Beauty and Marriage

Chapter 121 Expectations of People Around You

As an adult, I've often thought it through before expressing my opinion (except on my sister's matter).Because I often think clearly before speaking, so in fact, there are not many people who really understand me. A qualified adult knows how to hide himself.

As a qualified adult, there is a lot of psychological burden. For those things that I want to say but can't say, even Tang Yufeng can't say it.I always say that I never shy away from anything in front of my husband, but in fact it is not!I will pay more attention.The words I said in the hospital were really just my brain short-circuited.It turns out that some words can hurt; it turns out that inappropriate words can damage relationships.Facts have proved that it is very necessary to be a prudent person.

I don't have the heart to worry about Liu Xiaoyou's problems. I still have a lot of troubles in my own life!Aunt Su's daughter is so strongly against Aunt Su being an aunt in our family, I have to put this issue first.If I can't do a good job with Aunt Su's daughter, Aunt Su will probably leave our house in the end. Then I have to find a reliable aunt again. After getting used to Aunt Su, I always change aunts like this, and I am also worried that Shi Yun will lose her sense of security.

Sometimes I really want to just quit my job and take care of the kids at home.Now that the material conditions are better, children have everything they need materially. Many people calculate the cost of raising a child and say that the child is happy now.But the few children in our family, I think they are all quite pitiful.

Haohao and Xiaobao are left-behind children. Xiaobao now looks at his sister in the same way as when Haohao was about one year old, thinking cautiously, "Who is this person!"

Occasionally, my sister took time to go back and hug her, and she would cry, as if being hugged by a human trafficker.Turn over and find my mother immediately.My sister is very sad, but the child is not sad.

Haohao is sensible now. In cartoons, he sees that children live with their parents. Their parent-child relationship is so close. He will also fantasize about the details of his parents. Even though he is not around, he sees his sister’s The eyes are always longing, and always feel that they belong to the person he is closest to.

Every time in the video, when I hear Haohao saying that I miss my mother and want to come over, my sister will cry, and then my parents will spend a lot of thought and use many methods to coax Haohao, eat delicious food, and spend time in the amusement park When bouncing around with the children, I temporarily forgot about my mother.Seeing that Haohao is happy, his father will ask him, "I won't go to my mother's place anymore, just stay with my grandpa in my hometown, okay?"

Sometimes Haohao would say, "Okay, just buy me a lot of delicious food and a lot of toys!" More often, he would still say, "I miss my mother, I want to go to my mother's place!"

The child's true thoughts still miss his mother and want to be with his mother. No matter how delicious the food is, no amount of toys can replace it.In fact, we all know very well that the reality makes us very helpless, so we hope to fill the hearts of children with delicious food and exquisite toys. However, this is not a good solution.

This is why Dad said he was old and would like to retire.It is impossible for my sister to resign and take care of the children at home like me. No one can afford her life, and she must bear the heavy pressure of life.Her parents will eventually get old, and she still has to bear her own life. She still has two children.Then the only solution for the child to miss his mother is for his parents to come over.

The mother can't take care of the two children alone. If we work together and live together, it is probably okay.I have seen some news about the reverse Chinese New Year before. It is not easy for children to go home. It is often the parents who accommodate their children and go to the city where the children work to celebrate the New Year.Every little thing in life reflects the greatness of my parents, and I have to learn from them, so far I am still a little bit more myself.

He told Haohao that he would bring him to find his mother and live with his mother from now on. He was very happy.He said that he would go to his mother for a while before returning to his hometown, but he said he would never come back again!It sounds very unconscionable, but in fact he was just afraid of being separated from his mother. After all, when he came back with his grandparents last time, he only said that he would stay with his mother for a while, but he ended up staying for more than a year.

Then he said that he wanted to come to his mother, and after more than a month, he was still in his hometown, so he kept asking when he would go to his mother.

Little Treasure has no idea yet, she lives a normal life every day, but it is better, or she will not get used to it for a while if she leaves her hometown, but with Haohao's lessons learned, no one wants her to have the same experience as Haohao .

I thought that my parents were really old, they couldn't work anymore, the business was hard to do, and they didn't want to do it, so they agreed to help my sister.Hearing my mother say that Haohao misses his mother so much, I suddenly feel sorry for my parents, but my father said that people move to live, and trees move to death. People have to constantly adapt to the form, and it is not a bad thing to have different experiences in life. .Moms too are successful always the ones who love to mess around!I hope they will have a good time here.

Haohao and the others had the pain of parting, and Shi Yun was not much better. She spent much longer time with her aunt than my mother. For a while, she was closer to her aunt than me. After changing the aunt, I searched for it for several days, but I Abandon her, but she may not necessarily find me.Of course, when I grow up, I will still kiss me. I know very well that Haohao was brought up by my mother. Isn't he closer to his mother!
It is better to solve the problem of Shi Yun's aunt first, no one will take it.

I don't know if Aunt Su's daughter's personality has changed drastically because her parents divorced, but her parents only divorced when she was 20 years old. As for it?Not a child.

I got to know Aunt Su carefully.Aunt Su said that her daughter couldn’t see how she was doing well, and she always felt that she was doing badly. Temper, saying that Aunt Su is not enterprising.Aunt Su said that her daughter was not like this when she was young, she was innocent, kind, lively and helpful.

But now every sentence expresses contempt for Aunt Su, her work, her friends, and her way of life, as if they lived a noble life in the past. Because of this, Aunt Su and her daughter have quarreled many times.Now the two of them can't communicate normally. Before, they just closed the door and quarreled at home, but now she doesn't care about outsiders.

(End of this chapter)