Love begins with binding a girl with problems

Chapter 54 How to Fall in Love with a Pleaser Personality

The chat content between Jiang Yu and Lin Nanxi stopped after that series of meaningless babbling.

Jiang Yu lay back on the sofa again, staring at the luxurious crystal lamp on the ceiling.

The lights in the living room were not turned on, only a row of spotlights at the entrance illuminated the house.

The cold wind outside the window lifted the thick curtains, and the screens danced wildly in the living room, which was somewhat eerie.

When I went home before, I didn't have this feeling of emptiness, loneliness, and coldness, but now Jiang Yu felt that he was alone, and there was always something missing around him.

Probably, the first thing Jiang Yu does every time he goes home is to find Daniel and the others to play a black tour of Summoner's Canyon, but now his demand for video games has been greatly reduced.

Where can video games be fun with body binding?
It's strange to say that when I suddenly quit the game, there was no withdrawal reaction.

However, Daniel's reaction was quite serious. Every once in a while, he would send messages to bombard Jiang Yu, strongly urging Jiang Yu to join their five-person hacking group.

Jiang Yu couldn't study well, but he played the game smoothly. During the time without him, Daniel's black driving team had already dropped a lot.

Feeling the vibration of the phone like a small electric motor, Jiang Yu picked up the phone and held it up to his face.

He turned on Qiandu, lay on the sofa and started searching for 'pleasing personality'.

[Pleasant personality has the following characteristics:
1. Always apologize when things go wrong.

2. Very sensitive to emotions, afraid to trouble others.

3. The position is not firm and easy to compromise.

4. Excessive consideration for others, others take precedence over themselves. 】

Good guy.

Doesn't this account for all? ?
So Jiang Yu continued to search for 'how to get along with a pleasing personality'.

The first column that popped up in the search bar turned out to be 'How to fall in love with a flattering personality'.

Jiang Yu's raised index finger was shaking.

One accidentally pressed it down.

Content loads quickly.

[How to fall in love with a pleasing personality:

1. Establish grassroots relationships.

If it's just a casual friendship, you might enjoy being with someone with this personality type.

But if the TA is a very important person to you, someone you want to communicate deeply and develop a relationship with, you will feel powerless because you cannot really get close to the other person.

What you have to do at this time is to establish a good relationship between the two parties. Only after the relationship is confirmed, will the flattering personality find its own position in the midst of lack of self-confidence.

2. Encourage the other person to express their feelings.

A sincere relationship needs to maintain fairness. Excessive enjoyment of the compromise and comfortable environment brought by a pleasing personality will only alienate each other.

Encouraging the other person to express feelings and understand what the other person really needs is an important step into the heart of a pleaser personality. 】

Jiang Yu was dumbfounded by this long string of words.

So, how should he get along with Lin Nanxi?

Jiang Yu's growth environment has made him a person who is not good at expressing his feelings, so how can he encourage the other party to express their feelings.

Look at the first one again.

Jiang Yuguang felt nervous just by looking at it.

Isn't the classmate relationship also a relationship?
If you want to give Lin Nanxi confidence... it's okay to praise her a lot.

For example: You look so cute, you have a sweet smile, I like the way you smile.

But Jiang Yu felt that these compliments were not considered compliments.

After all, these are big truths.

"Om..."

The phone on his chest vibrated again.

Jiang Yu thought it was another news from Daniel, so he glanced impatiently.

The little lotus head that popped up made his eyes shine.

Flowers Bloom Wealth: What is Jiang Yu doing...

Seeing this news, Jiang Yu felt guilty for no reason, and hastily closed the search window of 'how to fall in love with a flattering personality', and even clicked clear browsing history.

Then he opened the short video software, glanced at the first video that popped up, and quickly sent back a message to Lin Nanxi.

YU: Watch the video.

Blooming riches: what video?

YU: Repair the hooves.

Blooming riches and honor:  …

Flowers Bloom Wealth: Jiang Yu's Taste Is So Unique

YU: [Panda Scratching His Head.jpg]
Jiang Yu's mind was a little messed up.

Thinking of the two strategies he saw just now, he always felt that he should do something.

YU: What kind of relationship do you think we have now?
YU: If the body is bound together...is it a kind of 'sick friend' who sympathizes with each other?
Flowers bloom and wealth: Patient?
Flowers bloom and wealth: [Maomao Surprised.jpg]
YU: Where did you get the cat expression pack?
Jiang Yu asked to return to the question, but clicked save casually.

Before meeting Lin Nanxi, Jiang Yu's circle of friends only consisted of men, so the emoticons on his phone were all funny types, and there were very few such cute animals.

Now Jiang Yu knows to pay attention.

After all, when chatting with girls, if you always lose your panda head, it will always feel weird.

Flowers Bloom Wealth: I just downloaded it out of boredom
YU: Oh...

After Jiang Yu waited for a while, the 'typing' prompt on the phone disappeared again

On Lin Nanxi's side, there was probably a row of deletions, deletions, and deletions, and finally decided to send a sentence.

Flowers Bloom Wealth: Jiang Yu is my only friend.

Looking at the typesetting, Jiang Yu felt inexplicably sad.

That's right, Lin Nanxi doesn't even have half of the people talking in the class. The relationship of "friends" is already a luxury for her.

I don't know how such a girl spent the three years of high school.

Jiang Yu suddenly felt that Lin Nanxi was quite pitiful compared to himself.

Both of them have their own loneliness.

It's really a 'sympathy for each other'.

YU: Let's talk.

YU: Why do you always like to call me by my name?
Blooming riches and honor: because I don’t know what to call it
Flowers bloom and wealth: If it is in the class, I usually call the other party a certain classmate, but when it is used here by Jiang Yu, it feels a little alienated, so I removed the word classmate...

Jiang Yu actually wanted to say that it would be fine to just use 'you' in general.

But after thinking about it, the word 'you' is nothing special, but it sounds a bit serious, compared to calling you by your name is more special.

And I don't know why, whenever Lin Nanxi calls Jiang Yu's name seriously, Jiang Yu has a feeling that Lin Nanxi is very cute.

YU: You can change your nickname or something.

Jiang Yu sent the message.

After waiting for half a minute, Lin Nanxi replied the message.

Flowers Bloom Wealth: I'm not very good at taking nicknames...

Flowers Bloom Wealth: What does Jiang Yu hope for?

YU: old

Jiang Yu accidentally pressed the send button when changing sleeping positions.

It's really just trembling!

This word made him sit up straight away in fright, and quickly typed to explain to himself.

YU: To be honest, I don't know either.

YU: Just maintain the status quo! !

Jiang Yu wished he could press his head into the sofa cushions.

What's even more frightening is that on the input method of his mobile phone, the associated word of that word is actually followed by '公'!
Blooming Wealthy: Well...

the other side.

Lin Nanxi was lying on the single bed, holding her own pillow in her arms, staring at the three messages sent by Jiang Yu, pondering over and over again.

In fact, Lin Nanxi didn't think of anything, but the tension transmitted from Jiang Yu still made her a little concerned.

After studying for a while, Lin Nanxi simply covered his head with a pillow.

Suddenly remembered that Jiang Yu went to the commissary to buy sanitary napkins for him at noon today...

Lin Nanxi knew that Jiang Yu had made a huge sacrifice for this.

But she didn't know how to express her emotion.

The only thing that is certain is that whenever she thinks of this incident, there is a strange throbbing in her heart, as well as a steady sense of peace of mind.

She hugged the pillow and rolled on the bed.

What Lin Nanxi didn't know was that Jiang Yu was several kilometers away from her.

One of them was on the sofa and the other was on the bed, but the two of them even rolled over with their pillows in sync.

(End of this chapter)