Beauty and Marriage

Chapter 73 Give birth to a child, two inches bigger hips

depressed!I'm glad I didn't show him my ghostly appearance.I hope I can hold on to it when he comes back!
Wish but just wish!
During the day, Shi Yun slept for a long time, and felt lucky at that time, but at night it became a disaster!She refused to sleep no matter what, and after a day of manual labor, her whole body was sore and limp from exhaustion, and even hurt!I was so sleepy that I couldn't open my eyes, but I couldn't sleep. I had to take care of her, hug her if she wanted to, climb with her if she wanted to crawl, and find a way to tease her and make her sit still if I didn't want to climb with her. This is not easy She doesn't know how to communicate, but she already has ideas, she is an actionist, she won't discuss with you, she will do what she wants to do!Anything that makes you feel unbelievable and incomprehensible!Like crawling to the bathroom to turn on the water!God, how could a child who can't walk do this?Then wet a lot of things, including you and her!After helping her dry and change her clothes, thinking about changing her own clothes, she crawled into the puddle of water on the ground again and got herself wet!This time I changed my strategy, changed her clothes, mopped up the water on the ground, and then changed my clothes again. She didn't know how to knock down the mop, so I was startled and cried desperately over there!

Be cruel, don't care about her, deal with yourself first, her crying has made your heart condemned!It is impossible to hug her and button her buttons, how can comforting others be used at the same time!I hate disheveled clothes so much, I can only hold her in disheveled clothes!
That's how messy it is, and how exhausting it is to get through each day!Every night, I will spend the last energy thinking about how to deal with her situations tomorrow, but there are new situations every day, even if it is the same situation, no matter how many times you practice, she can defeat you!
The most unlucky thing is that Shi Yun is having a good time, but I want to go to the bathroom. The third urgency of people is really unscientific.I left her to go to the bathroom, and I was worried, wondering what she was doing and if she was doing well!Not daring to exceed 3 minutes, I ran out to find her, but she was no longer in the ball pool!Neither is the living room!Suddenly, her crying came from our bedroom, why would Tang Yufeng complain about buying such a big house at this time!
"Shi Yun, what's wrong? I couldn't find my mother, did I? My mother went to the bathroom and told you!" After hugging and coaxing her for a while, she was fine!Shi Yun is a cheerful child, she always laughs more than she cries, and only when she cries does she realize that as long as she doesn't cry, everything can be compromised.

I lowered my face to discuss with Tang Yufeng, "Please invite that aunt to come here! It is really important to take care of children, but I think I am very irresponsible, and I often want to lose the rhyme of poetry!"

Tang Yufeng was a little surprised, "That aunt is in her hometown, and she won't come here until after fifteen, I told you so!"

"No!" I was a little annoyed, "You only said that housekeeping starts after the fifteenth year, and you have to hire other aunts after the fifteenth day."

"Sorry! It's only the eighth day of the eighth day today, and it will take another week! I'll see if I can find time to come back and bring her!"

"Forget it! It's my own choice!"

Tang Yufeng really didn't come back to help me. I know I should understand him. He said he couldn't help me. He is not a person who would shirk his responsibilities and hide from his laziness. There must be nothing he can do.However, I was really working hard and broke down!

Tang Yufeng didn't come back until very late, but Shiyun also slept very late, and I fought with Shiyun for another day!When I heard the sound of Tang Yufeng washing clothes, the original complaints against him disappeared, and he really helped me a lot!I know he must be very tired from work, maybe even more tiring than me taking care of my children!At least I can take the cart and push Shi Yun out to chat with the aunts in the community for a while.

Most of the aunts here come to help their children take care of their children. They say that they are unaccompanied here, and they just take care of a child.I miss the days at home very much. Although it was hard, I ended up relaxed and free.

They said that in the past, relatives and friends lived together. A group of adults took care of a group of children. The older children took care of the younger children. The children grew up before they knew it. Now it’s not possible. They live alone and don’t know anyone. Who, even if they have been in contact with each other for a year and a half, would not dare to pretend to be someone else for a while.For example, an old man said, I went to the property to pick up a courier and asked you to take care of the children for a while, would you agree?

I shook my head, "It's too much responsibility to take care of a child!"

"I can let go, but others don't dare to take over! I can only watch by myself! So it's tiring to take care of the children now!"

There are also young mothers who say that there are too many dangerous things now, and children cannot be out of the eyes of adults, and they don't know what dangers will happen.For example, some children swallowed preservatives by mistake, and the whole intestinal tract was broken; another example, now that everyone lives in a high-rise, some children crawled and fell down, how many cases!These are problems that didn't exist before.

The old man also said that looking at him without leaving his eyes is the most painful thing about raising a child!

And I think, I never get tired of watching it, but I have a pity that my arms are limited!Sometimes Shiyun doesn’t sleep without saying anything. She hugs her for more than three hours. The child looks small and weighs more than 20 kilograms. Occasionally, she feels kind and fun when she hugs her. But for more than three hours, she has never hugged a child like this. You can give it a try, hold any object for three hours, don't change positions too much during the period, and see what happens to people!I think my arm is really out of shape!I have grown some thick muscles, and I used to be very strict about my shape, but now that I have a child, I can't take care of these at all, and I can't take care of them!After standing for a long time, some hard meat has grown on the calf, which makes the legs look a bit bent. Since I was a child, the only thing I am satisfied with my appearance, and I can say that I am a little proud of it, is my pair of straight legs. The leg is gone, but I can only watch it deform, and then I heard people say that the muscles will degenerate!I can only hope that Shi Yun will grow up a bit, rest better, let it degenerate, and return my beautiful legs!There are also men who have stretched their hips and don't know how painful it is to have a baby, try pushing their hips out two inches!Of course this is only a small part of the pain of having a baby!It’s not to make men have to suffer the pain of childbirth like women, at least let us feel, you know this is a very painful thing, instead of taking it for granted that women give birth like this anyway!There are already many women who are unwilling to have children for this reason!Why, it is only natural for women to have children like this!Since we are not loved, we can choose not to have children, just like all men, if we don’t suffer, we don’t need to be loved!Before I gave birth to Shiyun, I wore a size 25 jeans. After giving birth, I looked thinner, but my waist was two sizes bigger, so I had to wear a size 27!
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