Beauty and Marriage

Chapter 113 Apologize to Mother-in-law

Tang Yufeng said with a wide heart, "It's okay! I don't feel anything now!"

I don't know what to say to win back their hearts. It should be more difficult to win back mother-in-law's heart than Tang Yufeng's!It is really not easy to manage some relationships. No matter how long you take care of them, they may collapse in an instant, and then it will be difficult to establish them.

"The operation is at five o'clock in the afternoon, and there are still more than six hours." I said. "I have already signed the consent form for surgery!"

I think what I said is also quite inappropriate.Obviously, it is the mother who loves her son more than my daughter-in-law!But the person who has the right to sign the consent form for the operation is my daughter-in-law, not her mother.Tang Yufeng has something to do, and the first emergency contact is me, but I didn't answer the phone.The mother-in-law is as long as Tang Yufeng calls her, no matter what she is doing, she will stop what she is doing and answer happily, even if what Tang Yufeng wants to say on the phone is as trivial as a feather.

What does it really mean to be married?I don't seem to be figuring this out even though I've been married for several years!Tang Yufeng has always been responsible for me, but I still don’t understand that I need to be responsible for him. I just complain about family matters that bind me and make me want to do my own things.

There is no filial son in front of the sick bed for a long time. When you are sick, you can often see people's hearts the most. My heart also let them see it at this time!It's really hard to be a human being, and it's really not easy to run a family.When will the growth be completed?
The mother-in-law asked, "Can I eat? It's almost noon!"

"Can't eat! Mom! You can't drink water. You can only eat liquid food after surgery." I said this just to let my mother-in-law know that I still attach great importance to Tang Yufeng's illness. I understand everything that should be understood, no I don't know if this will get a little approval from my mother-in-law.

The mother-in-law said, "I'll go back and make some porridge later!"

Tang Yufeng said, "Go and eat something first! You still have to pay attention to your diet!"

"Xiaojie, go and eat first! I'm here!" Although my mother-in-law didn't say anything to me, I always feel guilty because of my mistakes.It feels like she is saying that if she can, she would rather be the guardian of her son for the rest of her life than bother me. No matter what happens to her son, she, as a mother, can and is willing to bear it.Both men and women must understand that getting married is really giving yourself to the other party, and he (she) will become the person closest to you. Not only is he responsible for you, but you are also responsible for him.The mother-in-law must feel that she has handed over her son to an irresponsible and selfish person!

Tang Yufeng smiled and said, "Go and eat, there is no major problem. You are in the hospital, there is nothing to worry about. If you go to eat, I can still have a good rest. How can I sleep if you are here hungry."

The mother-in-law said, "Then let's go eat!"

"Hmm!" Tang Yufeng closed his eyes after responding.

I took my mother-in-law to eat in a restaurant in front of the hospital. Except for the first time we met, I had never been so flustered in front of my mother-in-law. I didn't know what to do.

"What do you think you want to eat?" I put the menu in front of my mother-in-law.

The mother-in-law said, "Look at it! Just eat something!"

"Hmm! Good!" I looked at the menu and said to the waiter, "Which dishes will be served sooner?"

The waiter said, "Fried dishes are fast!"

"Then fry two signature dishes!"

My mother-in-law could see that I was uncomfortable, maybe I was too angry. She is a sensible person. Although she is also a person with rich emotions, her emotional impulse is always so temporary, and her rationality will eventually return.The mother-in-law said, "Don't worry, you still have to eat well. Yufeng got sick because he didn't pay attention to his diet! Order what you want and eat well!"

"Well! Then you order one too!"

When eating, my mother-in-law told me that when I was young, my mother-in-law would come home later and see that Tang Yufeng had already prepared the meal.Tang Yufeng has the ability to survive, and he is okay in all aspects.

Originally, my mother-in-law was relieved that Tang Yufeng was alone, and Tang Yufeng often told her mother-in-law to eat on time at home and pay attention to her health!

But one time my mother-in-law came to see Tang Yufeng and found that his kitchen was almost unused, and there were still a lot of instant food seasonings, which must have been handled so carelessly.It turned out that he could live such a bad life by himself. My mother-in-law asked him why he didn't cook and eat well. Eating is the most important thing for the body. He said it was troublesome to be alone!At that time, my mother-in-law hoped that Tang Yufeng could get married, so that someone would pay attention to his diet and his body.Besides, Tang Yufeng is a responsible person. If there is someone living together, he will think about taking care of the other person even if he doesn't take care of himself.

Hearing what my mother-in-law said, I admitted my mistake. I did not pay attention to Tang Yufeng's diet and body as my mother-in-law expected!These are just lip service and no action is taken. Tang Yufeng takes care of me more in every way!When we went to work together, it was better. We often went to the kitchen, ate together, and did sports together.Now, he always leaves early and returns late, but what I care about is that he spends too little time with me, and I don't care whether he is tired, whether he is eating well, whether he is not feeling well.

Whether in the workplace or in the family, there are many things. I only saw the part I suffered, and ignored what he suffered.

I have many shortcomings as a person, one of which is that when a bad thing happens, it is difficult for me to recover emotionally. Things at work make me a little upset, and I am a little depressed, so my brain has not turned around, and I have no idea. Being able to grasp the real point and hurt Tang Yufeng by talking nonsense in front of him is the second shortcoming of mine, I can't speak!Heartless!Although Tang Yufeng knew that I was such a person, but seeing his expression just now, I knew he should be very sad, and I felt bad.I will talk to him thoroughly and apologize to him. Regarding his illness, although I do think he is causing me trouble, I actually feel more distressed.

The mother-in-law said that she also has this kind of time, and it often happens. She can understand it. For example, when queuing up to buy a ticket, she finally got in line, and the child kept crying next to her. When I didn't buy a ticket, I especially thought it was troublesome for children.However, although I understand, I am not so comfortable emotionally.

So Tang Yufeng must understand me, but it doesn't mean he feels good.

After dinner with my mother-in-law, when I returned to the ward, I saw a couple quarreling in the hospital corridor.The cause of their quarrel was that the child fell from the bed to the floor.The husband is blaming the wife for taking care of the child. She does nothing all day long and can't even take care of a child.

(End of this chapter)