Beauty and Marriage

Chapter 7 Give birth to a child

After I got off my leave and started working, I still went to see my sister on weekends. After she got married, she didn’t live with me anymore. Instead, she rented a single apartment near the place where that person worked. I still lived in one bedroom and one living room.Although my sister told me that I don’t really need to live in one bedroom and one living room by myself, a single apartment is fine!I said I'm too lazy to move, this place is close to my work place, so let's live like this!But she, in order to accommodate that person, lived so far away and worked so hard.She said it's okay, part-time work is not a lifetime thing, and she hoped that his business would be done well, so she would do business with him, so she moved there, not to accommodate him!
My sister said that her in-laws are very nice people, and the wedding held by them is better than ours, so I said that's fine.She said that as long as there is a good wedding, she has no regrets about the wedding.She said several times, intentionally or unintentionally, that I had ruined her wedding.She said that she knew that the reason why my parents behaved like that was because I said a lot of bad things about that person in front of them.

Some of what I said is what I said, and some of them are not pleasing to the eye.Of course, this will cause quarrels again. I have thought about it severely. This matter is probably my fault. No matter whether I look too much at it or not, life is what my sister wants to live. As long as she feels happy, I should not What to say, I shouldn't impose my feelings on her, I solemnly apologized to her, and said that I would never say anything wrong with his husband again!
I have never been in the kitchen and only know how to wash vegetables. During my sister’s pregnancy, I learned how to make soup and stir-fry vegetables. This moved my sister very much, especially when I appeared in front of her with chicken and fish. She said it was hard to imagine me appearing. Look at the chicken and fish stalls.

It's really hard for me, I think the floor is fishy, ​​I can't get my feet on it, not to mention letting those smells run into my nose, I vomited several times, but I said to my sister, it's not as good as you said So squeamish, so hypocritical.In fact, every time I wash chicken and fish by hand, I have the mentality of not wanting to use my hands.Every time I make a meal and see my sister eating with that person, she will ask me why I don’t eat, and I will reluctantly pretend to move my chopsticks. When my hand is close to my nose, I feel disgusting, let alone eating, I just want to vomit , I obviously used the dish soap and the hand sanitizer twice!My sister gained 50 jins during her pregnancy, but I lost 10 jins, on top of my low weight.I vividly demonstrated what it means to be skinny.

There was no subway between where I lived and where they lived, and it took an hour and a half by bus.It was already past 10 o'clock when I bought the vegetables and arrived at their place by car. Sometimes I saw that person still sleeping. My sister said that he delivered the goods very late yesterday or something. I didn't care about his situation. I just feel that this is very embarrassing. He doesn't know how to avoid suspicion, so let me avoid it!But they live in a single apartment, where can they hide?In the kitchen, I always stay in the kitchen until the person wakes up before coming out.

My sister thinks this is already very happy. Her husband takes care of her from Monday to Friday, and I take care of her on weekends.In fact, I don’t know how to take care of people, and the level of food I cook is also limited. I don’t know how that person took care of her, and she insisted on going to work until the week before her birth. How did she receive satisfactory care?

I didn't discuss this with her in detail, because the wedding was not happy, my sister didn't let her mother take care of her confinement, but her mother-in-law who had a happy wedding came.

I went to work normally. On the day of the birth, I went to the hospital. It took seven and a half hours. It took seven and a half hours from entering the delivery room to the birth of the baby, and then I saw my sister after another two hours of observation. During this period, I thought about many possibilities. Sex, but can only be anxious outside, not daring to leave for a moment, even blinking.For the first time, facing a loved one struggling between life and death, the feeling is arrhythmic even recalling it.Every time a medical staff comes out, we will go forward, and every time a child is carried out, we hope it belongs to our family, but there is only one time during the period, when my sister sent a message and was hungry, and his husband ordered takeaway for her.

Fortunately, mother and child are safe!The little guy is growing very well, weighs more than seven catties. After showing us a look, he was taken back to the delivery room. After two hours of observation, he was pushed out of the delivery room together with his sister.My sister seems to be in good spirits, so I feel at ease.

My sister said she was fine and asked me to go back to rest and go to work tomorrow.I said I could ask for leave, or stay with her for one night, and I'll go to work if it's okay, and she said it's fine.Because men are not allowed to accompany her at night, and her mother-in-law is watching the children.

Seeing my sister's body swollen, I was very distressed. I quietly patted her hand for comparison with mine. The originally slender hand was now twice as thick as mine. She said, "Why do you pat my and your hands? The shoot was also of me and my son."

I said, "Your son is dirty and hasn't been washed yet!"

"My son is not dirty," she said.

Then she said she was sore and tired and needed to sleep for a while.

But as soon as my elder sister fell asleep, the child woke up, and her mother-in-law brought the child over and told me, "The child is hungry!" She wanted to call my elder sister.

I said, "Isn't there milk powder?"

She said, "Breastfeeding is good! Once you start eating formula, you won't be able to breastfeed!" So she woke up her sister.

Seeing the child, my elder sister got up, but when she moved, her whole body hurt. I raised the hospital bed, and my elder sister fed the child, but the child would not eat at all. , Crying so hungry, her mother-in-law picked up the child and shook it back and forth.My sister said not to shake it, it would make him dizzy and affect his brain development.I saw her mother-in-law glaring at my sister, but the light was dim and I wasn't sure if I was wrong.Her mother-in-law took the child to the door of the ward.

I said, why don't you give him milk powder?My sister asked me to ask the nurse why there was no milk and how to give milk, so I went to the nurse. The nurse asked my sister if she drank any water. I said no. The nurse asked my sister to drink more water. Why haven't you had any water yet?So I helped my sister fetch water and took it.But the milk still didn't come. My sister asked if it took too long to drink water, which affected the milk. I said I didn't know. Her mother-in-law said that if the baby sucked it, it would come back, and then she carried the baby over again.The child refused to suck. After sucking for a while, he couldn’t suck it. It hurt my sister so much that she couldn’t breathe, but she still couldn’t suck it. The kid started crying again, and then my sister cried too. I can’t see it and say, just give him milk powder , Maybe there will be milk tomorrow.

I opened the milk powder and poured a little bit. The person in the bed next to me reminded us to feed it with a spoon and directly with a pacifier, for fear that he would only eat a pacifier in the future.After listening to other people's advice, I went downstairs to buy a baby spoon. Her mother-in-law put it in the mouth of the child and dipped it a little bit, so that he drank the milk and the child fell asleep when he was full. Her mother-in-law Also fell asleep.My sister said she wanted to go to the bathroom, so I rocked the bed for her again and reached out to help her up, obviously very lightly, but she said that my hands were heavy, which made her hurt and her whole body hurt!I said that you can support me with as much strength as you need. I am relatively thin and 8 centimeters shorter than my sister. Now she weighs almost twice as much as me. How can I support her?The moment she got out of bed, I felt seriously exhausted, but I could only hold on. However, it still caused her to lose her center of gravity and caused pain all over her body. She said, "How did you help me!"

I said "I really won't!"

I sat in the corridor for a while, and from time to time I heard the cry of a baby, and I would go to see if it belonged to our family. He was really good at crying. There were three children in one ward, and he cried more often than that. The two added up to be more, and I cried five times in one night.It is really inconvenient for my sister to get up, and she is determined not to get up if she can.

(End of this chapter)