My secret love for Bai Yueguang turned out to be my blind date

Chapter 158 Pay attention to 'nearby'
The next day, at ten o'clock in the morning, I made an appointment at a cafe in advance.

Su Ye and Jiang Baizhi went to the appointment on time. In fact, before coming here, Su Ye mentioned that Jiang Baizhi should rest in the hotel. boring.

But Jiang Baizhi rejected Su Ye's proposal. For her, as long as she is by Su Ye's side, it is the most interesting thing in the world.Although this is a goose, it is also her own goose, and she doesn't want to be separated from Su Ye.

"Brother Xiang, we have been friends for so long, and finally meet."

Xiang Biao already knows the year of destiny, but he has been studying all the year round, he is well maintained, and his hair is not gray.As Su Ye said, this was the first time the two met offline. In the past, the two communicated via email and video.

"Brother, in fact, you don't need to make a trip, it's just a 'preface'."

"Actually, writing the preface is secondary. I used this as an excuse to sneak a meeting with my senior brother. Senior brother is a master in sociology, and I will definitely benefit a lot from communicating with senior brother." Speaking of this, Su Ye introduced, "Senior brother, this is my girlfriend Jiang. Bai Zhi, come with me this time."

"A man of talent and a woman's appearance, very good."

"Bai Zhi, this is my senior brother Xiang Lan."

"Hi, brother." Jiang Baizhi was polite.

"Hi Miss Jiang, nice to meet you."

Su Ye smiled and said, "Brother is a student of Jinghua University in the class of 92, but he was invited to study for a doctorate at Oxford University, and then taught in Oxford. He is the top Chinese in the field of sociology, and I was inspired by my brother when I wrote this book. , especially a concept that my brother put forward many years ago: nearby, it can be said to be deafening."

Jiang Baizhi showed confusion, she probably understood, but she was not sure.

Seeing this, Xiang Lan said empathetically, "Don't listen to Su Ye's exaggeration, the word 'nearby' sounds mysterious, but it actually refers to groups or classes that are not valued around you, such as migrant workers in society, special groups, For example, relatives and clans around us. This concept is put forward because we often ignore these "nearbys", maybe they have no voice channel, or we ignore them subconsciously, thus causing the emergence of "nearbys" in society."

After Xiang Lan's explanation, Jiang Baizhi immediately understood, and even drew inferences, "In fact, there are some occupations that we have neglected, such as teachers at the grassroots level and hard-working delivery workers. Without them, left-behind children in rural areas may not be able to If we receive education, we cannot enjoy convenient services. But we don’t pay too much attention to these groups, knowing their hard work, we just know the hard work, but we don’t have the perception of personal experience.”

Xiang Lan couldn't help but nodded when he heard the words, and then smiled, "Just now, my junior praised me for bringing up the concept of 'nearby', but my junior is even more remarkable. He explained the reason for the phenomenon of 'nearby' in his book."

Following Jiang Baizhi's curious eyes, Su Ye explained, "I just stood on the tree of the predecessors to enjoy the shade. From my own humble opinion, the phenomenon of 'nearby' is a product of the special era background. The technological revolution It appeared and changed a series of behaviors such as people's communication and travel. The clan and family are disintegrated in the modern environment. We cannot live, old, sick and die in a hundred miles as before. So although we still have family ties with our families, But it is undoubtedly separated in time and space, and the "nearness" of relatives is inevitably produced.

However, in the social environment, impetuous mentality and huge pressure have given birth to the demand for "immediacy". We want to be satisfied immediately. We can't wait to lose weight today and see the results tomorrow.Taking the delivery distance as an example, being 5 minutes late is not a big deal, but we don’t care what happened to the delivery staff, we only care about the result, then this ‘nearby’ came into being.”

Jiang Baizhi didn't really understand the discussion between Su Ye and Xiang Biao, but she didn't find it boring.

Because she knew that when Su Ye was talking non-stop, he must be happy and talking about something he was interested in.

And when Su Ye was happy, she was happy.

At this moment, she is just like what Su Ye said to Zhong Shanhe, her eyes are all on Su Ye.

Everyone has had dreams, and Fairy Zixia's dream is that her lover is a hero of the world.One day, the person you like will appear in a situation that attracts everyone's attention, wearing a golden armor and holy clothes, and stepping on colorful auspicious clouds to marry her!Zhou Huansong’s dream is to have a home of his own, where the bathroom is white, the cups are also white, there are carpets in the house, it may not be so expensive, but the carpet hair should be longer, the room can not be too big, and the furniture should be light-colored Yes, there must be a corner window where you can see the neon lights outside the window.
Jiang Baizhi also had a dream, a dream about a lover.Her ideal lover should be generous and gentle, an interesting person who is willing to tolerate her.He is willing to go away with her as soon as he says, and he can also spend a peaceful time with her.

Now, her dream has come true, her dream is sitting beside her
About an hour later, Xiang Lan looked at his watch, "Junior Brother, we are so selfless in our conversation that we are ignoring Ms. Jiang."

Speaking of this, Xiang Lan apologized, "Miss Jiang, I'm sorry, it's hard for you to listen to our boring remarks."

Xiang Lan is a very humble person, or in other words, the more you are a true scholar, the more humble you will be, because in the vast knowledge, you will know how small you are.It may also be related to Xiang Lan's experience. The book "Community Crossing Borders" that made him famous and well-known in the sociology circle was written by him after spending six years in the community. He is a down-to-earth scholar.

"Brother, don't say that, not everyone can have the opportunity to hear the collision of two thinkers."

Su Ye next to him said at this time, "Brother, I didn't ignore Baizhi, and I didn't produce 'nearby'."

"Ok?"

Su Ye and Jiang Baizhi looked at each other and smiled, and raised their hands under the table. It turned out that when Su Ye and Xiang Lan were chatting just now, his hand had been holding Jiang Baizhi's hand tightly, and his fingers were intertwined.

Seeing this, Xiang Lan burst out laughing.

When Su Ye had a good chat with herself, Jiang Baizhi became the neglected 'nearby'.But who would have thought that Su Ye did not ignore it, and he has always maintained a close connection with Jiang Baizhi.

Is this love?

"Good junior brother, you taught me a lesson today."

Su Ye just laughed and didn't speak. It can't be said that this is the daily life of him and Jiang Baizhi.

But at Xiang Lan's age, why don't you understand?

He glanced at Su Ye angrily, good boy, not only did you ask me to write the preface for you, but you also gave me dog food at such an old age
(End of this chapter)