Beauty and Marriage

Chapter 164 You are arrogant, you do not seek to make progress

"This is about me and my daughter!"

"Did you think of your daughter when you were with that woman?"

"Besides being a father, I'm still a person. Haven't you realized this yet? Besides being the parent, don't you want to live in other identities?"

"Is the identity of father just a whim? Once you have some identities, it is a mission and a responsibility. You must have this awareness before you are eligible to have this identity! This is what fatherhood is like!"

"The value and significance of a new life replacing another life is also my blind spot! I also thought about giving up my own world and creating a world for my daughter..."

"No life will replace another life. A daughter has her own life. It is you who want to define her life! This failure is only your failure, and you slander your daughter's failure! You sacrifice for your daughter, no! You just Make excuses for your cowardice! You really want to go out into the world to do a career and pursue a strong love. Who has the ability to stop you? No! I have lived with you for so many years, and there is nothing that you Listen to my opinion! I also used my daughter as an excuse to endure you for many years! I always thought that I didn’t want my daughter to grow up in a broken family, so I endured your bad temper and your dislike of me. Including you always calling me 'Get out!' and insulting me like this, I didn't retain the last bit of self-esteem, and stayed here shamelessly! It turned out not to be! I wasn't afraid that my daughter would grow up in a single-parent family! It was you The outside world is too scary, I thought, if I leave here, I really can’t survive! And I still have things I want to do, people and things I want to see. I will endure until one day, I can have a chance Do what you want to do, you can have the opportunity to see the people you want to see, and see the people you want to see live a bright life. Without my backing, I am afraid that she will live a humble and sad life like me But, I never thought that I would drag her down! I never thought that you would hurt her! After all, I have always thought that you loved her. "

"I never expected that you are such a sharp-tongued person!"

"Usually when I say something, you will yell. It's rare to hear me say a few words like this! I'm not as bad as you imagined, and I'm not as bad as I imagined myself! The world is too much for you to say. It’s scary, but in fact it’s not that scary! You, they all said how good you are, and you think you’re so good, but you’re not that good at all! I also feel very wronged that I was threatened and followed like this You have lived for so many years! Who should I ask for my grievances? You are facing the dissatisfied me, and I have a terrible life, and I am equally miserable when facing yours! Shouldn’t we collect debts from each other? But you are disgusting your daughter! What kind of mood does a daughter feel when she sees her father cheating on her respected teacher?"

"What's wrong? I only got together with Hui Xin after I divorced you!"

"Didn't you divorce me because you wanted to be with her? My daughter understands right. You have the idea of ​​living another life because you got to know her! Think about that period of time carefully. It’s very good, but it’s inexplicable to trouble me for a while, and it’s really a problem to repeat it! Unfortunately, I don’t care about you for a long time, so no matter how much you repeat, I didn’t notice it at all.”

"You are such a person from the beginning, you don't have any observation skills, and you always talk about this and that when you pick on others! You can't tell the point!"

"The focus of a housewife is naturally different from those of you who deal with the society every day!"

"You can talk a lot now! What kind of work are you doing now? Every time I ask Lele, she doesn't say anything!"

"It has nothing to do with you! Your dishonesty makes my daughter very unacceptable! I'll ask you again, don't appear in front of her again! If you still feel sorry for her a little bit!"

"Since you don't mind, and you don't want to be with me for a long time, it's a good thing for you to separate us! So what does Lele care about?"

"Which child would want their parents to separate? Especially, Dad knew other women through himself, and she would feel that she had caused this consequence! So, she has been blaming herself! Explained a lot to her, she Subjectively thought that I was comforting her! The child seems to automatically filter out the conflicts between the parents, or maybe it is my patience with you that makes her feel that we are living in harmony and in harmony! She thinks We ended only because you met that woman!"

"But, you know, it's not! We've never fallen in love with each other! If it weren't for marriage to bind us together, maybe our relationship would be better! It's just that as the other half, as the people around us, we will naturally There are different expectations! We are always more strict with the people around us, and the expectations will be higher! You say that I have high demands on you, and if you think you are not doing well, then you are doing it wrong! In fact, is it the same? Thing, am I better than you? I really think fish is easy to fry! If I had time, I would never let you spoil the fish! But I don’t have time, so I hope you can fry it well! More than ten years Yes! People who use snacks, how could it be possible that such a simple thing can’t be done well! This, I really can’t understand! I can only think that you are absent-minded and don’t know what you are thinking all day long! In fact, I often see You are in a daze! Maybe it was that moment of daze, the fish is mushy!"

"Every time I fry fish, I am always worried, how can I be in a daze! I am in a daze because no one talks to me! The spirit is empty! When you go outside every day, you will meet many people, many things happen, and talk to many people. People talk about a lot of things, but I don’t! You get tired when you get home, and you have nothing to say to me! The children are getting older, and the time away from home is getting less and less, the homework is heavy, and I have my own circle! Every day I pay A friend, you said what’s the use of associating with such a person! Why do you have to associating with such a person! I’m afraid you will be angry, so I can only be in a daze. Of course, this doesn’t satisfy you! We are not a fish The problem is not that you are busy and I am idle! You think you should have something better! But I am not!"

"You don't seek to make progress! I once had hope for you! As long as you have a little self-motivation, you are actually a good person! It's just that you don't care about anything, just take care of a family, and you can't do well!"

(End of this chapter)