My secret love for Bai Yueguang turned out to be my blind date

Chapter 235 You Are Just Afraid That You Are Not Perfect

Night, Yunnan Province, Lijiang, an ancient village.

It was raining heavily outside the window, and as Su Ye let go of his fingers, the recorded sound of the rain was sent out, and he was sending it to Jiang Baizhi.

This time I came to Lijiang to continue recording the program "Threesomes", and Jiang Baizhi also started her own road show tour.

"You and Xiao Jiang are really sweet." Ma Xi smiled, but his hands didn't stop, and he had already taken out the cork of the red wine.

And how could there be less places with wine? Xu Qingyuan, the three of them were just going to listen to the rain, drink, and chat.

An unknown piece of music was playing in the room, accompanied by the sound of rain outside, smelling the aroma of red wine, it was very pleasant.

"Actually, looking for two senior brothers to drink tonight is because I have a confusion, I hope the senior brothers can help me answer it."

"Oh? There are things you can't understand."

"I'm just an ordinary person, and there are many things that can't be solved." A wry smile flashed across Su Ye's face, "A few days ago, Bai Zhi and I attended the wedding of two old friends, and Bai Zhi was a little emotional."

"This is a good thing, but you are confused. Is it because you don't want to get married?" Ma Xi said sharply.

Su Ye shook her head, "It's not that I don't want to get married, I love Bai Zhi very much, it's just that"

Su Ye couldn't think of a suitable word for it. It can't be said that he was afraid of marriage. He was still yearning for marriage.

"Brother, have you seen the movie "The Troubled Family"?"

When Ma Xi heard this, she smiled knowingly.Su Ye's question is actually very simple. Gao EQ said, have you watched "The Troubled Family"?Low EQ means farting in front of the other half without washing your feet and picking your nose. What should I do?Of course, the above is the behavior that appeared in the movie. By extension, it actually refers to what should I do if I am not so perfect in front of the other half?
When we are in love, we will try our best to show the best side of ourselves to each other, because we hope to attract each other.But in fact, everyone is not perfect, there are imperfections.It is impossible for us to disguise ourselves so perfectly all the time. Then again, if we always wear a mask and disguise in front of the other half, is this still love?Isn't love about being very relaxed when you get along with this person?
Xu Qingyuan teased, "Junior brother, I think you just think too much. You and Xiao Jiang are so sweet. The two of you are as good as one person. The problem you are worried about is not a problem at all."

"Don't listen to Lao Xu's nonsense, he has no right to speak as a bachelor."

"Then what's your opinion?"

Ma Xi said very seriously, "Marriage is actually a process of adjustment, which naturally includes values, living habits, etc. There are not a few people who fail to adjust and collapse directly. But the juniors don't have to think too much. Whether the marriage can last for a long time is simple. In other words, whether the good can outweigh the bad, as long as you always occupy the high place in the balance in the other party's mind, then it doesn't matter even if you have shortcomings, or you have something that the other party needs most, which can be caring or emotional value , it can be matter, as long as these things exist, they will grow old forever."

Xu Qingyuan shook his head frantically at the side, "Although what you said makes sense, what you said is too realistic and naked, as if it is an investment business. The junior brother's worry is very simple, just worried that his evaluation in Xiao Jiang's heart will be lowered. "

Although Su Ye didn't speak, he agreed with Xu Qingyuan's words.His worries might seem silly to some, but he was just worried.For example, although he does housework, he actually saves his socks for a long time and washes them off when he gets lazy.Marriage means a closer relationship, but he would be shy if Jiang Baizhi came in unabashedly when he was going to the bathroom.In fact, his feet are a little sweaty and smelly; in fact, he is also a little indifferent, unwilling to pay any attention to people and things he cares about; in fact, he also gets angry and swears sometimes.
That's right, Su Ye never worried about the quarrels and differences that he and Jiang Baizhi might encounter in the future marriage, because he felt that the two of them would never have any, and even if they did, they would be resolved soon.What he worries about are these seemingly insignificant and trivial things. Could this be his perfectionism?Or maybe it's a common problem of delicate people?

"Junior brother, it's nothing to worry about. The most unfair thing in this world is love, because everything about loving you is different. If you love you, you are not ugly but cute if you are fat; Running on the street with an umbrella is not insanity, it is uninhibited; walking under street lamps at night to feed mosquitoes is not a pain in the ass, but romantic; your sleepy eyes and messy hair like chicken feathers are not sloppy, but willful; you Take her to a roadside stall, she won't feel shabby, she will only think that this is the best meal in the world; if you say you want to give her the best life in the future, she won't think you are just a picture, but will be with you There is no doubt that Xiao Jiang loves you very much, and everything about you will be different in her eyes."

How should I put it, what Xu Qingyuan said was right, but he didn't convince Su Ye, or Su Ye himself understood this truth, but he hesitated to put it on himself.

Ma Xi, who was at the side, poured the sober red wine into the glasses of the three of them without haste, and said with a smile, "If you want me to say, Junior Brother's worry is really not a big deal, but it's also a small hurdle. We can't say anything. He has to figure it out on his own.”

"It's up to you to say?" Xu Qingyuan said in a bad mood, "I'm a single dog and have no right to speak. What about you, did you have this worry when you got married, and how did you overcome it?"

After asking this sentence, Su Ye couldn't help but look at Ma Xi, he really wanted an answer.

"I didn't think so much at the time. I was very poor at the time. There was a girl I liked, and she liked me too. She didn't dislike me for being poor. Hurry up and get married. It's a matter of business. But if I marry later, I'm stupid."

"It's so vulgar!" Xu Qingyuan didn't know whether he was really disgusted or envious.

Ma Xi didn't take it seriously, shook her head and said, "Brother, you just read too much, it's too idealistic. How many people have a girlfriend like Xiao Jiang, and Xiao Jiang is willing, so you can't marry right away. Wife and children are hot." Kangtou?"

"Lao Ma's words are right. Xiao Jiang is so good. I don't know how many people like her. Hurry up and marry her back. You will be hypocritical here. If Xiao Jiang is really taken away by someone, you will cry of."

Su Ye drank the red wine in the glass. The reason why he thought so much was probably because of the current scene. To him, it was like being drunk and not knowing the sky is in the water, full of stars and dreams on the galaxy.Jiang Baizhi was really special in his life, entrusting him with too many feelings and memories, but she was really with him, it was really like a dream.

His worry is probably a little bit afraid of losing, although Jiang Baizhi is so real and loves him so much.

This is the sequelae of the years. Mao Buyi shared that when he was a child, he was criticized by his relatives for loving beans and carobs. As a result, he only ate salted egg yolks and only salted egg whites. Even when he became famous, he couldn’t express his favorite food so boldly.

Although Su Ye is very confident, it seems that Jiang Baizhi always lacks a little bit of self-confidence.
(End of this chapter)