Stand-In Boyfriend Fu Zheng Ji

Chapter 223 Rules and Love
Li Xiang was naturally happy to hear Zhang Ling's answer.

He eagerly began to discuss with Zhang Ling through the phone in Xiaodouzi's hand what painting to paint together?

As I said before, ink painting requires very high basics in painting!

No one in the family of three had any relevant experience.

For the final quality of the painting.

Can only choose to give up.

When it comes to oil painting, you can definitely try it.

Xiaodouzi said that he did not like the smell of ink when creating oil paintings.

Hearing too much will make the little one sick.

In order to create a comfortable painting environment.

I can only give up this option.

I thought about embroidery painting.

Among the family of three, only Xiaodouzi has experience in this area.

Li Xiang said that his hands were too clumsy.

It is difficult to simply mend clothes with open seams using a needle.

So because their adult participation was too low, they had no choice but to give up.

When a family of three is worried about what to choose?
An eye-catching slogan on the roadside aroused Zhang Ling's interest.

"A work of ingenuity, relief art on rags!"

The slogan alone is quite attractive to Zhang Ling.

Then I saw an electronic screen dynamic advertisement promoting Zhao Zili's three-dimensional fabric relief painting.

It is said that Teacher Zhao became a disciple of Qi Baishi and then passed on his disciples to the calligrapher and painter Zhang Yanzeng.

Later, he learned from Teacher Wang Xianglong and engaged in research on the restoration and mounting of ancient books, calligraphy and paintings at Chang Fengtang of Liulichang Factory for many years, specializing in fabric relief paintings.

She uses cutting lines, fills colors with cloth, and uses the patterns and layers of cloth to create a three-dimensional effect by stacking layers of traditional Chinese and oil paintings.

The paintings have a cloth-like feel, are rough and simple, and are as thick as relief sculptures.

As a result, it has a unique style with concise and general shape and thick relief.

The paintings are bright in color, exquisite in workmanship, and unique in craftsmanship. They have a three-dimensional and dynamic effect when viewed.

Therefore, Zhang Ling believes that fabric relief three-dimensional painting is the best choice.

The entire process of making a painting requires first selecting materials, drawing a sketch, then cutting, stacking patterns, and finally pasting.

The materials for this kind of painting are phoenix yarn and silk.

The procurement of raw materials was left to Li Xianglai.

The hue, purity, brightness and texture patterns of various colored fabrics are used as creative elements.

Zhang Ling feels that she has the talent for control in this area.

The color of the painting is based on folk embroidery, but the colors are more intense and vivid than the embroidery.

Xiaodouzi happens to have this talent.

The painting process allowed a family of three to have a high degree of cooperation and participation.

She had already begun imagining the creative details of a family of three in her mind.

Some rags, a pair of scissors, a few rolls of silk thread...

In their hands, after some cutting and pasting, it turned into a colorful and beautiful three-dimensional fabric relief painting.

Cutting, cutting, and pasting, it looks like dancing with a snap of the fingers, but it is the fusion of soul, painting and language.

now!

The three of them all have one purpose.

That is to create a painting that will amaze everyone.

According to the advertisement, this form of creation originated in the Northern and Southern Dynasties.

It developed after the Tang Dynasty and was constantly appreciated by people. People made purses, headdresses, etc. to decorate the festive atmosphere.

It continued to develop and mature until the Qing Dynasty.

It is said that Qianlong's mother once led the palace ladies to use this craft to create many works of flowers, birds and figures.

The Buddhist statues enshrined and the hair ornaments worn by the concubines in the harem are colorful, well-organized, and lifelike and lively.

The Palace Museum still collects and displays many silk works left over from ancient times.

The advertisement happened to be showing photos of Teacher Zhao’s paintings.

Zhang Ling quickly took out her mobile phone and took photos of paintings such as "Harmony and Beauty" and "Lotus First Grade" and sent them to Xiaodouzi.

The father and daughter saw the photos sent by Zhang Ling.

Even though the clarity is lacking, I was still drawn to the painting.

The father and daughter decided that this was exactly the form of painting they wanted.

Xiaodouzi is a little impatient.

Before, I was still complaining that I was hungry and wanted to go home and eat quickly.

Now I want to create a satisfactory painting as soon as possible.

Following Zhang Ling's suggestion, Xiaodouzi immediately begged Li Xiang to purchase the needed painting materials.

Li Xiang saw Zhang Ling on the phone and refused to go back until she got home and had dinner.

Xiaodouzi, who was in high spirits, immediately became unhappy.

He felt that this was a good opportunity to improve Xiaodouzi's status.

So I chose to obey Xiaodouzi's wishes.

After hearing this, Zhang Ling complained that Li Xiang would spoil Xiaodouzi rotten.

Li Xiang argued defensively:

"The so-called spoiling a child means giving the child unconditional love without any rules. But my behavior of obeying Xiaodouzi is different. This is based on letting the child complete his homework as soon as possible."

Know that love has no rules.

On the contrary, it will make children feel insecure.

Because children never know where the boundaries are?

Naturally, you will continue to use your own behavior to test the boundaries.

To use an Internet buzzword, it is "crazy testing on the edge of the cliff."

As a parent, you will bring more "problem behaviors" from your children to yourself.

"Yes, yes, dad is right! Mom, we just want to complete the homework assigned by the teacher as soon as possible. Just let us go!"

Although Xiaodouzi did not fully understand the meaning of his father's expression.

But she was still keenly aware that as long as she followed the last words her father said and extended the explanation, she would be right.

"Finish your homework?" Zhang Ling said.

Li Xiang heard Zhang Ling's hesitation.

He thought it would be possible to persuade Zhang Ling!
So he asked without hesitation:

"Ling'er, have you forgotten?"

Zhang Ling asked:
"What did I forget?"

Li Xiang went on to say:
"Forget that we were discussing as a family just now and drawing a three-dimensional fabric relief painting together. After fully listening to Xiaodouzi's opinions, we reached a consensus. The rules have been established, so we should strictly implement them next. There is nothing wrong with this."

Zhang Ling finally reacted and said with an unhappy face:
"You are using the newly established rules to break my previous rules. Who gave you the courage to say that you are right?"

In Li Xiang's mind, the newly established painting rules are advanced.

Then, in order for the higher-level rule to run, other lower-level rules must give way.

That's why I thought of overturning the relatively low-level eating rules I had set with Xiaodouzi.

This is obviously instilling the idea of ​​privilege in Xiaodouzi.

Zhang Ling really couldn't tolerate this.

She didn't want Xiaodouzi to develop a privileged mentality of being superior to others in everything.

Zhang Ling said without any reason for a moment:

"Xiaodouzi, even if your father is right. But if you don't eat on time, are you breaking the established eating rules? What's more, my child, you are growing up now..."

How could she not know what Li Xiang said?
Zhang Ling also set clear eating rules for Xiaodouzi:

Meal times at home are set.

If Xiaodouzi misses the meal, he will not give Xiaodouzi anything to eat. He will only have food until the next meal.

She imagined that if the child didn't listen the first time and was really hungry, he would know the meaning of following the rules.

Children can be taught the consequences of breaking the rules.

And let your children know that it is uncomfortable not to eat on time.

Then the child will eat well in the future.

Zhang Ling keenly pointed out that Li Xiang helped Xiaodouzi break the rules.

Xiaodouzi simply thought that her mother was worried that she would be hungry.

So he lowered his head reluctantly and muttered:
"I'm really not very hungry now! Mom..."

When Li Xiang saw this, in order to make Xiaodouzi happy, he tried his best to explain to Zhang Ling:
"It's okay, it won't take long! The place we are going to is just on the way home. It only takes half an hour to buy something. If Xiaodouzi is hungry, she can't stand it. I can let her eat a small snack. .”

After hearing this, Xiaodouzi raised his head excitedly and shouted:
"Yeah! Dad, I love you so much!"

In the eyes of children, it seems that food purchased with money is delicious.Xiaodouzi is naturally no exception.

It would be nice to have the opportunity to try something new outside.

Li Xiang fully understands the principle of extreme happiness leading to sadness.

He quickly made a gesture to quiet Xiaodouzi.

Because he knew that his excuse for Xiaodouzi was a bit far-fetched.

for example:

Set a time limit for Xiaodouzi to watch the iPad or TV.

Xiaodouzi wants to watch cartoons all the time, but his parents think it is bad for his eyes. They discuss how long he should watch them for.
Xiaodouzi might suggest that it’s not good for the eyes.

Dad can't look at his phone for that long either.

This is the principle of equality in family rules.

Xiaodouzi will be more likely to accept and follow the rules.

If the adult has been looking at the phone, Xiaodouzi is making noise next to him.

To keep the child quiet, give her an iPad.

As a result, the child went far beyond the agreed time.

Therefore, breaking the established rules for any reason is considered to be indulging and spoiling children.

Even breaking relatively low-level rules with what he considers high-level rules is not enough.

Because this will make children mistakenly believe that as long as the established rules are high-level, they can ignore all low-level rules.

Zhang Ling wanted to make Xiaodouzi become the second Zhong Yun.

Li Xiang proposed that even if being a bad guy makes Xiaodouzi unhappy, he would still object.

"No! The agreed upon rules are the rules. They cannot be broken for any reason. What's more, you have to have a good dinner. I really can't accept Xiaodouzi eating snacks for dinner."

The child's self-control ability is very poor!
Especially when faced with the temptation of delicious food, many adults have difficulty controlling it.

And she could see that Li Xiang had always been obedient to Xiaodouzi when it came to eating and drinking.

It is bound to indulge Xiaodouzi's greed and eat snacks for dinner.

Then a serious dinner will inevitably be eaten very little or not eaten at all.

As a result, wasting food has become the norm.

Zhang Ling couldn't tolerate this either.

Even though Li Xiang repeatedly promised that the situation that Zhang Ling was worried about would never happen.

She will never let go.

Because even if Li Xiang really supervised it.

But with Xiaodouzi's cleverness, there are many ways to steal it, but it can be guaranteed that Li Xiang won't find out.

The father and daughter heard Zhang Ling's determination.

Both of them were a little frustrated and had no choice but to obey Zhang Ling and go home.

Li Xiang naturally understood Zhang Ling's intention.

He also didn't want to spoil Xiaodouzi.

However, Li Xiang is still smart.

Generally, parents who raise children will act red and black.

He successfully let Zhang Ling play the black face.

He also knew Zhang Ling's eating rules.

He knew the relatively complete version of Zhang Ling's eating rules.

That is, if she gets hungry in the middle.

Zhang Pengtian felt sorry for his granddaughter who secretly gave her child a small cake to eat.

This is undoubtedly pampering and pampering of Xiaodouzi.

Xiaodouzi will understand that rules can be ignored and have no effect.

Or she starts crying when she's hungry.

If Zhang Ling couldn't bear it, she gave her a sesame seed cake.

Then Xiaodouzi learned another lesson:
Rules can be defeated by emotions.

All these are creating a pampered and spoiled child for yourself.

Here are three important principles of the rule:

First, clear;
second, consequences;
Third, consistency.

On the table.

It is said that Chen Jian confirmed that his mother was really seriously ill and bedridden.

So I said in advance that I would skip dinner and rush home.

Although Chen Jian is usually a bit too annoying!

But for the sake of the headlines that were dealt with in a timely manner.

Zhang Ling still silently prayed that Chen Jian's mother was safe.

In the past, Xiaodou would always beg Zhang Ling to pick up vegetables and feed her a few mouthfuls.

Today, Li Xiang and Xiaodouzi had obviously discussed it.

He just buried his head in eating the rice in the bowl.

It feels like today's rice is more fragrant than vegetables.

Zhang Pengtian on the side couldn't stand it anymore.

He carefully prepared four or five dishes.

In the past, I could still hear a few words of praise from the father and daughter.

I feel very uncomfortable if I can't hear it today.

So Zhang Pengtian kindly reminded the father and daughter to eat more vegetables.

Unexpectedly, the father and daughter took one bite.

He continued to eat the rice in the bowl.

Zhang Pengtian cleverly introduced the characteristics of each dish.

After introducing the plate, he persuaded the father and daughter to take a bite.

The father and daughter really took a symbolic bite with chopsticks.

After tasting it, he buried his head and continued eating the rice in the bowl.

It's like the beads on an abacus are moving.

Zhang Ling couldn't help laughing when she saw her struggling father.

The father said to Zhang Ling anxiously:
"The father and daughter look like they are stupid. Zhang Ling, don't you ask what's going on? You still have the heart to giggle."

Zhang Ling glanced at the father and daughter and remained indifferent after hearing Zhang Pengtian's words.

She could only persuade with a helpless smile:

"Dad, just leave them alone. The father and daughter just want to finish their meal and go out as soon as possible today. They say they want to buy materials for Xiaodouzi's handicraft homework."

After Zhang Pengtian heard Zhang Ling's explanation, he opened his mouth and said "ah".

a few seconds.

He calmly looked at the father and daughter and said:

"I said you shouldn't be in such a hurry. You can't even eat a single meal safely."

"in a hurry!"

Li Xiang raised his head politely and said two words before continuing to eat rice.

Xiaodouzi also looked at his grandfather and nodded.

Zhang Pengtian recalled:
"That's not right! Before eating, I heard Xiaodouzi say that there is no rush for this homework. Just turn it in within a week. I think it's too late to buy it when I have time tomorrow. Eat slowly as I say. Don't choke."

After hearing this, Xiaodouzi shook his head and said with a little food in his mouth:

"Grandpa, worry!"

"What are you anxious about?" Zhang Pengtian asked doubtfully.

It’s not just Zhang Pengtian.

Zhang Ling doesn't quite understand why Xiaodouzi is anxious?
Xiaodouzi swallowed the food in his mouth thoroughly and explained:
"Because Xiaodouzi has always felt that we are the best family of three. So in order to prove this point. This time we must create a painting that can amaze everyone."

Zhang Ling seemed to understand that Xiaodouzi was stubborn due to lack of self-confidence.

They use external objects to show off to prove to outsiders that their family of three is happy.

Zhang Ling understands this.

After all, they were a makeshift family.

And she and Li Xiang never held a wedding in the true sense.

There are still unsettling factors in Xiaodouzi's mind.

Do not!
It seemed that there was some uneasiness in her mind.

Since the last time I saw Shangguan Aoxue put Li Xiang on the big bed in the hotel.

The uneasiness in her heart became more and more intense.

I wonder how long their family of three can last?
(End of this chapter)