Beauty and Marriage

Chapter 118 "Inferior" style
During this period of time, my family and career have also been frustrated, which made me a little depressed!But compared to some people, what is my ups and downs?

One day Liu Xiaoyou suddenly went to Xiaojia for a drink, and burst into tears after drinking half of it.

Liu Xiaoyou rejected Xu Chengwei, but Xu Chengwei still often went to Liu Xiaoyou's father's shop to show his hospitality.Liu Xiaoyou asked his father to ignore Xu Chengwei, but Liu Xiaoyou's parents treated Xu Chengwei very well. Liu Xiaoyou didn't want to be too harsh on his parents, so he didn't correct them too much.Parents thought that Liu Xiaoyou felt inferior because of her disabled parents, especially when facing a family like Xu Chengwei.And seeing that Xu Chengwei cared so much for Liu Xiaoyou, he had never seen anyone caring so much for Liu Xiaoyou.Liu Xiaoyou's parents felt that Liu Xiaoyou would be happy with Xu Chengwei.So I like Xu Chengwei very much and treat Xu Chengwei very well.I especially hope that they will succeed, and I am also very afraid that Xu Chengwei will shrink back because of Liu Xiaoyou's attitude.So while coaxing Xu Chengwei, he educated Liu Xiaoyou.

Such a situation made Liu Xiaoyou very speechless and even more helpless!

Liu Xiaoyou, who was said intolerable, asked her parents why she had to feel inferior, why should she have to be inferior to such an excellent person.

Her parents told her not to die!She's almost 30 years old, she's an old girl, she has nothing to be proud of, if she misses Xu Chengwei, she will definitely regret it in the future.When I met someone like Xu Chengwei, I didn't even have time to cherish it, so I pushed it away.

In fact, Xiaojia and I thought the same way before. Liu Xiaoyou's rejection of Xu Chengwei should be due to low self-esteem, but as outsiders, we have no position to intervene in what will happen to Liu Xiaoyou and Xu Chengwei.We want them all to be happy, but we don't know which ending will be happy for them.

The position of Liu Xiaoyou's parents is very clear. They feel that their children will be happy if they have such a good belonging as Xu Chengwei.This is completely opposite to the position of Xu Chengwei's parents, but it is consistent with Xu Chengwei's position!But what about Liu Xiaoyou's position?
Liu Xiaoyou felt more and more disturbed!What's even more disturbing is that Liu Xiaoyou's parents also flattered Xu Chengwei's parents by making shoes for them and sending them food.This pissed off Liu Xiaoyou!She hated her parents for doing this since she was a child!Every time my parents do this, it hurts Liu Xiaoyou's self-esteem. They always try to please others so flatteringly, hoping to use this "advantage" in exchange for others to accept them. This kind of "inferior" behavior almost drives Liu Xiaoyou crazy!
When I was young, other classmates paid their tuition fees and walked into the classroom frankly.Only Liu Xiaoyou, whose parents held eggs or other "inconspicuous" things, led Liu Xiaoyou in the principal's office. It is possible to intercede with the principal and let the child go to school first, and the tuition fee will be paid later. explain.Every time after registering for school, Liu Xiaoyou would be discussed by her classmates for a long time.The whole school knew about Liu Xiaoyou's situation.The teacher will come to ask Liu Xiaoyou again after a while, and the parents will ask the principal for some unremarkable things.

Liu Xiaoyou used to be very tired of studying. She didn't like school. Of course, it was probably because of this reason that her brother made trouble at school and dropped out early.

Liu Xiaoyou also skipped school. I don't know if it was luck or misfortune. At that time, my brother happened to get into trouble outside.Parents were so anxious that they begged for help everywhere.In the end it was a public lawyer who sorted things out for them.That person looks so stylish, calm and calm, methodical, relaxed, exuding a professional demeanor from beginning to end.And solving problems is also gentle, and everyone's attitude towards him is even more gentle. Liu Xiaoyou is deeply impressed by that person.I can't help but sigh that I also want to be that kind of person.It just so happened that this person heard this. He said that if he studies hard now, he can become a person like him in the future.At that time, Liu Xiaoyou regarded that person as his idol. Naturally, what he said was unquestionable.Then Liu Xiaoyou learned a lot about lawyers. From the information she collected, being a lawyer was even better than what she saw, so she firmly embarked on this path from then on.No matter how many times she gets stared at, she still persists in studying her books. Sure enough, where there is aspiration, everything can be accomplished, and the sky pays off. Now she has finally realized her wish and become the person she wanted to be, but why, she still can't get rid of this A kind of "inferior" personality?

Parents still live in this kind of pleasing way for a lifetime, Liu Xiaoyou knows that they can't change their parents, but it's only about her affairs, can this not be the case?Liu Xiaoyou feels that the more humble you are to please others, the more they will despise you!
When I was young, I never asked for a lot of money because my parents did this. What should be paid, why should I pay less?Empty to be scorned by others.

Liu Xiaoyou was very annoyed and asked her parents why they wanted to please other people's parents. They clearly said that they dislike your children. If you do this, aren't you humiliating your own children?
Parents don't think so, thinking that as long as they are good to others, they will always soften their hearts.

Liu Xiaoyou may be a good debater on legal issues, but she is really helpless when facing her parents. Their ideas are deeply ingrained, and she can't change it no matter what.

Liu Xiaoyou finally broke down!She yelled at her parents!
Did you give birth to me because you prayed to a family to accept me one day?Would you rather ask others to treat me well than believe that I can live well on my own?Since you have the courage to give birth to me, why can't you trust me, believe that I can control my own life well, and believe that I can live a good life without relying on others!I don't want to have children, not only because of the genetic diseases in our family, but also because I don't want to live like you, always begging for children.Begging for a bite of food, begging for admission to school, begging for help with this and that, and begging for someone to marry me!Then what?Aren't there not enough people who stand tall in front of you?With whom do you get married, and people will respect you?With your self-deprecating attitude, one more person in your life will only make you more humble.

You think that brother has no education, no skills, so he can only work hard, is that true?With my own efforts, my brother also got the position of sales manager, and he supervised several college students. Did you think of this before?As for me, you said it was useless to go to college, and you said it was a waste of time to go to graduate school. Now you conclude that I am 30 years old. If I don’t get married, no one will want me in the future. I should regret it when I am old.Why can't I rely on myself?Why is it so difficult for you to believe me?
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