Beauty and Marriage

Chapter 144
Occasionally go to see my daughter and know that she is doing well, that's good!It's good to know that she is eating well!She is not an excellent mother, nor does she hope that her child will become such an excellent child, but Aunt Su dare not tell her daughter this.Having said that, the daughter will be angry again, why can't she be an excellent mother, and why can't she be an excellent child.

Aunt Su can tell everything to me, an unrelated person, but she can’t tell her daughter a single word of these things. They live on different channels and forget how to communicate with each other correctly.

Regarding whether her daughter is depressed or going to extremes, Aunt Su thinks she can understand.My daughter is probably a little bit depressed, but it's only about life.She now has unprecedented self-motivation, and she enriches herself every day so that she has no time to think about it.Seeing her daughter's strength, Aunt Su believed that her daughter's demands on Aunt Su were not too much, because she was walking on that road herself, and Aunt Su believed that her daughter could succeed.

My daughter took the college entrance examination back then, and Aunt Su divorced her ex-husband one year before graduation.From that time on, my daughter saw clearly the importance of a woman relying on herself, so she immediately applied for a full-time undergraduate course.You must know that the conditions for junior college students to apply for full-time undergraduate programs are very harsh, the grade requirements are very high, and there are even quota restrictions.At that time, Auntie Su's daughter's grades were average, and her classmates advised her not to be too whimsical. People in the top ten were not sure. With her grades, wouldn't it be a waste of time?It's better to sleep well + fall in love, anyway, everyone treats college students this way, especially junior college students.

Aunt Su's daughter ignored these arguments, passed the exam after studying hard, and got her undergraduate diploma two years later.

Aunt Su said that even though she didn’t go to much school herself, it’s been so many years, and the exams are long gone.But when she first entered the society as a housewife, in order to let the society accept herself, she also worked hard. Learning all the skills that are needed in society today, the most basic computer, is more than killing fish for her. much harder.

I laughed when she said that!
But she said seriously that she really went to the vegetable market to help others kill fish. As a housewife, these things seem to be easier for her.At that time, I couldn't find a job, and I could only smile with the familiar boss when I walked past the fish stall. Because I used to patronize each other often, the relationship was pretty good.

My daughter didn't let her find a job casually, and enrolled her in skills training courses and skills training courses.Some are provided by the community for free.However, even if there is a place to study, what about life?Must not eat?Must not eat?Is accommodation free?
She chatted with the owner of the fish stall.The fish stall happened to be in good business at that time, and there was no helper, so she was asked to help at the fish stall before 9:00 in the morning, and her wages were calculated by the hour, so that she could still earn a day's living expenses.

Aunt Su was embarrassed to refuse at first. Although her daughter did not let her do such a job, the owner of the fish stall was also kind. How many people can reach out to you when you are down?Even her own parents can't point it out, and her daughter puts high pressure on her every day.Not to refute the kindness of others, Aunt Su agreed.

Then, help every day from 5:00 to 9:00, and then go to class. The class starts at 9:30, which is a perfect connection!

However, the result was not perfect!
Aunt Su’s brain is slow, her hands and feet are slow, she is in a hurry, and she can’t learn at all. Free classes, formal registration, and auditors, the classroom is full of people, and the teacher can’t take care of every student. After a month, Aunt Su Did not learn any knowledge at all.

When Aunt Su's daughter came back to check on Aunt Su's study, she was so angry!Just like, we don’t understand why a three-year-old child can’t even count. He counted for him several times with his fingers, but when he asked him later, he still looked dazed; The student, obviously saw that he wrote a lot of words, but when he did a spot check, he still didn't recognize half of them!
Aunt Su's daughter couldn't understand why her mother didn't even learn such a simple lesson.If there are too many students in the school, the teacher can't take care of it.The daughter did not give Aunt Su a small lesson. The daughter felt that Aunt Su must have been careless and did not focus on her studies.Ask Aunt Su if she is working somewhere.

Aunt Su told her daughter about helping at the fish stall for a few days. Aunt Su wanted to explain that it has nothing to do with her going to work if she doesn’t study well.

But will my daughter listen?The daughter was very disappointed, saying that Aunt Su was narrow-minded!Short-sighted, how much hourly wages can fish stalls pay?Dirty and tired, not good for the body!Obviously, we should grasp the time and enrich ourselves. The most valuable thing for people is time. It is to seize the time to improve yourself, not to waste yourself for petty gains.

Auntie Su's words were all the truths she said over and over again.Aunt Su also broke down and said, daughter, if you want to become a master, you should work hard on your own.

The daughter said one of her father's catchphrases, "Mud can't support a wall!"

Aunt Su had heard this sentence many times from her ex-husband. His ex-husband always used such hurtful words on her, always looked down on her and thought she was worthless.

Although her ex-husband has never separated from her financially, it can even be said to be generous. She has a house and a car under her name, all of which are earned by her ex-husband. blessed.

So his ex-husband always had a sense of superiority in front of her, and often felt that she was not good enough for him, and this emotion was often revealed unconsciously.

No matter what she does or how she does it, she will never be recognized. She lives very depressed and tired, and she really wants to be free!But it is said that you don't know the blessings in the blessings!

The definition of the word "Fu" is very strange. If Aunt Su's life can be called "Fu", it should be derogatory!No one gives a person anything, it is generous!He calculated whether you deserve it or not!

Every time there is a disagreement, even when he just doesn't like you, he will take out what he gave you and ask you what you are not satisfied with. For a person who treats you so well, you Why do you have the confidence to argue with him, argue with him, why don't you accept him!

Since you have taken advantage of others, you should treat them softly and eat people with a short mouth!

Aunt Su felt that she was the second party in that marriage, a party B who could only obey, it all depends on the mood of party A!

And the daughter actually learned her father's words!She actually used this word that Aunt Su was exhausted after hearing it, and applied it to her own mother!

(End of this chapter)