questions before going to bed as usual.

“Why does my bed have railings?”

"Because I'm afraid you'll fall."

"Why are you afraid that I will fall?"

"Because you are young!"

"Why am I small?"

Khan, "Because you haven't grown up yet!"

"Why haven't I grown up yet?"

"Because you are young!"

"Why am I small?"

.......
After looping it for dozens of times and skipping it, the little stone repeated enough, and finally the problem was changed.

"Why are there eyes behind my bed?"

"Because I want you to get out of bed!"

"Why do you want me to get out of bed?"

"Because you're still young!"

"Why am I still young?"

"Because you haven't grown up yet?"

.......
After half an hour of going back and forth, Dabei was in a dizzy state, and Little Stone said: "Why...why...why..."

Dabei: "I guess you will have to cry before you fall asleep today."

"why?"

.......
After a minute of silence, Dabei finally breathed a sigh of relief.

"Dad, I want to drink grandma."

……

When the bedroom finally became quiet, I remembered the snoring of the little thing.Dabei said softly: "How do you let him sleep every day?"

"Just give her a beating." Chu Xia was a little confused. She had basically developed the same routine as her son.

"Huh?" Dabei raised his voice.

"Don't worry, there's no real beating, just scaring." Chu Xia's voice deepened.

In any case, Dabei is a good father, a father who is patient and willing to accompany him.The only shortcoming is that he is too gentle and never loses his temper with his son. He can't help but respond to his son's requests.

Chu Xia sighed, she had no choice but to be the bad guy. No matter it was the elders in the family or Da Bei, no one was willing to discipline her strictly.Whenever there is a time when discipline is necessary, Chu Xia will take Little Shitou to the bedroom, lock the door, take out the key, and start educating, regardless of Little Shitou crying.

Doctor Zheng and Dabei would jump around in the living room anxiously. At first, Xiao Shitou would rely on someone's support to break up the cheating, but after a few times, he finally saw how powerful Chu Xia was and would not compromise no matter who told him clearly, so he became honest. .

No matter how many children around me will cry and roll in the mall because they don't buy gifts for them, Xiaoshi never has such a situation.But on the contrary, Chu Xia found that Xiao Shitou, who had been taking the child to school for more than a week, was shy to say hello, sensitive and introverted.At this time, she realized that she had been suffering from the sequelae of being too strict in management because she was afraid that her father would not be around and boys would not be easy to discipline.

After discussing with Dabei for a long time, we decided that we must take our children out whenever it is a holiday, so that we can travel thousands of miles and learn more.At the same time, she compared all urban kindergartens in Yuyang District, and finally selected Yingcai Expo, a private kindergarten that focuses on distinctive foreign language teaching, developing boys' masculinity, and focusing on children's performance on stage to build confidence.Because of the tight quota, she searched for talents a year in advance to get a quota. She was relieved when she made an unofficial reservation.

The senior year of high school is coming to an end soon. For Class 7, I will do as much as I can in the early summer.Because she is not eager for quick success and gets along well with students, most of them agree with some of her suggestions.Also because the junior college students did a better job, after the recruitment of Class 7, the remaining people were able to calm down and study.Also because everyone felt that too much time was wasted by playing around before, so they stopped making noise and listened to the teachers' arrangements and studied seriously.

Sun Peng finally followed his father's request and returned to school to continue studying. However, he told Chu Xia that even if he took the college entrance examination, he would only take the test of Chinese, Mathematics, and English, and he would definitely not take the comprehensive test. When the time came, he would directly take the results to enter the college.

Chu Xia shook her head and sighed secretly at the game between father and son.Game for the sake of game, why can't the father and son sit down and have a good talk?One wants authority, the other wants freedom, but in the end, it comes down to the opportunity of his own choice. Even if he wins, who can be the real winner?
The college entrance examination of Model 7 and Model [-] is coming as scheduled. Class [-] is getting quieter and quieter. Principal Guo is quietly observing. In early summer, Liu Ying may not be as hardworking and willing to spend time, but he gets along relatively harmoniously with the students. Different people adopt different methods. .Some have strict management and set higher requirements, while some talk more in private and move people with their emotions.

In terms of class management, it is not completely self-care, but by distributing class chores regardless of the training of class cadres, and devoting more energy to getting along with students and finding the motivation and starting point for learning.At the same time, she is also very encouraging, magnifying a certain advantage of each student, and telling parents stories about good students during class meetings.Behind every story there must be the difficulty of her constant communication. She is also tired, but the angle of tiredness is different, and the direction of time spent is also different.

So in the past six months, Class 7 has no more complaints, and of course she will hear her loud and severe criticism of the students in the corridor.Sometimes everyone was a little frightened when they heard it, but no student complained that she was not good. Guo Xiao was also surprised and asked some people to understand it.The common saying among students is that junior teachers will sacrifice their rest time to provide tutoring or psychological counseling for students. For a person who is willing to treat students well, no matter how much he "scolds" him, so what?It is enough to know that the teacher is only thinking of being good for oneself, and it is not really ignorant, so why do you say that the teacher is not good.

"The most important thing is that Teacher Chu's lectures are very humorous, so she is anxious. It must be because we have not done well during this period. If everyone is scolded once, they will naturally wake up and study harder." The boy said about his class teacher. With a proud face, he thought for a while and said: "The original head teacher was also very good. He always worked for us and worked very hard. Everyone knows it. But what he said was really unpleasant and we couldn't listen. No matter how good he was, who could appreciate it? Woolen cloth?"

(End of this chapter)