Beauty and Marriage

Chapter 125 Who Steps On Whose Shoulders
Some people analyzed that that best friend might know it all the time, but she just turned a blind eye and closed her eyes. If you tell her the truth, will she be grateful to you?Of course you don't need her gratitude, just wish her well!But good intentions did bad things.

Some people also said that they may feel ashamed or embarrassed, and if you know about being cheated on, how can they face you!
At this time, everyone started to come up with some ideas again, saying that we can design it, don't tell her yourself, pretend that you don't know.Watch her reaction and don't meddle in this matter.Then it won't implicate you.

Anyway, in the end, everyone's opinions should be told to my girlfriends, just don't be so straightforward!Protectors should also pay attention to methods and methods, so as not to hurt themselves in the end.

It turns out that in this world, similar stories are happening to different people every day!
While helping her mother-in-law, Xiaojia lamented that there was nothing new to do recently.I suddenly thought of sand painting. When I was watching TV a few days ago, I just talked with Aunt Su. I personally like painting, and I really wanted to try it. When Xiaojia mentioned it, I told her, she Sure enough, she was very interested, and she was an activist, and immediately said that she would go to learn with me.

I asked Aunt Su if I could contact the teacher to teach us. I think she draws very well.Although Aunt Su's problem needs to be solved urgently!But life cannot stop at one problem.

Aunt Su gave us the contact information, and we went to the experience class. The teacher is very kind and looks very temperamental. There are many photos of her works in her studio.She demonstrated some basic techniques to us, and used the basic techniques to do a simple sand painting performance. We were amazed, it was too fast and smooth, how long did we have to learn to reach this level.

The teacher said that depending on the individual level, those who have a foundation in painting can master the basic techniques in about a month, and then they can paint freely!

Xiao Jia said that if she knew it earlier, she would learn to paint with me!I said, I didn't draw very well either!

I'm not being humble, but I think it's not that easy to make sand paintings. If I let the teacher know that I have the foundation of painting, if I can't paint well at that time, I will feel a little ashamed.

Practicing techniques is actually quite boring. We chatted while practicing, and asked how the teacher got into this industry.

The teacher said, somehow, I passed the age of 27 in a muddle, without a decent job, no skill, and no partner. In their time, after 25 years old, they were older women, let alone 27 years old!I feel that it is impossible for me to find a partner. I can no longer spend my days in a daze. At least I need to have a skill to make myself a foothold in this society. It was at that time that I knew the existence of sand paintings, and I also felt amazing and shocked. Unfortunately, it was decided now, and I will be engaged in this matter in the future!At that time, there were very few people in China who knew about sand painting, and almost none knew how to do it.I don't know where to get a sand painting table.At the beginning, the sand painting tables were all made by myself, and it was not too difficult. A piece of glass, with a few light sticks underneath, of course, the effect is not as good as the current sand painting tables, and the glass is not durable, and the nails scratched it several times It’s spent, it’s very obvious on the projection, the lamp is easy to break, and sometimes I can’t connect to the computer and can’t cast the screen!Thinking about that time, how many times I wanted to give up, but when I thought about my situation, I was not qualified to give up, so I just persisted.

This persistence has lasted for more than ten years. Now that I think about it, it is fortunate that I persisted at that time!
It's amazing, Xiaojia and I both showed admiration!We think it's amazing, under such difficult conditions, we have practiced our skills so well and performed such exquisite performances.We are in such a good condition now, but we still find it difficult to persevere!
The teacher said that we don't make a living from this, it's just a hobby, so naturally we won't work hard for this, so we will find abuse!
We saw a sand painting of a wedding photo, teased the teacher, now is a double harvest of family and business, the teacher smiled shyly.It's like a newlywed, it's great to see their relationship!

My hands were sore from practice. I went home and talked with Aunt Su about the sand painting teacher. I asked Aunt Su if she was not interested in anything. Although her daughter’s attitude was not very good, it was not unreasonable. perseverance.In fact, her daughter has a stable job now. Auntie Su has no other pressure, so she can give it a try. Like the sand painting teacher and my sister, there are many successful examples around her.

The aunt said that I said the same thing to her daughter, as if I failed to convince her daughter, but was persuaded by her daughter, what can she say?Maybe she has no ambitions.It is too difficult to gain a foothold in this society, and she doesn't have that kind of determination.They are all dazzled, what kind of career are they still pursuing, and they will drag the children down again later!It's time to support children.It is for her to let the children realize their dreams and realize their ideals.Seeing her child struggling to make ends meet, she felt that she was quite incompetent. If her daughter followed her father, she would not have to think so much, and would not make money as her top priority!
It's all children climbing up on the shoulders of their parents, so there is no reason for parents to climb up on the shoulders of their children.

It turns out that Aunt Su and her daughter have been arguing over who should sacrifice and who should let go of the pursuit. They both want to be each other's stepping stones, but neither is willing to accept it.Children who grow up in love will indeed learn to love, but such selfless love is a bit of a waste. If one party is a little more selfish and allows the other party to bear the pressure of life, and pursue careers or dreams by themselves, will there be better results? What about the ending?
Both parties have their reasons, and I don't know which side to persuade, neither side will listen to persuasion, so I'd better not say anything.

Moreover, even if one party pursues it, it is not guaranteed to be successful. This society is not so easy to mess up. Dad has been working for so many years before he can make a business.

My sister encounters various problems every day, such as unsalable sales, overstocked goods, occasional wrong goods, occasional delivery of wrong courier information...The capital chain is broken again, and the employees are unhappy...There is no small problem during the entrepreneurial period. All are fatal injuries!Success can be said to be met but not sought!

I always thought that a person as good as my sister would succeed in everything. Of course, I still believe so now, but I have seen the difficulties involved.This road is full of thorns, and not everyone can bear the hardship.Unless it is a personal persistent wish, of course you have to support others to do it, but it is not good to force them to do it.Of course, this is my own idea, and people may not agree with it when I say it. Some people just need a little encouragement before they can make up their minds to take action.

(End of this chapter)