My secret love for Bai Yueguang turned out to be my blind date

Chapter 223 People Have Feelings At Important Moments
Ma Xi is serving her Kung Fu tea in the sea of ​​bamboo.

In ancient times, there were seven sages in the bamboo grove who lived in seclusion in the mountains and rivers. Today, there are three masters of Beijing University who sit and discuss Taoism.

In fact, more than half of the program has been recorded, making tea is not only a rest, but also the time to output the content of the program.

"Actually, the three of us have a positive attitude towards bravery, and we all support it. A thing that should have been brought up for discussion proves that there is a problem in itself. This shows that bravery is scarce. The two junior brothers think why bravery has become a A rare virtue?"

Xu Qingyuan crossed his legs and said the most serious words in the most relaxed manner, "Because the cost of fault tolerance for ordinary people in this era is too high. Take the college entrance examination as an example. This is the only chance for most people to change their destiny. The rarest and most fair game is a game where you will really be rewarded as long as you work hard. But rich families can let their children with poor grades go directly to study abroad, and they are still world-ranked prestigious schools. College entrance examination It is the only choice for ordinary people, but it is only a difficult choice for the rich.

After graduation, ordinary people have to find a job immediately so that they can maintain their lives in big cities.There is no graduation trip, no rich experience in internships in large companies, and survival is the first problem.Work tremblingly, keep yourself from getting sick, live frugally, maybe one day you will have a house of your own, and then get married and die.This is already a very good life for ordinary people, and there can be no mistakes in it. Unemployment, economic crisis, serious illness, and accidents may all make everything an ordinary person had before useless.

Therefore, it is difficult for ordinary people to be brave, and stability is more important to them.Ordinary people's life is a zero-sum game. They have too little confidence to resist risks, and if they make a wrong decision, they may lose everything. "

Ma Xi didn't comment, Xu Qingyuan was telling the truth, and he was powerless to refute, but if he was asked to say something, such as living hard, learning more skills, and being optimistic, he didn't want to say anything.

So Ma Xi directly shared her own ideas, "From my own perspective, I think that we are not brave enough because we are too superstitious about authority and empiricism. I read history books, and the thousands of years of history are full of worship of celebrities. Confucius and Mencius monopolized 2000 years. We worship knowledge and are easily blind, but lack the spirit of doubt. Of course, this may also have something to do with our nation’s moderate culture and patience, after all, bravery means going out of line.”

"Su Ye, what do you think?"

"Before answering the question of why there is a lack of bravery, I want to give a definition of bravery. The definition of bravery in the dictionary is courage. But bravery does not mean recklessness. Personally, I think bravery should be facing a difficult but correct goal. action at the time."

Xu Qingyuan said with a smile, "This is a very interesting definition. Difficulty and correctness are both subjective rhetoric to some extent. The most important thing is that under your definition, bravery is more like a certain state, which is his It's sentient."

"That's right, Yu Qian, a famous minister of the Ming Dynasty, and Grand Master Wala also coerced Yingzong to force peace first. He said that "the country is the most important thing, and the emperor is the least". Doesn't Yu Qian know that his decision is to some extent overstepped? Didn't he know that if Yingzong was restored, he would be at risk of being punished by Qiuhou? He knew that he had perception, but in the face of the former emperor's life, he still chose not to surrender. This decision was very difficult, but he felt that he was right Yes, so he did.

In Greek mythology, Prometheus stole fire for mankind. Didn't he know that this was forbidden by Zeus?He knew that the word 'stolen' already meant that he knew that if Zeus allowed it, he would 'take' it, but he still did it, risking Zeus' anger, and made what he thought was the right decision.

So why do we lack bravery?As Brother Xu said, 'difficult' and 'correct' are two very subjective words. I think if you don't do something decisively, it must be difficult, so there is no need to discuss this word.Then the problem arises in 'correctness', because our future is a fog that cannot be seen clearly, and you cannot be sure whether this decision is correct, so it is difficult to be brave. "

Ma Xi, who was on the side, chewed on Su Ye's words, because she couldn't be sure that it was correct enough, so she wasn't brave enough.This is a great way of saying, Xu Qingyuan's reason or his reason is more like external, while Su Ye is talking about internal.

Bravery is a state, and it seems to be true in real life. When faced with a major node, we often feel it. At the moment of making a decision, we actually know what path we are about to take. .Of course, it may be a bit mysterious to say this, so let’s make an analogy, as if often when a relationship is about to come to an end, both parties in the relationship actually have a premonition.

Thinking of this, Ma Xi asked, "Brother, just as you said, because we were not sure enough, we were not brave enough, and at that moment we actually knew that we needed to be brave. Then you want to be brave to everyone at that moment. say something?"

"Yeah." Su Ye pondered for a while before saying, "Although my next suggestion is very stupid, it is true. Life seems to be long, but it is actually very short, so why not give it a try?"

Xu Qingyuan nodded, and then jokingly said, "Junior brother, you sound very experienced, but you have always been smooth sailing, is there a time when you need to be brave?"

Su Ye's expression was wonderful, "Brother, this is something that is not in the script."

Ma Xi on the side suddenly refused, "Little brother, you don't need to answer, but you can't cheat. Our program doesn't have a script at all, and it's completely up to the guests to play freely. This is also the selling point of our program."

Speaking of this, Ma Xi pursed his lips, and the camera happened to sweep over Jiang Baizhi who was mixed in the director's group, "Besides, everyone knows about you, so you can satisfy the curiosity of the brothers."

Jiang Baizhi in the crowd waved her hand generously, and gave Su Ye a cheering gesture, which was very cute.The show does not have a script, but Ma Xi mentioned this last question before the show was recorded, saying that there will be a cue between recordings, but I didn't expect it to be in this place.Now that Su Ye and Jiang Baizhi have been made public, Su Ye really doesn't mind talking about this issue.

"I didn't expect you, senior brother, to gossip like this."

"Then tell me?"

Su Ye nodded, "Actually, I liked Bai Zhi when I was a student, and we met again after more than ten years by chance. But she is so shining, it is no exaggeration to say that I feel like "Little Women" I felt like I was ordinary, clumsy, and useless like Jo in Laurie. But the night I met again, I knew I needed to be brave. Despite my worries, I made the difficult but I think right decision. Pursue Baizhi! But unexpectedly, Baizhi is quite easy to chase."

Among the crowd, Jiang Baizhi smiled like a flower.
(End of this chapter)