Juan Wang's mother brought Nizi to a variety show as a control group

【so serious】

[My son is also rebellious, when I have to take him for a walk]

[This is to say the truth a hundred times, and it will not be true if you walk it once on the spot]

[The children feel annoying after the oral lecture. I thought about it, they can’t listen to the 10-minute class for four, how can the parents listen to it after chattering for an hour]

[Yeah, the way of chanting scriptures has long been outdated, let’s talk about reasoning with children, they are so young, how can they have a high comprehension ability, just drag them to the scene for a walk]

[Everyone recommend some places, I also want to take my children to experience other people's lives]

【private chat】

【Xuanxuan, it seems that you have really changed your mind】

"That's necessary, let my grandma say a few words, I don't know what my grandma thinks of me." Wen Qixuan spoke dryly, and decided to let Jiang Xiuhe continue, just to see what he is in the eyes of his family Sample.

【Xuanxuan, I want to hear grandma's real opinion】

"My eldest grandson, can I not like it? No matter when he is a bear or when he is obedient." Jiang Xiuhe threw out a sentence first.

Wen Qixuan was shocked. Before, he always felt that no one really loved him. It turned out that when he was disobedient, grandma still liked him.

[Auntie spoke really well]

[This is the most harmonious relationship between a wealthy family that I have ever seen]

[Everyone in the Xuanxuan family is well]

【Yes, even if they are not related by blood, they are closer than their biological ones】

"But I also reflected on myself. I shouldn't pamper him so much. Every time he makes a mistake, I will not take punishment measures. I always say that if you know the mistake, you can correct it. In fact, this sentence has no weight, because There is no price for making mistakes, and Xuanxuan will make them again and again, of course I mean skipping class." At that time, Jiang Xiuhe really didn't really want to be good for his grandson.

At that time, she wanted Wen Qixuan to be rebellious, not to go to school, or abolished, so she indulged him, but she couldn't tell the truth in front of netizens.

【Grandmas dote on their grandchildren】

【My family is the same, every time I teach the children, the grandparents rushed forward to stop it immediately】

[The old man interferes with the children, and the children are difficult to manage well]

[I feel the same way, the key is to let them ignore it and not listen at all. Sometimes when I beat my children, I just hit them with a ruler a few times. Grandma saw it and made me feel like I was going to kill someone. She quarreled with me when she came out. The children know that they have a backer, so how can they do it? Listen to what your parents say]

[Also, parents beat and elders take care of them, children feel that their parents don't love them, and the relationship with their parents is becoming more and more alienated, they don't know that strictness is love and looseness is harm]

[I think Aunt Jiang’s words should be recorded and shown to grandparents, Aunt Jiang, or you can tell me what is the correct way for grandparents to do when parents educate their children]

"According to my experience, when parents are educating their children, grandparents should avoid them, neither helping with education nor protecting their children."

"One hit, one pull, the child doesn't know whether he is right or wrong. If it is wrong, why do grandparents protect it? If it is right, why do parents beat them?"

"Although I indulged Xuanxuan, when Wen Yan educated him, I didn't intervene. At most, I would comfort him afterwards, or when Wen Yan didn't care, I would take care of it."

"But I said that my method was wrong. I said I was in charge, but I didn't do anything."

"Among my old girlfriends, there are also grandmothers. Their education methods are very advanced. They say that when their sons and daughters-in-law are training their children, they will stay in the house. No matter how loud the crying outside is, they will never go out. After a long time, The children found out that their parents are the ones who keep their word, so they no longer dare to make mistakes and ask their grandparents to intercede, because they know that their words will not work.”

[My family is just the opposite. I just spoke, and my grandma immediately stepped forward and pushed me into the room, telling me not to be impulsive and calm down first]

【Upstairs, your mother-in-law is so powerful】

[There is no lie, they found that my expression was wrong, and they calculated that I might beat the child, so they immediately pulled me to the room and closed the door]

"Children should be educated by their parents. We are old and our own children have grown up. Their children are educated by them. It has nothing to do with us. Unless they say they need our help, it is convenient for us to intervene."

[recorded screen]

[My own mother intervened more frequently. Once when I was educating my children, my mother actually beat me with a ruler. Hey, I really don’t have any prestige in front of my children. My mother said that she raised me to beat her granddaughter. Well, what I said in front of the child later, the child didn’t listen, the child said that he only listened to grandma, grandma is the head of the family]

[Is there an elderly person in your family who is a teacher?It’s even worse when there are teachers at home. When I was young, I was supervised. When I grew up, I thought I could finally take care of my own children, but in the end I was still supervised]

【My dad is a high school teacher, he is very open-minded. He has been a class teacher for more than [-] years, but he never intervenes when I educate my children】

【Good Dad】

【Because he is an experienced person and knows how to educate children】

"I don't want to take care of my grandson either. At such an old age, why bother with this, so I can retire."

[Yeah, my mother was so angry that my blood pressure went up once, she almost had an accident]

[Yes, they are more angry than us, and the anger is not because the grandchildren make mistakes, but because we educate their precious grandchildren]

[If you talk too much, you will cry. Let's take it easy. What about my own parents?Or don’t live with the elderly]

[Upstairs is right, either live separately, or live together, you have to accept their occasional intervention]

[Is it just occasionally, very frequently, but there is no way, we have to go to work, we have to ask them to help take care of the children]

[My parents said that they took it with me when I was a child. My husband and I were in charge of the first class, and we went home to accompany the child for a while at night. The child will go to school when he grows up. We are awesome, right?]

"You can talk to your parents in private to find a compromise."

"Let's talk about Xuanxuan. In my eyes, he has always been a good boy. Maybe no matter how bad his own child is, he will feel good."

"He is still a filial child, he will bring me something no matter whether he travels in spring or autumn."

"Grandma, do you remember this?" Wen Qixuan asked in disbelief.

"Of course, I used to show off in front of your Grandma Wang and Grandma Wu."

[Wen Qixuan still has such a delicate side]

[My son is also, he will bring me gifts when he goes out to play, but the gifts are very strange, such as leaves and stones]

【Hahahaha, down to earth】

[It's not weird, how nice it is, it doesn't cost money, and it can prove that you are always on my mind when you go out to play]

[My son is in college, and he hasn't bought anything for me until now]

[Looks like it’s better to be a daughter, my daughter is also a university student, every festival will send me a small red envelope]

【very envious】