the days are still long

Chapter 75 What kind of environment produces what kind of child

At the same time, Lin's home is a different scene.

Lin Zuo walked up and down the living room with his son in his arms, coaxing him non-stop, but the little guy didn't stop crying.

The bottle was spit out as soon as it was put into the mouth, and the milk mixed with tears stained the face and the bib around the neck.

In the bedroom, Bai Meina was so angry that she pulled the quilt and covered her head, "Honey, can you stop him from crying!"

Lin Zuo sat down on the sofa, and was also tired from walking back and forth in the living room with the baby in his arms. He put the milk bottle on the coffee table and continued to coax his son in a good-tempered manner, "What can I do?"

The child started crying from time to time in the middle of the night last night, neither of them slept well, and started crying again in the morning, no matter how coaxed they were, they couldn't be coaxed well.

"It must be that the baby is not feeling well, you can call your mother and ask!" Bai Meina's voice came from the bedroom.

While continuing to coax the child, Lin Zuo freed his hand to take the phone and put it in front of him to find out his mother's phone number.

To show their filial piety, Lin Zuo and Bai Meina signed up for a tour group for Hu Guixian, and now Hu Guilan is traveling with the group.

When the phone was connected, Lin Zuo didn't inquire about his mother's mood for traveling with the group, but asked directly, "Mom, Xiaohao has been crying non-stop since midnight last night, and he didn't even eat milk. What's the matter?"

Hu Guixian was having breakfast under the arrangement of the tour guide, and Hu Guixian chose a seat, "Is the milk powder expired or cold milk powder for the child, you and Mina take it to the hospital for an examination."

"The milk powder is the latest date, and the temperature of the milk is just right. It was just last night that Mina and I went out with our arms in our arms, and it was like this after we came back." Lin Zuo said while shaking his legs to coax the child.

"What do you think you two are doing with your baby in your arms? How old is the baby? It must have been blown into your belly!" Hu Guixian complained.

Lin Zuo: "Isn't Mina nagging all day long, saying that I didn't take her out for dinner after giving birth, so I took the mother and son to the supermarket and had dinner outside by the way. go home."

"You guys, let me tell you what's good about you!" Hu Guixian complained dissatisfiedly, the tour guide was already urging to eat quickly, and the tour group was about to leave.

Hu Guixian glanced at the tour guide, and said impatiently, "Okay, you can take the child to the hospital to see a doctor, and ask the doctor to prescribe some medicine, and don't carry it out in the future, the child is still young, and I can't stand it!"

After finishing the call, Lin Zuo walked into the bedroom with the child in his arms, "Mina, Mom said that the son may have had wind in his stomach, let's take him to the hospital to see a doctor."

After Lin Zuo finished speaking, Bai Meina threw off the quilt with a 'huh', and she also sat up, her temper turned bad after a night of not sleeping, "Can't you take your son to the hospital by yourself!

I was the one who worked hard to give birth to the child, and I was the one who took care of the child. If I had known that raising a child was harder than going to work, I might as well not have this child! "

Lin Zuo sat down on the side of the bed, and coaxed him in a good-tempered manner, "Wife, we wouldn't have such a cute son if we didn't work hard. Be good, get up, take your son to the hospital for an examination, and I'll take care of him. You can go back to sleep again."

Bai Meina kicked the quilt under her feet in displeasure, "Go back to the cage! I don't know what time it will be when I come back from the hospital!"

The two took the child to the Children's Hospital for an examination. As Hu Guixian said, the child was too young, and the night wind was strong at night, and the wind was poured into the stomach, which caused stomach pains, so the child kept crying.

The doctor prescribed medicine for the child and fed some in the hospital. On the way back, the child stopped crying and fell asleep in Bai Meina's arms.

Bai Meina lowered her eyes to look at the baby in her arms, and then leaned on the backrest. She was drowsy but couldn't help complaining, "Who is to blame for the wind in the child's belly? It's not your fault! If you put Ting Ting picked it up, and she would take care of the baby for you, so the two of us wouldn't rush back after eating in a hurry!

It's good now, I don't eat well, I don't go shopping enough, my child is still sick, and I suffer from spending money! "

Lin Zuo glanced at Bai Mina through the mirror, but said nothing.

Suddenly Bai Meina stood up and leaned towards Lin Zuo who was driving in the cab, "Didn't the court award Tingting to you when you divorced Su Mei?"

Lin Zuo let out an 'hmm'.

Bai Meina continued, "Since Tingting was awarded to you, why doesn't Su Mei let Tingting come back to live!"

"It's not that Su Mei refuses to let it go, it's that Tingting doesn't want to come back." Lin Zuo said truthfully.

Bai Meina was upset, she snorted and continued to complain, "What right does she have as a child? You are her father. If you say let her come back, she will come back. If Su Mei stops us again, we will go to the police. When the time comes Let's see what the court decides."

Lin Zuo sighed. To be honest, his son was born less than two months ago, but he was more tired than when he took care of his daughter Lin Tingting.

When Su Mei gave birth to Lin Tingting, in order not to affect his rest, they slept in separate rooms, and Lin Tingting was breastfeeding, so she didn't need to buy milk powder to make milk powder.

Sometimes he proposed to go out to eat and Su Mei didn't go, worrying that the child would freeze and get sick again.

From Lin Tingting's birth to the present, Su Mei took care of the child alone. Even if she had a cold and a fever, Su Mei took her to the hospital for infusion by herself, and never troubled him.

Accustomed to the life of eating food and not doing things, Lin Zuo doesn't like to take care of children. If he takes his daughter Lin Tingting back, he will feel relieved to a certain extent. At least his daughter can make milk powder and change diapers.

"I'll talk to Su Mei when I have time," Lin Zuo agreed.

"Why do you have to wait until you have time? Isn't it Sunday? When you get back, you can call Su Mei and ask her to bring Tingting back. If she doesn't agree, we will sue in court!"

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The first time he went to his father-in-law's house, Zhao Bonian dressed up carefully, wearing black trousers and a striped T-shirt. In order to look low-key, he also took off the watch he usually wears, and kept asking Su Mei what to do before going out. , how is it, does it look okay?

Su Mei was amused by Zhao Bonian's appearance, and said, "I didn't ask you to go on a blind date, why are you so nervous."

Zhao Bonian retorted, "Isn't it just a blind date? If your parents don't like me, how difficult it is for you to be caught in the middle!"

Lin Tingting, who was chewing potato chips next to her, followed suit, "Uncle Zhao, my grandparents won't make things difficult for you. It's too late for grandma to be happy that you brought them so many gifts."

A 14-year-old child doesn't know what "snobbery" is, but he also knows that every time his mother brings a gift to grandma, grandma will smile happily.

The gifts that Zhao Bonian prepared for his grandparents were all placed on the coffee table in the living room. Tea, health care products, and things that he saw or didn’t see in TV commercials were already stacked on the coffee table.

Su Mei is different, no matter how bad she is, she is her own parents, and she doesn't want to leave a bad impression on Zhao Bonian.

He glanced at his daughter reproachfully, "What nonsense are you talking about?"

Lin Tingting refused to admit that she was talking nonsense, holding the bag of potato chips, and biting another piece of potato chips, "How can I be talking nonsense? At first you went back to your grandparents' house and they didn't care about you. Later, when you got rich, give them money." They bought a lot of gifts and they were happy."

Samui——

He looked at his daughter reproachfully, with displeasure on his face.

Zhao Bonian didn't know whether he didn't take it seriously or was generous, he took Su Mei's arm and walked towards the living room, "You, you are such a big person, why care about children.

Let's go, all right, let's go. "

Lin Tingting walked out of the bedroom first, Su Mei looked at Zhao Bonian, and swallowed some words.

Although her mother's attitude towards her was much better after she went to work, but her mother valued sons over daughters, and would ask her niece Su Momo for pocket money in disguise every time she went back.

Su Mei didn't feel sorry for the money, they were all family members, but she was worried that her mother would ask Zhao Bonian for it again, and then she would really lose her head in front of Zhao Bonian.

Zhao Bonian drank a lot of wine while entertaining clients last night. Su Mei was worried that he was tired and wanted to be a driver, but Zhao Bonian refused.

Zhao Bonian said, "When you go to visit your father-in-law and mother-in-law, there is no reason to let your wife drive. A man should know how to love his wife no matter how hard he is."

After finishing speaking, she still did not forget to tell Lin Tingting who was sitting in the back seat, "Tingting, did you hear what Uncle Zhao said? When looking for a husband in the future, you must find a man who knows how to love you, and Uncle Zhao will take care of you when the time comes."

Su Mei was helpless, "Old Zhao, what nonsense are you talking about, how old is Tingting!"

Lin Tingting, who was sitting at the back, nodded solemnly and agreed, "Yes, I remember."

Samui——

I was speechless by the singing and harmony of these two men.

But Su Mei understands a truth, what kind of living environment will produce Su Mei-like children.

In the past, Su Mei also paid attention to teaching children and set an example in everything, but it was not enough for her to lead by example alone. Although she was strict with her daughter, Lin Zuo spoiled her.

Moreover, Lin Zuo's favorite child is not at all the same as Zhao Bonian's favorite.

Lin Zuo's favorite child is that as long as he doesn't bother him or cause trouble, he won't discipline him, and Zhao Bonian will give the child the best in food and clothing, but he has always been a good example in terms of life.

Just like now, even if you are joking with Su Mei lightly, you will tell your daughter a truth, and most importantly, your daughter will not only not be disgusted, but will obediently agree.

Su Mei has to admit that Zhao Bonian is really a good father who loves his children but does not spoil them.

This is what she is most assured of.

"How do you say that? We have to start from the dolls. We only have two daughters like Tingting and Lele. If we don't instill good ideas in them when they were young, if some little bastard is fooled by their rhetoric, then It would be a big loss!" Zhao Bonian said with a smile.

Su Mei had no choice but to say, "Okay, what you said makes sense."

Zhao Bonian smiled proudly, and asked Lin Tingting who was eating snacks while driving, "Tingting, do you think what Uncle Zhao said makes sense?"

Lin Tingting: "Well, Xia Yuzhe also said the same, Xia Yuzhe said don't trust boys' sweet words, they are all lying to girls."

"Well, based on this sentence, that kid has a future." Zhao Bonian praised.

Samui——

"What and what, Old Zhao, Tingting is not yet an adult, don't talk nonsense!"

Su Mei vaguely reminded Zhao Bonian that she didn't want him to mislead her daughter's thoughts.

Zhao Bonian laughed happily, "It's hard to find a good man these days like a skilled man, so if you spot one, you have to act immediately, or you'll regret it if you get snatched away by others in the future."

"The more you talk, the more outrageous it becomes, so I won't talk to you anymore." Su Mei pushed Zhao Bonian reproachfully, then turned her head and told her daughter who was buried in snacks, "Tingting, don't listen to your Uncle Zhao's nonsense, he and you Just kidding."

Lin Tingting put the empty snack bag into a plastic bag, took out another bag from it, squeezed it and said, "Mom is right, but what Uncle Zhao said is also true."

Samui——

When did your daughter learn to be tactful?
Before, my daughter was like a stubborn little donkey, not very talkative, let alone like this now.

Zhao Bonian smiled and praised, "Did you hear that Tingting can still talk."

Su Mei shook her head helplessly and said nothing.

And Lin Tingting had already opened the snack bag, and there was a 'bang'. Before eating the snacks, Lin Tingting said, "Didn't Uncle Zhao tell her mother that you can't offend people? If you offend people, you can't continue to cooperate when you meet again?"

Su Mei subconsciously glanced at Zhao Bonian, thinking that sometimes the words and deeds of adults really affect children.

He asked calmly, "Uncle Zhao is afraid that Mom will offend the client. As for you, Uncle Zhao is not a cooperative client."

Lin Tingting took a small biscuit and gave it to the entrance, "Although Uncle Zhao and I are not the customers of the cooperation, the reason is the same.

We live in the same house. If I offend Uncle Zhao, Uncle Zhao will be unhappy. Uncle Zhao will quarrel with his mother if he is unhappy.
If you two quarrel, it will affect my mood. If I am in a bad mood, it will affect my academic performance.
And if Uncle Zhao is unhappy, he won't buy me so many snacks. "

Lin Tingting said a lot of truths.

Su Mei rolled her eyes speechlessly, but Zhao Bonian smiled happily.

"That's right, the analysis is well organized. Tingting will definitely be a smart manager in the future."

Lin Tingting didn't speak any more, she buried herself in eating the biscuits.

Su Mei glanced at Zhao Bonian helplessly, "You, you know that if you spoil the child, everything the child says is right, and there is never a time when it is wrong."

"What Tingting said makes sense, do you want me to reprimand the child against my will?" Zhao Bonian asked with a smile.

Su Mei surrendered, "Okay, I can't say no to you two, now you two are on a united front, and my real mother is an outsider."

"Mom, didn't you always tell me to treat Uncle Zhao like a father and have a good relationship with Uncle Zhao?" Lin Tingting answered suddenly.

Samui——

"Yes, I told you."

Zhao Bonian smiled, very happy.

"Tingting, it's good to tell Uncle Zhao secretly such things in the future, otherwise, your mother will be jealous."

"Oh." Lin Tingting agreed solemnly.

The family chatted and laughed, and soon came to the community where Su Mei's parents lived. The car stopped downstairs, and the three of them got out of the car one after another. Let me see what is inappropriate?"

(End of this chapter)