Beauty and Marriage

Chapter 105 Nationality and Household Registration

After listening to Xu Chengwei's words, I have a new reflection on myself. I am not a person who can face problems directly. I always avoid them. My parents probably won't be pleased with me!
The words my sister said to let my father retire appeared in my mind again. Although my father loved his career very much when he was fighting hard to get ahead, he is also an old man.Could he also feel tired, but he didn't complain to us, he felt that we were not able to take over the baton, and he didn't want to put pressure on us.Now, the lives of my sister and I have entered the right track. If he also wants to take over the post, resign from his position as a parent, and do other things he wants to do, that would be great.

My mother said that my father really wanted to make friends. He is getting older and earning money is no longer important. He wants to enjoy family happiness. Going home and playing with his two children every day is what he would like to do most.He also often takes two children to travel, not to the bitter places he took me to when I was young, but to beautifully planned scenic spots and farms, but the two children are too young to play, if I go with them He will be very happy if his sister has time to accompany him to go out for a walk.

The hardest thing about work is that when you want to spend time with your family, you can't find time.I have already taken all my holidays to see them, but because of the distance between the two places, it is still too little to get along with each other!Many people say pessimistically that they are meeting their parents less and less.Calculated based on the fact that the parents can still live for 20 years, we only see each other once a year, but only [-] times. Let us cherish every meeting with our parents. It will make people even more sad to hear such words.

I talked about this with Xiaojia, and said that I envied her to be with her brother and mother every day. Xiaojia said that Zhou Yingying was not worse!

Zhou Yingying was miserable.

I was sent out of the country at a young age, although I was spared the pressure of the domestic college entrance examination at that time, I was happier than those of us who shed blood and tears for the college entrance examination for a while.But at the age of adapting to the society, she adapted to the foreign society. Although she also wanted to return to China after studying, her boyfriend was from there, so she could only marry a chicken and follow the chicken, found a job there, and survived.In order to enjoy the benefits there, I immigrated there.

Just like many of us have transferred our hukou to the city where we work. Maybe we didn’t think of settling in the city where we worked at first, but just wanted to get a higher salary in first-tier cities like BJ, Shanghai, Shenzhen, and Guangzhou. Go back to live where your roots are. Most of the people who wander outside are still attached to their roots.

It's just that you have to live where you work, and you can't enjoy local benefits if you hold a foreign hukou.Medical care, as my mother mentioned before when she was sick, social security in other places has to be paid by oneself. Although some reforms have been made now, the reimbursement part is still pitifully small. Who doesn’t have a headache when they are alone?Many medical services in the local social security are free, but the non-local hukou is only reported as a percentage, and then the rent. The local hukou can apply for low-rent housing, and you can also buy affordable housing, which greatly reduces the cost of living. How bitter it is to see all the hard-earned money going into the landlord's pocket every month!This is the reason why my sister and her ex-husband transferred their household registration, otherwise they would have to go back to the place of household registration to do anything, what a hassle!There are also children who go to school and apply for college entrance examinations. It is difficult to apply for a registered permanent residence in a different place. It is also difficult to register for a name and register.
So when you go to work in a place, you must have the consciousness to live in this place.It is always more convenient to transfer the account, does that mean breaking with one's own roots?

Many people hear that a certain person has changed their nationality and think that the other person is not patriotic. So if we change our household registration, do we not love our hometown?It's just because of being in that environment, in order to survive in that environment better.

Whether our descendants will love our motherland depends on how we build our country now!The generation of her stepfather did their best to create a prosperous and stable country. Yingying loves our country very much in her heart, and she is very proud of being abroad.

Yingying didn't want to change her nationality, but she worked and lived there, and it was inconvenient for her to hold Chinese nationality, but after changing her nationality, when she came back, she felt very funny, obviously she was Chinese People, say they are overseas Chinese.Moreover, the nationality cannot be changed.Obviously my father is Chinese, but when I go home, it becomes a visit to relatives. I live in my own home, but I can't say it is my home, it is my place!If you ask how to change your nationality back, you will still be ridiculed. At the beginning, you worshiped foreigners, but now you regret it!

My sister has a deep understanding of this point. My sister’s hukou can’t be changed back. Now our hukou is more difficult to get into. I don’t know why. Although the welfare in the first-tier cities is very good, when you get old and want to live in your own It becomes unrealistic to live in the place where you grew up for a long time, because you can only enjoy the benefits of the place where your household registration is located.

Dad didn't want to come here because he didn't want to leave his roots subjectively. Who would want to leave their roots subjectively?

My hukou has not been moved here, and I have never thought about changing my hukou from the beginning to the end. Although people like me should have a sense of belonging with a salary here and a house here, I don't think it is necessary.Because I don’t need those benefits so much, I hardly get sick, and I think the social security reimbursement rate is quite high. I have a place to live, and I don’t have to worry about rent, passport, entry and exit. These places can also do it, even if I lose my ID card. No need to go back to the place of residence.As for the children to go to school, Tang Yufeng and Shiyun's household registration has been moved here, plus they have a house, so they don't have to worry about the degree house they bought when they bought the house...

From this point of view, as long as the nationality remains the same, domestic problems are indeed minor problems. It is indeed more troublesome for people who have changed their nationality like Yingying, not just the household registration problem.If you do not change your nationality abroad, you will have trouble doing anything; if you return to your country, it will also be troublesome because your nationality has changed.So it was not easy for her to come back. Although she actually missed her relatives from time to time, especially after she became a mother, she couldn't come back.Stepfather likes poetry rhyme, more like Yingying's children, he can only give double love to poetry rhyme, it is not easy to see Yingying's children.

Everyone is facing countless problems in life. No matter how hard you work and how much you have, problems will always emerge one after another. What we can do is to keep calm and deal with problems when we encounter them.

Ask questions, ask questions!
(End of this chapter)