Beauty and Marriage

Chapter 177

Nowadays, many people have given birth to children, but they don’t necessarily raise children in a real sense, because everyone has a job, and most of the time, children are taken care of by elders or other people, so they have never really experienced the hard work of raising children. , so do I.

I often feel that I have lost a lot of the joy of being a mother and missed some of her growth.For example, when she called her mother for the first time, she was facing my photo. The first time she walked, she was taken by her mother-in-law. The first time she turned around, I saw it in the video. That cautious appearance, if in It must be super cute to see in front of my eyes, even though I watched it through the video, it made me cute!

There are many, many things she did for the first time, many, many of her lovely actions, I want to accompany her to experience, but, I missed it.

Therefore, letting go of everything to accompany Shi Yun's growth is something I have always wanted to do.It's just that I've been told all kinds of things, such as when you no longer work and gradually leave the society, you can't keep up with your husband, and the two of you will have less and less common language, and he will feel that you are more and more superficial. One day when the child grows up, she will also feel that you have no ability except to be raised at home, and she will respect that capable father more than your useless mother, even though she was brought up by you.

People always respect the capable person more, the person who has a certain status in the society, and this will carry over to the family.

Personally speaking, I do respect my father more, I can’t say why, although my love for my parents is the same, I can be 100% sure of this, when it comes to loving them, there is no difference in my heart Yes, wanting to be kind to them is exactly the same.

However, the strange thing is that I always feel that what my father said is more reasonable, and sometimes, when the same thing is said by the two of them, I will treat it differently.Dad is not the kind of person who is particularly dignified, but he is more dignified!
It's because more people in this society respect him, and they are more casual with his mother!After all, Mom has nothing to do with the world that needs to be taken seriously.

Therefore, I want to be treated fairly by Shi Yun. I think I should have my own job, my own income, a place in society, and things I can control.

Then the job of this small leader is very good!

There is also some vanity in it!After all, the director of a certain department of a certain company has more face than the parent of a certain child or a certain housewife.When you say it, it will make people look up!

Not all housewives in this world can't do well outside, because they feel that it is difficult to make a living in the world, and they don't have the ability to survive, so they stay at home.Mostly, it’s actually because the family can’t leave!She gave up the outside world.

Of course, there are some, like me, who subjectively want to accompany their children.

As my sister said, a person with such a good character as Tang Yufeng, if I don't work and have no income, he won't look down on me!Respect is his greatest strength!He always respects me, what I want to do, what I don’t want to do, he will give priority to my wishes, of course he will give advice, but if I don’t accept it, it will not affect his opinion and attitude towards me.After all, he himself has many ideas and practices that are eager to be supported.

People have their own aspirations, and whether people around them support or not is really important to people's happiness.

The matter of my return to the family has been supported by everyone, and no one has raised any objections, and no one has persuaded me to think about it again!Everyone applauds!It seems that he (she) has been looking forward to this day for a long time.

With everyone's support, I will leave my job soon!Anyway, the children below me who are eager to move have already shown their ambitions.And my leader no longer thinks that I am indispensable as before!I have given many opportunities to the people below, so that every one of them can directly replace me!I don't dislike those who are ambitious and even use a little means to realize their ambitions!That's a sign that they wholeheartedly want to do this job well. Soldiers who don't want to be generals are not good soldiers!
Therefore, I knew about their little actions, but I never took precautions, nor did I think about giving them a warning.Make way!Let those children who do not hesitate to use small means to work can display their ambitions!

After returning home, it’s not that poetry rhyme is difficult to learn, but for a person who is used to dealing with adults, working from nine to six every day, getting used to everything has rules, everything can be planned, and everything needs to be done step by step , Tell the people below that they can do it well, and the people above can report as required, and everything will run in an orderly manner.I really feel powerless to fight wits and courage with a child in a chaotic manner every day!
Every day I was thinking about how to get her done, but in the end she got me done!

Now a two-year-old child has a wide range of knowledge, she will not be instigated by adults!If you want to plot against her, you will always be plotted by her in the end.Wanting to control her material desires, she wanted everything, and said that she could only want one of them, and she could bring her to buy it next time.She took one very cooperatively, and after a while, she dragged you to go shopping again, saying that it was the next time.

You tell her that you can go after you have to do something, and she will help you, and she will help you very seriously, making you unable to do anything but compromise, satisfy her material desires, and let her give you a little space, Do something else that should be done, and you have to tell her that she is the one who is good, and that she is the reward for her help!Otherwise, she will be unhappy, buy her something, and pay attention to her face, there is only one person in this world!
It was messy at first, and I realized that it was because I didn't know my children well enough.In the past, I only accompanied her occasionally, so I was very friendly and tolerant to her. I didn’t even have enough time to be cute, so I didn’t pay attention to other things. When I was facing everything alone, I often felt in a hurry!

In fact, after finding out, she can also have a method.The way you talk to her will affect the result of communication. She already has her favorite way and language!
She can also be a great match!It is completely up to you to control, of course it is not allowed to treat her like an adult!But she also likes to listen to good things like adults, if you flatter her, she will cooperate with you very much!Moreover, no matter how blatantly you flatter her, she will feel that you are sincerely praising her!Much better than adults!
People at home are told that the outside world is too scary to go out.People outside also seem to hear the things at home too scary, and dare not give up the outside world.

(End of this chapter)