Beauty and Marriage

Chapter 147 Glad My Sister Didn’t Take Me Seriously Back then
It is said that Aunt Su has a lot of things to say, which can be told to me, an outsider, but not to her daughter. Why don't I, there are some things that I can tell outsiders, but I can't tell my mother and sister!
Haohao is already a young guy, he will start elementary school next year, and he has grown a lot taller, maybe it's because he hasn't seen me for a long time, because the last time he saw me, he was a bit unfamiliar.However, he didn't feel alienated from his mother at all, he was very kind!
As children grow up and can distinguish the relationship between characters, it seems that they will naturally learn to distinguish between intimacy and distance!Of course, it may also be the reason why I have neglected to pay attention to him in the past two years.First of all, I put most of my emotions on my child, and I lost a lot of care and care for him. It is natural for him to be alienated from me.Even though it made me feel a little off.

I told Haohao that Haohao used to be the closest to his aunt, which made his mother often jealous and asked whether Haohao was born to his mother or his aunt.

Haohao just laughed, he said that he still likes his aunt, even if she doesn't go back to see him, and doesn't live with him.We can't play together often.

Haohao is very good at talking, and his emotional intelligence has been particularly high since he was a child. Fortunately, he is still like this until now.I don't know if this kind of life is really good for him. I always have a lot of apologies for this child.When my sister was pregnant with him, I told my sister directly that I didn't want him.I'm really glad that my sister didn't take me seriously at that time, so that I have such a lovely child.

After Haohao was born, I took care of him for a period of time. When I was at home on vacation every year, it was better to say that I took care of him than he coaxed me to play.He wakes up earlier than Shi Yun, and he likes to do many things by himself. He is very talkative since he was over one year old, and he often reasoned with others.

Once, I was looking at my phone, and he wanted me to help him open a box of biscuits. I thought he was blocking my sight with the biscuits, so I pushed his hand away, and he walked up to me solemnly, solemnly Said to me "You don't do this! I won't ever!"

At that time, it made me think that nothing could be more interesting than this kid!
So I said to him, "Say it again, and I'll record it for you!"

He looked at me angrily, still immersed in the anger that I didn't open him a cookie and ignored him.

I said "You let me record a video and I'll open the cookies for you!"

He did as I was told!

At that time, he was only two years and two months old!Shiyun and Xiaobao didn’t have such logic. At that time, I just thought it was fun. After getting in touch with more children, I found that Haohao is really special, not only because he is the first child in our family, not only because, I Feel guilty about him!

Although sometimes, we joked that he was like Tang Seng, when other children grabbed toys, he used his mouth; other children had poor control and were about to hit someone when they raised their hands, but he still used his mouth to reason with them.People I know say that I have never seen a child who wakes up so early, and that he will definitely become an extraordinary person when he grows up.

I used to think that people said it as a compliment, but now I feel the same way.I sincerely hope that he will live a wonderful life as everyone expects.

Don't just cut off a child who has a future and the right to come to this world, just because of your prejudice against other people!Some children will bring good luck, just like Haohao, I hope he will never know that I once prevented him from coming into this world!Otherwise, I am afraid that he will blame me, and I am even more afraid that he will mistakenly think that he is an unwelcome existence.My love for him has been real since the day he was born!
After playing with Haohao and Xiaobao all morning, my mother was there to make fabrics and flower decorations.She said that her sister had some pieces of cloth and she wanted to make a skirt.She thought of a nice dress, and kept thinking about it, but she couldn't afford it with the children.When I was young, I liked the clothes my mother made very much.My mother was not a tailor, and a little craftsmanship was taught to her by a master who had never been a teacher.At that time, there were many children in the family, and almost all boys were allowed to learn from teachers. Of course, it is good for girls to be able to sew, so I didn’t have serious apprenticeships. I just asked someone to take my mother for a few months, and my mother learned some basic skills.

But my mother is a careful person, and her basic skills are very solid.Even better than those children who are serious about learning from teachers.

My mother often said proudly, no matter how much the master praised her, if she had learned seriously at that time, she would definitely do well!

My sister and I agree with this very much.When I was young, I had no money and was reluctant to buy clothes. My mother often bought field cloth for me and my sister to make.We have had a lot of the same style since we were young, all from the hands of our mother.

After the life at home became less stressful, my mother never made clothes for us again.Haohao still wore my clothes when he was two years old.My mother said to wear Haohao's mother's clothes, I said, those are mine!
My mother said that my memory was wrong, and I said that half of the pocket on my sister's dress had been opened and fell off. The pocket that was intact must be mine.

Mom just nodded and said, I know!
After middle school, I began to love beauty. I couldn’t find the clothes I liked when I went to the street. I really wanted my mother to make them for me, but my mother always said that she would make them for me when she was free, but she has been busy until now.

I never know what she's up to!That's why I feel ignored.Demands are often not met.

I know that this will disappoint the child, so I always remind myself to listen to Shiyun's needs, and the bad thing is, I still ignore her occasionally.Of course, it was a little better than my mother was to me at the time.

But if because of this, my mother gets a negative score from me, it is quite unfair.Dad is running around outside, and he only plays with me in the morning and evening and when he is free, but my mother watches over me all day long.Although it didn't meet my needs, she gave me time.

When I became a mother myself, I knew what my mother was busy with.

Busy doing my laundry, cooking, making tea, pouring water, washing dishes, taking a shower... She is really busy.

I saw my mother devote herself to making the skirt after teaching the child to me, that concentrated look, that expression full of joy.That is to say, my mother likes to make clothes, but she needs to do laundry, cook, make tea, pour water, wash dishes, take a bath... these daily necessary chores, so she didn't make clothes for me.

But I feel that she doesn't pay attention to me because of this!She has put all her energy on me, what else is she paying attention to!

I almost never think about what my mother likes and what kind of person I want to be. This problem is always called mom when I have to eat; mom…..
No wonder people call those who take care of children old mothers, aren't they old mothers?

(End of this chapter)