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Chapter 102 Gu Yan and Mo Xiaobei had an in-depth conversation
Mo Xiaobei took a sip of ginger tea to meet Gu Yan's eyes and said calmly, "Sister Min and I were very good at first, and we are fellow villagers. During the interview, our concept of personnel work and the three views are very similar. Yes, we got along very well when we first joined the company.”

Mo Xiaobei sighed and said, "I don't know when her attitude towards me changed a lot, and I don't even know when I offended her."

Gu Yan asked, "Didn't you guys talk about it?"

"Actually, I wanted to talk about it, especially when I became a regular salary. I asked her frankly if she had misunderstood me. She didn't take my fault."

"Then what happened next?" Gu Yan asked.

Mo Xiaobei drank ginger tea and said: "Later, as the work progressed, I felt that the two people had very different ideas about many things in the work. I even found that the value concepts of the three pillars and BP are fundamentally different. It’s not what we said in the interview, maybe she was really perfunctory at the time, but I’m actually a little disappointed.”

"How?" Gu Yan asked seriously.

"You should know that my mind is very active, and I like to presuppose the results, and then try to think about the problems that will be encountered as much as possible, and put the possible problems in front, so as to avoid many bad results and prevent problems in the future. It's not like that!"

"Sister Kemin prefers traditional transactional HR. I think this is the root cause of the problems between us, and it will lead to more and more differences between us." Mo Xiaobei said.

"Actually, I also know that Sister Min is the leader and I am a subordinate. Naturally, I am accommodating to her, but this does not prevent me from expressing my views. In comparison, other colleagues will appear to be more obedient. She may like Such a person. In this way, it will appear that I am special and disobedient." Mo Xiaobei shrugged.

"Well, have you ever thought about the two of you communicating again? Communicate more sincerely?" Gu Yan asked.

"She has already rejected it once, I don't think it's necessary." Mo Xiaobei shook his head and said.

"Sometimes when she talks to me, there is always a bit of yin and yang, and when I have a disagreement with anyone, no matter who is right or wrong, she will not stand by me, and she will not even deal with it fairly. Last time I asked, She didn't reply, which made me feel that Sister Min...she is not someone who can give me the desire to communicate proactively again."

Gu Yan drank some water, looked at Mo Xiaobei with a smile, and said, "But you are a BP, and BP's way of thinking is to diagnose and solve problems, not the way you deal with them now. Isn't it a bit of a double standard? ?" Mo Xiaobei didn't expect that Gu Yan would use her words to counter his own point of view.

She said with a helpless smile: "But she is a leader, shouldn't team management be something she has to consider? And I really think that our values ​​​​are different, and there is no way to reconcile them, just like many things that are handled by personnel. We should start from a professional point of view and give suggestions and methods to the leaders, but she thinks that the boss will do what the boss says, and we will execute it."

Gu Yan stood up, and took the fruit on the table to blanch again: "Eat it quickly, or I will have to blanch it a third time."

Mo Xiaobei smiled, picked up the fruit plate, and ate the food that Gu Yan carefully prepared for him.

Gu Yan sat down again and said, "You're right, she is the leader, and team management is her business, but she thinks the current method is a good one, and she has been managing the team in her own way, and It's you."

"So things didn't develop in the direction you thought, but intensified in the direction you hate. She doesn't care what your subjective feelings are. It has nothing to do with her. Everyone only cares about their own thoughts and feelings. The work plan, and whether others have followed what she wants. Not only Zhang Min, but everyone."

Gu Yan glanced at the phone that was calling, then continued to look at Mo Xiaobei and said earnestly, "Maybe, you don't want to hear it, but the fact is that the official level is crushing people. At this time, the game between you is obviously more important to her than her." Superior. If you are still very tenacious at this time, things will be difficult to handle. At this time, the best way is to overcome rigidity with softness."

"Whether Zhang Min intentionally made things difficult for you at work, or deliberately neglected you in terms of subjective emotions, you will be the one who suffers. If Zhang Min is not so broad-minded and marginalized in workplace battles, you will immediately raise the issue." Now on you, then you are really in a dilemma. She has the right to choose, but you can only be chosen!"

Gu Yan frowned and said, "If you are as good at dancing as Han Wei, you will definitely not be able to learn how to dismiss Linglong, and this is not something that can be changed and learned overnight."

He smiled again, and said, "How about you, you're somewhat aloof and aloof..." Mo Xiaobei was anxious to refute, but Gu Yan immediately said, "Don't be in a hurry to deny... You can't do that even if you sneer at Han Wei's work style. Going with the flow like Gao Jun, not as pursuitless as Bian Linglong, and not like Yan Ruolan who is alone in everything... So what do you think is your advantage in being in the workplace, and what point can you compete with Zhang Min."

Mo Xiaobei couldn't help admiring Gu Yan's ability to see the essence through the phenomenon. He usually seemed to be in control of everything. Unexpectedly, he knew so much about every employee in the personnel department. Maybe he was better than Zhang Min. Also get to know her team.

Everything Gu Yan said hit the point, and his analysis was so thorough that even Mo Xiaobei felt a little guilty.

Mo Xiaobei let out a long sigh, and suddenly thought of 'what do you think of me as a woman', she felt that the topic had reached this point, and she had a chance to ask again, just by changing the way.

Then she pretended to be casual and said: "You don't know everyone in the company so well, so what do you think of me?" She deliberately concealed the word 'woman'.

Mo Xiaobei's words reminded Gu Yan of the drunk Mo Xiaobei asked him, and he once said that as long as you dare to ask again when you are sober, I will tell you.

He thought for a while and said, "You! You are strong, brave, progressive, kind, mischievous...and a little cute...very vivid! It's just..."

"What is it?" Mo Xiaobei asked impatiently.

"Too sensitive, and a bit suspicious." Gu Yan added.

Mo Xiaobei pretended to ask, and scratched his head again: "Then if you analyze it from the perspective of gender, what do you think I am..." Mo Xiaobei didn't say anything later, she thought Gu Yan could understand .

Gu Yan certainly understands: "You are an independent woman who knows how to stop losses in time, and is good at paying attention to herself and working hard to improve herself. The most attractive thing about you is that you please yourself."

Gu Yan's evaluation of Mo Xiaobei's women in this aspect comes entirely from Mo Xiaobei's more than 1000 Weibo posts.

Mo Xiaobei knew that Gu Yan meant 'heroism', but she never thought that Gu Yan would read all of her Weibo, so she was very surprised by Gu Yan's evaluation.

"Did I show such characteristics in my work?" Mo Xiaobei asked doubtfully.

Gu Yan picked up the cup and raised his eyebrows: "Partly."

"What about the other part?" Mo Xiaobei asked.

Gu Yan put down his glass: "What we're discussing today is your job and the way you get along with your superiors. It's not about analyzing your personality traits."

Mo Xiaobei felt a little embarrassed: "Hee hee..."

Gu Yandao: "Let's get down to business, my suggestion is that you can be yourself, but don't have a strong supervisory color, start from the business itself, and use your BP perspective."

"True philosophy." Mo Xiaobei said with a blank look at him.

Gu Yan smirked: "There is another way."

Mo Xiaobei hurriedly asked, "What?"

"Use the way you tried to please me when you first joined the job to please Zhang Min, and she will definitely benefit from it." Gu Yan laughed.

"Hey... I was so humble to you back then, but there was a reason for it. It's different now, well, I don't want to do such shitty things anymore." Mo Xiaobei said helplessly.

"Besides, I think Miss Min wants to fire me." Mo Xiaobei pouted.

"How could it be?" Gu Yan said in disbelief, "Didn't I tell you, I will protect you. You don't believe me."

These words made Mo Xiaobei's face warm up. She didn't answer, and continued: "Starting from the supply chain performance, there is a lot of work. She only asked me to do the difficult part at the beginning. When the result is about to come out later, I will do a lot of work." , she let someone else take it right away. There have been several times where it's clear she's sidelining my work and letting someone else take it, and when I don't have anything else to do, I can get out."

"You're doing the personnel work yourself, what are you afraid of." Gu Yan wasn't worried at all.

Mo Xiaobei only felt that he was playing the piano against Niu: "Okay, thank you for favoring me so much."

(End of this chapter)