Beauty and Marriage

Chapter 157

After all, I came to my sister's house, but I couldn't help my mother!Mom still can't find time to finish her dress!As I expected, as long as I get home, my mother will have endless things to do, and she will never be able to play!
Maybe that's how the dress ended up being!Maybe, that's the final form of my mother!
When facing my mother, I seem to understand the psychology of Aunt Su's daughter.She really wants her to be happy and to have a good life, instead of being busy with others every day, so that others can concentrate on their own affairs, and go around in those trivial matters!
Shi Yun fell asleep on the way home!I thought she would fall asleep on the way to my sister's house.Because she didn't take a nap today, and then played like crazy, she must be tired.In this situation, as long as she sits down comfortably and the car moves, she can fall asleep. It is no wonder that she has persisted until this time.

Shi Yun fell asleep peacefully, it was the best thing of the night for us.In this way, when we get home, we can take a shower and rest right away!If she's still awake, we'll have to be pestered and tortured by her again!If the child's schedule can be matched with ours every day, or if she rests longer than us, it will be a particularly good blessing for us!
I told Aunt Su that I may have the same mentality as her daughter, thinking that my mother can do more and live a happier life, instead of being immersed in this kind of housekeeping every day and becoming a mediocre person after all!Although strictly speaking, keeping housekeeping in an orderly manner cannot be regarded as mediocrity, but it is very respectable!But, doesn't Aunt Su really feel wronged?Others live so glamorously!It was such a wonderful and colorful life!

I am already very happy, I still feel envious when I see other people talking about sweet love, and I still want to do some romantic things like others!
Aunt Su, don't you think there are many things that are more interesting than doing housekeeping?Maybe her daughter is right, it's not about age or condition, it's about whether you want to try and do it!
I don't think it's my mother's job to do my sister's housework!It's just that my mother didn't have the determination to throw it away!If she is determined to say that she will do something, don't take care of the children, don't do housework!I believe there is a solution too.

There are more solutions in my family!If I change to another aunt, although I will be very troublesome, we are always afraid of trouble. In order to avoid trouble, we ignore some essential problems and make do to keep some awkward things going.But ignore a truth, that is once and for all!
When I lived alone before, a faucet in the bathroom was broken. I didn’t want to bother to deal with it, so I didn’t use that faucet, and used the nozzle to discharge the water!Anyway, I'm used to it, and I don't find it troublesome!
Tang Yufeng thought it was strange that I was so troublesome, but not too troublesome!He immediately bought a faucet and replaced it for me!Then, I think it's really convenient.

In fact, buy a faucet, turn off the sluice, remove the old one, install the new one, and turn on the sluice again, and it will be done in less than half an hour!I use the nozzle to discharge water every day, but it is more troublesome!
It is the same now, I have never wanted to face Aunt Su's problems directly, because I don't want to change aunts, I am too lazy to find aunts, and I don't want Shi Yun to adapt to the new aunt. I think this process is very troublesome.

But if I don't solve it, I worry about it every day, and it seems to be more troublesome!
I told Aunt Su that if she needs any help, I will definitely help if I can. After all, I hope that everyone around me is well, so that when I am in trouble, maybe she can lend a helping hand .So, as Aunt Su's daughter said, she just needs to make up her mind!After all, there is only one life, and many beautiful things are missed before it is too late!

Aunt Su said that if she likes things as a hobby, she also has them!But if she wants to use her hobby as her work, she doesn't have that kind of idea, it's something that is suitable for doing with a playful mentality!Work is about responsibility!She considers herself responsible and fulfills her job responsibilities in exchange for a reasonable salary.

This is how her ideal life and work should be organized.

She also asked me, there are so many interesting jobs, accounting work is actually quite monotonous, why I am willing to work in this position for more than ten years, is it because of my hobby?
I said, it’s because of ease. I’m a person who seeks ease, so I’m destined not to be a great talent, but fortunately, I’m satisfied with my work and life. Big talent is not important to me at all. !

Aunt Su said that she felt the same way!A solid job, a stable salary, and then she can have a life outside of work. She doesn't have many extravagances and expectations!She wanted to live this kind of stable life before, but she was whipped by life every day!Now it's finally over!

I asked Aunt Su, didn't you think about starting a business before?Back to the beauty shop.

Aunt Su said that it was just that she did a lot of things at home at that time, but she was not taken seriously. She wanted to stand up and be taken seriously!

But, now that is not important anymore!She figured it out, she didn't need to prove herself to anyone!She has thought about others for most of her life, and she also wants to think about herself!Live your life the way you are comfortable!Do not force yourself to cater to others!That may not be exchanged for the cherishment of others, why not cherish yourself?
I hope my daughter understands one day soon that Aunt Su just wants to live easily, and doesn't want to suffer all the hardships and become some kind of master!Of course, my daughter is willing to go through all kinds of hardships to become a master, and she is also happy to see it.

I still don't see through!Or I have my own expectations for my mother, and that expectation may not be what my mother wants!
Mom probably wants to be appreciated and loved by everyone after taking good care of her family, and doesn't need me to support her in doing amazing things, including making dresses!
What I should do is support her and appreciate her instead of telling her that she should not give up what she wants to do to accommodate us!What's more, she should be accused of this matter!I can know that she gave up what she wanted to do to accommodate us, and she should be praised for her greatness!Instead of blaming, it was her own choice, and she was wrong!
A person who devotes herself wholeheartedly to you, what is wrong with her!What is wrong with her who gave up what she wanted to do to take care of us!What is wrong, of course, is that while enjoying other people's care, she complains about why she didn't live a wonderful life!
(End of this chapter)