Beauty and Marriage

Chapter 159
Many people say that even if the elderly live, it is meaningless. As they grow older, their actions will become more and more sluggish. Not only people who cannot speak the language, but also those who speak the same language can no longer hear what they say!There is no filial son in front of the long sick bed.Let the children go back to take care of her like this, I'm afraid they will be disgusted by the children to death in the end!
So, since I heard the bad news, I have never heard anyone say that the old man died so pitifully!Why can't you think about finding a dagger?It seems that everyone thinks that the old man's only destiny is to die in this field!

Everyone can see clearly!This kind of transparency makes me feel cool!

What else can be so ruthless that a person's death makes everyone feel sorry, and they all think that's the only way!Even her family members are so relieved!Is it just because she's already incapable of generating any value?Also, she has never produced a value worthy of admiration!
I believe what my mother said!She can still help them take care of their children now, and he always has that attitude. When the mother can't do anything for them, he will really dislike her and leave no room for it.

I really want to watch my mother continue to put her last energy on the two children.Finally, when these two children grow up and have their own world, and there is no time to talk to her, what should mother do?
Waiting stupidly, waiting until despair?

No, from now on, mothers should have their own world, besides family members, they should also have friends and other things that they have their own spiritual sustenance!

As the neighbors said, they have done what they should do, and they have done what they can do!However, what the old people hoped for was to go back to their childhood, to worship the old lady under their knees, and it was impossible!They have all grown up, have jobs, have a life they have worked so hard to earn, and they have responsibilities to fulfill every day. The old lady is one of them, not the only one, and certainly not the most important.Even if it is very important, do they want to give up everything else and go back to their childhood with the old man?

At that time, Tang Yufeng said that he hoped that I had other spiritual sustenance. I felt that he didn't care about me, didn't worry about me, and ignored me!Now that I think about it, if I had no other spiritual sustenance, he and Shi Yun would be there every day, I'm afraid he would have bothered me long ago!And I myself will eventually hate myself.

The three caves of the cunning rabbit are equally important in thought!It is always dangerous to concentrate one's energy in one place. Once the spirit in this place breaks down, a person will be bald and useless!

Mom is over 50, how much energy does she have to run a new spiritual sustenance?Now leave the children and the housework to her!Can we grasp her old age?
Will we also say that we have done everything we need to do, but she wants to trouble us every day, and there is nothing we can do about her.

Now I also feel that Shiyun is causing trouble for me every day, and sometimes I feel that she is so annoying that I really want to throw her to someone else!
It is not easy to let go of Shi Yun. We have to hand over our mother, who is used to being relied on and helped us, to someone else.will it be easyWon't!

Mom must establish a circle of her own, a circle that will not change because of our changes.

I have almost no interaction with my former high school classmates, and the connection between college classmates is getting weaker and weaker!Because everyone is busy with life and work.The current colleagues will stop working together one day, and the relationship will become weaker and weaker, but I still have friends who are particularly compatible, and they can be friends for life.

My mother’s lifelong friends are all in my hometown.Long time no see, it is estimated that the relationship will also fade.She has to make her sincere friends here, establish their own happy time with friends, and find spiritual sustenance other than home here!It's hard though!
In fact, it's not difficult. Didn't Dad already find someone to drink with him besides Tang Yufeng?People who are active outside are naturally more likely to find like-minded people than those who stay at home.Mom really should get out.

My thoughts fluctuated greatly during this period, which made my mind very messy!Almost split!But things just keep happening!

Aunt Su has never struggled with why her ex-husband divorced her.Because she wanted to end her life with her ex-husband a long time ago, and he proposed a divorce, which was what she wished for, so why would she be entangled in why, this annoying question?But it was because she didn't bother with it that the relationship between her and her daughter became like this!

She really regrets it!If she had known early on that she would definitely choose another way of life, her daughter wouldn't have suffered so much with herself!

He even kept persuading his daughter to live with her father!Her father doesn't deserve it at all!

Because the reason he wanted to divorce her was that he fell in love with another woman!A woman that Aunt Su could never have imagined!
The man whom the daughter once admired so much!No wonder my daughter suddenly changed her temperament!It turned out that she had endured such an unbearable thing!
My daughter said she wanted to learn sand painting when she was a sophomore in high school. At that time, Aunt Su and her ex-husband disagreed because she was about to take the college entrance examination. If learning sand painting delays her studies, the loss outweighs the gain!But my daughter said that there are bonus points for art students!What's more, if you learn sand painting well, you will have a bright future even if you don't get into a good university, or even if you don't go to university.The sand painting teacher she knows is!

This teacher is so amazing!She will become a great person like the teacher in the future!

At that time, I couldn't hold back my daughter, so I sent her to learn sand painting.Because she was worried, her father often picked her up and picked her up, and she became acquainted with the teacher over time!In the end, he got so familiar!

I don't know when my daughter found out about this!
How sad it must be for a daughter to learn that her father cheated on her!The person my father cheated on was my beloved teacher, how painful it must be!

Does he deserve to be someone's father like this?And shamelessly come to curry favor with her daughter every day!
When Aunt Su learned the truth, she was so angry that she almost trembled!How could she agree to the divorce so easily, how could she court this couple so easily!She often said good things about them in front of her daughter, saying how much her father loved her.Say how good that teacher is!I often tell my daughter that my daughter's sand painting skills are actually very good, but isn't the teacher often on TV when she is engaged in sand painting?And she likes her so much, go be a good girl and let her take care of her daughter!

I finally understand why my daughter gets so angry every time I say this!What kind of mood did my daughter hear these words!

(End of this chapter)