Beauty and Marriage

Chapter 44 The baby is born
Xiaojia didn't dare to offend me, a pregnant woman. She lived at home for two weeks, but she still wanted to live closer to the company.We went to see the place she wanted to share with someone, and the environment was not bad, and the people who lived with her were not bad, so we agreed to let her live outside.

Everything went well on my side, but on my sister's side, her mother-in-law refused to come. My sister blamed me for why I had to let my mother go back.It hurt her so badly!I don't know how miserable she is, and I don't want to see how miserable she is. I think my mother is also miserable.Although she was right, forming a small family means that she needs to go on with the other half she chose, so it is right to put taking care of his emotions first.But ignoring our feelings so much and overconsuming the love we have accumulated for her for so many years, anyway, there is not much left in my heart.Since she doesn't like me, I don't really want to bother with her.I am more concerned about whether my parents will suffer and suffer for her!
Isn't the premise of your rational sorting not to add chaos to other people's lives?If you add chaos to other people's lives, you should put them first!The truth is not one-sided!

In the face of their accusations, I have also deeply reflected on it. For a long time, I felt that I did something wrong. It was their housework. They were married, they were a family, and I It’s just relatives, it’s not an exaggeration to say that I’m an outsider, I have meddled too much, and really played a role in sowing discord, I am a villain in their marriage, I shouldn’t do this, I have too much problem... …

While I was reflecting on myself like this, they also hated me, and I was wronged to understand another thing!They've been enjoying what I've done, haven't they?I did the housework, childcare and other things that should be borne by them themselves.And, most of the time they ask me to do it!It is a matter of course that I am asked to do it. Since I am not a member of their family, why should I be asked to pay for it.Since I have paid for it as a matter of course, why can't I give my views and opinions on the affairs of this family as a matter of course?If I don't help them, I will be blamed, and if I help them, I will be blamed, so what's the point?
I transferred some of the accusations that were only directed at her husband to my sister, because I think she also has problems, and I decided to resolutely distance myself from her. "It is your husband who should help you, not me, nor My parents!"

I have separated from my sister, and my life is very nourishing!Obviously family life is very warm and full of laughter, especially at this time they take such good care of me. Although there are many inconveniences with a big belly, they help me with all the inconvenient things.In the third trimester, the belly is too big, it is not easy to lie down, and it is even more difficult to get up, so Tang Yufeng helped me get up!I wash my hair lying on the sofa, and Tang Yufeng washes it for me... When I was in the most difficult time, they gave me due help, especially Tang Yufeng, this is a family!

Push your due responsibilities to others, and hate them for complaining about you!Who is wrong?I was still wrong, and I deserve to be wronged!I told myself, be smarter in the future, and stop doing things that are thankless.It's a good thing for both of us if we are drifting away from our sister, so we should go on the same road as strangers!
When I gave birth, Xiao Jia wanted to come and see it, but I didn’t let her. I was afraid that she would not dare to have children after seeing the tragedy of childbirth. .She said that she was even more frightened if we didn't read it, but she still obeyed and didn't come.

Having a baby is really painful, and I want to give up every minute. I asked a few times, can I plan it?I would rather suffer a knife than end any contractions and labor pains.The doctor actually said that I was in good condition, and the cervix dilated very quickly, so it wouldn't hurt so much.I'm going, I really want to swear, what kind of pain does it have to be!

After tossing for 4 or 5 hours, the little guy finally came out, it was a girl.I finally tried real prostration.

The first thing Tang Yufeng said when he saw me was "She is beautiful!" Indeed, this is what I care most about.Unfortunately, I can't get her beauty.I think she is so ugly, and I am a little worried that she will be excluded like I was when I was a child.

Tang Yufeng saw my thoughts, "Newborn children are similar, and it will take a long time to see what they look like."

But the severe pain in my body made me not have a lot of thoughts to worry about. I even took a closer look at her and could only obey Tang Yufeng's words, "Oh!"

We did all the postpartum preparations, but two hours later, there was still no milk.She was hungry and was crying. I felt so incompetent that I caused the child to cry like this. When I heard her soft voice screaming for help, my heart trembled!How uncomfortable it must be!I want to cry too.The hospital advised us to breastfeed and provided many methods and products to assist breastfeeding, which tormented me so much that my nipples were broken by her sucking, and what came out was blood instead of milk.What she sucked was milk powder.My mother-in-law looked at me with tears in my eyes and said to me, "Just give her milk powder! Her father grew up eating rice soup, and he grew up pretty well. I didn't have any milk when I was born."

"really?"

"Her sister-in-law is breast-fed. Look at her skinny."

I took my mother-in-law's advice, because it hurts more to suck her nipples than to give birth, and I really can't stand it.

Tang Yufeng came the next day, "Eat breakfast! Mom, yours!" He took a copy for his mother-in-law.

The mother-in-law said, "Leave it alone!" The mother-in-law said to Tang Yufeng, "This child is here to repay his kindness. He only wakes up once a night and sleeps after eating. He doesn't cry or make trouble. It's very easy to take care of!"

He took one look at the child, smiled, then rocked the bed for me, served me breakfast, and asked me "how are you doing?"

"It's good, it should be good!"

"Should be fine?"

"That's what doctors and nurses say!"

"But what I saw was not very good!"

"The one in the next bed was in pain for a whole day and night, and the natural delivery didn't go smoothly, so I still had it cut!"

"So miserable!"

"Many of them were in pain for more than 8 or 9 hours. No wonder the doctor said I was fine!"

"It doesn't hurt to compare it like this?"

"pain!"

"Suffering!"

"You grew up drinking rice soup?"

"I'll get a glass of water!" The mother-in-law avoided.

He asked me "Did you ask me because you thought I knew?"

"No, when I was feeling sad, my mother told me a lot of embarrassing things about you, and made fun of you."

He was devastated "My glorious image!"

"So you grew up drinking rice soup!"

"Many people say that, saying that I was very poor when I was young. I grew up drinking rice soup. I didn't expect to grow up so well!"

(End of this chapter)