Beauty and Marriage

Chapter 142 Depression
I don't know when the word "depression" was put on the table, and it appeared more and more frequently!Is it more difficult for people now than people in the past?Almost every urbanite has more or less depression. It seems that no matter what age group people have suffered a certain degree of pressure, it comes from family, work, school, and the environment.In short, people who are unsatisfactory are easy to get depressed.Although most people don't show it, after all, people have a certain ability of self-regulation.

I heard that people with severe depression will choose to commit suicide!It sounds pretty scary.

The last time I heard the word "depression" was from my sister who said that the man was depressed when he heard my voice.Am I really putting that much pressure on a person?But isn't there a proper term called "postpartum depression"?Wasn't my sister more prone to depression not long after giving birth?

So, when my sister mentioned this word to me, I felt very ridiculous!What value is there for a person who becomes depressed in this way? This was my thought at the time.I don't think that person has any conditions or qualifications for depression at all.Moreover, it is a kind of slander to me to say that he is depressed when he hears my voice, so I even hope that he really suffers from severe depression.

However, looking at it now, I feel very fortunate that he didn't really suffer from depression, or it wasn't serious, so it didn't cause any terrible consequences.

I have no intention of hurting anyone, and I don't intend to make anyone feel bad because of me.It's just that like Aunt Su's daughter, she has her own expectations for the people around her. She feels that the master is not good enough for her mother, and she is very disgusted with Aunt Su's idea of ​​wanting to live with that person.Me too!From the very first meeting, I began to view that person with a critical, critical eye.He is foolproof, even I don't like him, not to mention he is so selfish and always hits my sister.

In order to save myself from this self-hatred in the role of the bad guy who made people depressed, I thought about some of the bad things about that person.What I hate the most about that person is probably that he always hits my sister. In the past, in my eyes, I have always been the sister of the goddess.

Therefore, when I hit him, I was always filled with righteous indignation. I didn't leave any room for him, and I didn't give up until I was mad at him. That was my goal at that time.So much so that he would say that he was depressed when he heard my voice.Then he always said that my sister is uneducated, doesn't like to study, is snobbish, greedy for money, debt collector... Aren't you afraid that my sister is depressed?
I hate him for being consistent from beginning to end, so it's only natural to say bad things to him, but when he was pursuing his sister, he made her dizzy.How many good things have been said, I don't need to think about it.My sister also said that when my sister was hit by him, she would always say what he said, and he would deny what happened to him in various ways.

Yes, that person is such a person!After thinking about it this way, I minimized my guilt!I think this is a kind of self-regulation!Hating someone is also very depressing.

I'm guessing that Aunt Sue's daughter may also suffer from some degree of depression.I have seen her several times, and every time, she looks angry, maybe it is not because she just happened to be angry, but her mood has been in a low state.

I have always thought that this child is completely different from the child Aunt Su said, and I even think that mothers always look at their children with the best eyes, so Aunt Su's description is probably not objective enough.Now it seems that she may have really changed, perhaps because of illness.

I checked whether the divorce of parents will cause depression in children, and the conclusion is yes!And a large proportion of children suffer from depression because their parents divorced.

I immediately became more cautious about that child. I ignored it before, thinking that the matter of their mother and daughter was their private matter.All I can think of is whether there is someone to bring Shiyun, and whether my life will be affected.However, if they are allowed to be disappointed in each other, live their own lives, ignore each other's mood and opinions, it may cause some bad results.

The knot must be untied!Heart disease can be more difficult to diagnose and treat than any other illness.However, it is not an incurable disease. No one will prescribe an incurable diagnosis for a patient with a heart disease, but no one can guarantee that a patient with a heart disease that can be cured by himself needs heart medicine.

I asked Aunt Su if she had discussed her divorce with her daughter.

Aunt Su said that there is nothing to discuss about this matter. Anyway, her daughter has never asked about it, and this matter does not involve the child.They haven't discussed it.

But, I said, but doesn't Aunt Su also think that the child's temperament has changed drastically because of the parents' divorce?All the current behaviors are not like the daughter raised by Aunt Su.

Aunt Su was silent for a while, and Aunt Su's emotional state was not particularly good.She said, let her say what?She knew what to say and what not to say, anticipating what she would say.Even though she knew that it was bad, wrong, and shouldn't tell the child about her father's faults.But if you talk about divorce with your daughter, she will definitely say it, and the consequences of that will not be better than now.

The daughter loves her father very much, and of course, she also loves her mother very much, otherwise she would not have moved out of the house with her mother without asking anything.But this does not mean that she loves her mother more than her father, it may just be sympathy for the weak.In fact, if there is no daughter.In the first few months when Aunt Su came out of the house, she was desperate.

Her natal family cannot go back.If she had a natal family that she could go back to, then, more than ten years ago, when her daughter was still very young, she should have divorced, and she would not wait until now.Her parents think that divorce is shameful, and would rather let their daughter be a cow and a horse in other people's families than agree with their daughter's divorce.If you say divorce, break off the relationship with her.

Ten years ago, my daughter went to middle school, and the things at home suddenly became less. At that time, Aunt Su wanted to find something to do, and there happened to be a beauty shop nearby for sale. Aunt Su thought it would be good to start a beauty shop. , everyone has it, and with the improvement of people's living standards, more and more people are willing to spend money on beauty, so she wants to do it without paying.

I went back to discuss with my ex-husband, but I was thrown cold water, saying that Aunt Su is not good for business, she doesn't know how to run a business, so she was told not to think about it.Aunt Su didn't take it seriously. She thought that he could do it, why couldn't she do it, and it was a booming business, so she just took over and followed the original business method of others.The ex-husband said that what others can do may not necessarily be what she can do, in short, he disagrees.

(End of this chapter)