After awakening, I refused to be the control group of heartthrobs

Chapter 82 "I don't care, it's my fault!"

She said: "The inner world of modern people is actually a container similar to a 'pig'. This container is isolated and closed. They are only willing to indulge in the media and refuse to tell others about their world, and they are not willing to To understand the true inner world of others, people cannot communicate normally. In fact, in order to get rid of this lonely state, they would like to get in touch with others. Go deep into each other's inner world, because they don't want each other to go deep into their inner world, so keeping a certain distance becomes the best choice for interpersonal relationships."

This is Nakano Haru's point of view.

He Chen looked at her intently, frowned slightly when he heard the words, and said truthfully: "It sounds lonely."

It is true, but loneliness is the normal state of life.

Shu Mingfei smiled, and didn't want the atmosphere to become too heavy because of this topic: "The so-called distance creates beauty, does it have a similar meaning?"

The young man's hand holding the water glass tightened slightly, and asked: "Do you still think so? Do you think that everyone is an isolated container, and one person can never truly explore the heart of another person?"

She just said that this was her previous thought.

So now, has her concept changed?
From his eyes, Shu Mingfei felt a sense of eagerness and anticipation, which she didn't quite understand. Could it be that he hoped to hear something from her?

Shu Mingfei thought for a moment, then shook her head: "I don't know."

When she saw this view for the first time, she felt that this view was completely in line with her self-cognition, because at that time she lost the only relative who cared about her in this world, and all she felt was indifference, and she felt that she was Yifan A lone boat, floating on the vast and boundless ocean, can only rely on oneself, and if you don't want to be hurt, don't try to rely on anyone, and don't put too much emotion on others.

Treat yourself as a closed container, draw boundaries, reject all those who try to get close, and don't take the initiative to get close to others.

That way you don't get hurt.

Later she thought that Fu Yunxiu would be an exception, but in fact, Fu Yunxiu's actions made her more convinced of the correctness of this view.

What about now?
She just had a vague feeling that this point of view was not enough to fully describe her current state of mind, but when it came to understanding interpersonal relationships, this point of view was still the first thing she thought of.

Now that this question has been mentioned, Shu Mingfei asked him back, "What about you? How do you view interpersonal relationships?"

He Chen held the wall of the glass with both hands, his thin lips were a little dry, but he forgot to drink water, and said seriously: "I think the container man theory is reasonable to a certain extent, but in Nakano Shou's argument, it is the mass media's view of Negative effects caused by personal socialization and personality formation, but I always believe in fate, and I believe that soul resonance can occur between people."

Shu Mingfei nodded lightly, and thoughtfully said: "Maybe my thoughts are pessimistic, after all, I feel that my fate with other people is very shallow."

Be it family, friendship or love.

In her impression, grandpa's body is very tough, who would have thought that he would suddenly fall in the rice planting field on a sunny morning and never wake up again?
Grandpa didn't even wait for the news that she was admitted to Z University, so he died in the ground.

Because of her habitual cold face since she was a child, her peers dare not approach her. Even if someone walks towards her, she will soon be persuaded by her boring and dull personality, and gradually alienate her and find a better friend. .

love?

There is nothing more to say.

"sorry."

He Chen stared at her deeply, with a look of self-blame on his face: "I made you think of something sad."

Shu Mingfei shook her head and took a deep breath, "It's not your fault, you don't need to apologize."

"I don't care, it's my fault!"

The young man raised his eyebrows, a bit vexatious, and announced without explanation: "To make up for you, I will treat you to a meal another day."

... How can anyone rush to invite people to dinner every day?
There is nothing to be courteous, and it is either a traitor or a thief.

Shu Mingfei looked at him suspiciously, "Why do you always want to treat me to dinner? Do you need my help?"

He Chen immediately raised his hands in a gesture of surrender, "I've been wronged, you just think I'm looking for a partner, there is absolutely no other purpose."

He looked slyly: "Don't you also think this restaurant tastes good? Promise to have a meal with me, and I can take you to eat more delicious food. These rare delicacies are hard to find."

Temptation, aboveboard temptation.

Shu Mingfei hesitated, "But it's too bad for you to treat guests and show me around the shop."

He Chen followed the good advice: "It's okay, don't you think of me as a good friend? If you find something delicious or interesting, you can share it with me, or we can take turns treating guests."

Ok.

Shu Mingfei was convinced.

"Okay, let's talk about it first, I will treat you next time."

"no problem."

On the other side, the bad friend who eavesdropped quietly curled his lips.

What good friend?What meal partner?

It's clear that the drunkard's intention is not to drink!

He immediately reported the overheard information to Ling Muchuan.

At this time, Ling Muchuan——

Rolling frantically on the bed with the pillow in his arms, he got so entangled that he exploded.

Finally, he had a video chat with sister Mingya, but he was not as happy as he imagined.

How could this be?How could this be?
Why did Sister Mingya react differently from Sister Mingya played by Shu Mingfei when she knew that he wanted to study in country L?
But what he wants to see more is the reaction of sister Mingya played by Shu Mingfei! !

Tired of bored.

Shu Ming Fei Mingming is just a stand-in, how could he act more real than himself? !
Hmph, he decided to take back what he said to Brutal to praise Shu Mingfei's professional ability.

Shu Mingfei's professional ability is extraordinary!often!Difference!
Ling Muchuan stood up like a carp, straightened his messy hair, found his mobile phone, didn't even look at the message sent by his bad friend, and went straight to find the dialog box that Shu Mingfei had just released from the blacklist, and sent a series of emoji bombardment In the past, finally said:

[Your playing sister Mingya doesn't look like that at all!Bad review!Bad review! 】

He thought that his words would greatly frustrate Shu Mingfei, but he didn't know that it was nothing to Shu Mingfei.

Shu Mingfei only replied with one word:

【Oh. 】

He didn't feel like it, just right, there would be one less person to bother her in the future.

At this time, Ling Muchuan clicked on the message from the bad friend.

The next second, he laughed disdainfully.

　The container man theory is derived from "Information Behavior of Modern People" collected by Japanese communication scholar Nakano in 1980.

　　
　
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