Rekindle 2003

Chapter 394 What should a 30-year-old man look like?
"To put it bluntly, it is the desire to conquer after success, and I feel somewhat unwilling to make up for the dignity or regrets I lost before.

But it is obvious that men who suffer from lack of compensation are obsessed with their own desires. If they do not get rid of their delusions, something will happen to them sooner or later.

Even if nothing happens, you will definitely not be able to make any wise choices.

Because appearance will depreciate with age, the best way is to rent rather than buy, let alone hold it for a long time.

There are many ways to compensate for lack. Those who make fun of marriage either have met a master and been manipulated by others; or the money they earned before was based on luck, and their personal integrity is still too shallow.

No matter which one it is, you can't keep your wealth unless it can evolve to the second level: pursuing resource blessings. "

At this point, Qing Yun stopped and clinked glasses with his uncle, "Brother Xiangyu, let's just talk about ordinary people. You said among ordinary people, how do 20-year-old men and 30-year-old men treat each other?" What’s the difference between marriage?”

Looking at the full wine glass in front of him, Qin Xiangyu's face turned green. There was no way to drink it!

He simply put the wine glass on the table with a look of helplessness on his face, "Brother-in-law, just tell me, don't make me drink, I can't drink it."

Qing Yun smiled, "Look, this is the difference. You, Qin Xiangyu, you are my uncle and the third generation head of the Qin family, so you dare to just slap the table and say you don't want to drink anymore.

But if the person sitting here now was not you, but an ordinary person, would he dare? "

Qin Xiangyu scratched his head irritably, "Life is born unequal, I understand. This is caused by family background, and acquired inequality is caused by social experience. You want to say that Shen Fu and I can't empathize. We Neither can understand the deeper behavioral patterns of the other, right?"

Qing Yun nodded, "Put this aside for now and return to the topic just now.

I think the biggest difference between an average man in his 20s and a man in his 30s is that a 20-year-old man’s outlook on life is not yet complete.

Their requirements for their partner are either based on the social evaluation system and have a simple view of marriage and love, believing that a woman must be filial and virtuous, or they are dominated by biological impulses and want to find a beautiful girl to marry.

Most of them don’t attach much importance to the soft power behind a girl, such as work, family background, etc.

Moreover, due to the influence of moral standards, after getting married, they usually dote on their wives and take the initiative to assume family responsibilities.

He is also very tolerant. Even if the woman is noisy or loses her temper, she will try to calm her down.

In the end, it evolved into what Yu Minhong said: [-] to [-] percent of men in China have been controlled by their wives' emotions for a lifetime at home and have become slaves to women's emotions.

If she loses her temper, you can calm her down.

She is unhappy, and the whole family dare not be happy.

When she is happy, the whole family can be happy.

Moreover, many men have given up resistance, lost the charm that a man should have, lost his free will as a person, and even lost the possibility of pursuing his own wonderful life.

Life is all about accommodation and tolerance. "

When Qin Xiangyu heard this, he glanced at the evil brother-in-law in front of him suspiciously, "Are you sure you are talking about ordinary people? Why do I feel that you are talking about me?"

Qing Yun shrugged, "Did I say it wrong?"

Qin Xiangyu understood, "You mean, I have always done things according to ordinary people's ideas?"

Qing Yun rolled her eyes at him, "I have reminded you repeatedly before that you are a rich second generation, a top rich second generation." After that, he patted Qin Xiangyu on the shoulder, "This is actually... nothing to be ashamed of."

Qin Xiangyu was silent for a while, then he picked up the wine glass and took a sip, "Continue to talk about what a 30-year-old man should look like."

"For a 30-year-old man, the so-called thirty-year-old man must first establish his three views. Coupled with his career success, he will have a very clear set of rules for life. He will know what kind of girl he is looking for and how to follow her. This girl has a life.

More importantly, for 30-year-old men, especially successful men, their life status at this time has reached Pareto optimality.

Life is good, there is no shortage of women, and there is no shortage of money.

For him, the unknown risks of marriage are greater than the benefits. If he makes a bad choice, he will go bankrupt.

The only thing that motivates him to get married is to reproduce and pass on wealth.

Therefore, most people will have two choices, either find something that is trouble-free or find something that is useful.

What saves trouble is that this woman has a simple background and won't have those moths in the bloody ethics drama, such as Voldemort or single-parent monsters. At the same time, her mood is very stable and her outlook on life is very upright. She doesn't need to worry too much about herself.

This is particularly important. Girls always like to say that they are insecure, so they will make some noise from time to time to prove that you care about him.

However, no rich man is willing to socialize with his wife after socializing with clients outside. "

Qin Xiangyu narrowed his eyes and looked at his brother-in-law who was chatting in front of him maliciously, "I think you are scolding me."

Qing Yun chuckled, "Did you hear it?"

Smiling and clinking glasses with him, Qing Yun sighed, "The reason is that, on the one hand, I really don't have that much energy to take care of her emotions.

On the other hand, the richer a person is, the less secure they are, and career crises are everywhere.

Home was one of the few places where he could take a breather, but he ended up getting upset by a stupid woman, which would make him feel like a fool all the time.

Therefore, since ancient times, there have only been wild girlfriends, not wild wives, because rich people will never marry an emotionally unstable shrew home.

Useful means practical value, or the woman has a stable job and has time to take care of her children, such as a civil servant or a teacher.

Either you have a good family background and some social connections, which can help your career.

The worst thing is that he has good personal abilities, such as high emotional intelligence and ability to solve problems.

It’s the New Year and the holidays, and some people are welcoming and sending off, but I am too busy to handle it, and it would be too much to let others go. At this time, it will be very appropriate for someone to socialize as a wife.

In short, a wealthy man who has escaped from lack of compensation requires a spouse who can help him share part of the pressure in career or family. At the same time, it is best to make him feel the warmth of the family and reproduce better. .

But this is just sharing. Real bosses are very ambitious. For them, the best life partner must be the third level, who can help achieve greater careers. "

At this time, Qin Xiangyu listened particularly carefully.

No matter how talented he was, his family destined him to be a man born on the third level.

(End of this chapter)