The heavens set sail from the courtyard

Chapter 197 Concept Differences
Sitting in the car, Wang Gang saw Zhang Xueer driving over and parked the car next to him, so he was too embarrassed to turn a blind eye, so he could only get out of the car and say hello.

As soon as Zhang Xueer opened the car door, she heard a voice:
"Mr. Zhang, hello."

"Ziyou's father!?"

Wang Gang closed the car door and said to Zhang Xueer: "Mr. Zhang, you can just call me Yan Peng."

Zhang Xueer hesitated for a while, but nodded in agreement. After all, they are not at school now, but she will not call Wang Gang by their first names.

"Mr. Yan, did you send Ziyou to Teacher Zhong for tutoring?"

At the parent meeting, Zhang Xueer and Nan Li heard about Zhong Yi's tutoring at the same time, so there was the scene of Zhang Xueer persuading Zhong Yi in the morning.

"Yes, I just sent the child up." Wang Gang looked at Zhang Xueer's face and said:
"I heard what you and Teacher Zhong said this morning."

Zhang Xueer gritted her teeth and said, "Mr. Yan, the school prohibits teachers from giving tutoring to students. If you send Ziyou here, it will harm Teacher Zhong."

Wang Gang raised his eyebrows, he didn't expect Zhang Xueer to say this.

"Mr. Zhang, what you said is serious." Wang Gang said with a smile, "I send my child to Mr. Zhong because I believe in his teaching level."

Zhang Xueer said anxiously: "Since you trust Teacher Zhong, you should believe that Teacher Zhong will teach students well in class."

Wang Gang explained: "My Ziyou's math comprehension skills are poor, and sometimes he can't keep up in class, so I ask Teacher Zhong for tutoring after class.

I also want my children to do well in their studies. "

Zhang Xueer said anxiously: "What if the school finds out that Mr. Zhong is running a cram school privately?"

"No, our parents and Mr. Zhong have a tacit understanding and won't say anything." Wang Gang said easily:
"Ms. Zhang, to be honest, even if I don't send Ziyou to Teacher Zhong, I will go outside to find a tutoring structure. Teacher Zhong knows everything about Ziyou, so I don't worry."

Zhang Xueer disagreed: "As long as students study hard at school, there is no need to look for extra-curricular cram schools."

Wang Gang said: "I agree with Mr. Zhang's point of view on this point, but each child has different aptitudes. Some children can accept the knowledge points in class, and some children just can't master them. That's why I hope for after-school tutoring."

"It is precisely because the parents have ideas like yours that the off-campus tutoring institutions will be encouraged." Zhang Xueer said dissatisfied.

"Existence is reasonable. Teacher Zhang should also understand that since the cram school exists, there is a certain reason."

Seeing that Wang Gang couldn't be persuaded, Zhang Xueer couldn't help but feel a little anxious, her beautiful face flushed slightly.

"Mr. Yan, your family Ziyou's academic performance is already very good, there is no need to enroll in those cram schools, the child is working hard, and the adults are wasting money." Zhang Xueer said.

"Mr. Zhang's parents, haven't you attended cram school before?" Wang Gang asked curiously.

Zhang Xueer hesitated when she heard the words.

Of course, she also attended cram schools and hired tutors when she was a child, otherwise how could she have been admitted to a normal university.

"It is because I went to a cram school when I was a child that I understand the child's hard work." Zhang Xueer said.

Wang Gang shook his head and said: "I only know one sentence, if you want to be famous in front of others, you must suffer in the future.

If you can't stand the pain of learning when you are young, you may not be able to adapt to the pain of society when you grow up. "

Wang Gang sighed: "As a parent, in addition to protecting the child, I also have to consider the child's future. Don't I want Ziyou to have a happy childhood?
But I really let go of the child and let him develop on his own, which really hurt him. "

Zhang Xueer's teaching philosophy is too idealistic, not to say it is not good, but unrealistic.

Idealized education is reflected in the cruel reality, and the final victim of the contradiction is the child.

Wang Gang always believes that when children are young, parents must take care of them carefully. This kind of care not only comes from life, but also from the establishment of three views, the cultivation of character, and even teaching by precept and example.

Especially Yan Ziyou, he is not an ordinary person, he is a wealthy third generation, if Wang Gang doesn't strictly discipline him, he is likely to be trained to be a prodigal son, and that will really harm him for the rest of his life.

Let him take tutoring now, not only for learning, but also for him to understand that there is no reason to get something for nothing in this world.

If you want to get good grades, you can only study hard. If you don't do well in class, you need after-school tutoring.

Of course, Wang Gang is not like Tian Yulan, who will always grasp a degree.

The reason why Tian Yulan drove her son crazy was because she had too high demands on Yan Ziyou and insisted on him competing for the first place, so that she became addicted to tutoring and paid too much attention to grades.

Wang Gang asked Yan Ziyou to take tutoring, not to ask him to get a high score in the exam, but to let him understand the truth of hard work, it doesn't matter if he doesn't pass the exam.

But Wang Gang absolutely can't accept that children don't work hard, give up studying, and even take fun for granted.

Just like Xia Huanhuan.

Wang Gang and Zhang Xueer discussed downstairs for a long time, but no one could convince the other. In the end, Wang Gang didn't want to continue arguing with Zhang Xueer.

"Mr. Zhang, I'm very happy that you care about Ziyou, but my son is mine, and I still hope to train him in my own way." Wang Gang finally said.

Zhang Xueer gritted her teeth, seemingly unwilling.

Wang Gang said again: "I also advise you to stop interfering with Mr. Zhong's cram school. What he does is always for your future."

Zhang Xueer said angrily: "I don't need you to take care of the matter between Teacher Zhong and me."

Wang Gang was a little surprised, this was the first time he saw Zhang Xueer get angry.

In the end, Zhang Xueer didn't go to find Zhong Yi, and drove away in the car.

At nine o'clock, Wang Gang went to pick up his son after seeing that it was about the same time. On the way, he met some parents of students and nodded in greeting.

Wang Gang received his son, thanked Zhong Yi, and then drove home.

Yan Ziyou was at Zhong Yi's place, and he had already finished all his homework, and Zhong Yi had also tutored him with questions that he didn't understand, so Wang Gang let his son play for a while.

No matter studying or working, combining work and rest is right.

He will not follow Tian Yulan's old path and drive his son crazy.

Wang Gang drove the car home, parked in the parking lot, and found that Tian Yulan hadn't come back yet. It seemed that she really worked overtime tonight.

Parked the car in her own parking space, Tian Yulan drove back as soon as she parked, and was taken aback when she saw Father Yan's car.

"Why did you bring your dad's car back?" Tian Yulan parked the car in an empty parking space, then got out of the car and asked Wang Gang.

Wang Gang didn't care and said, "My dad drove this car for me."

Tian Yulan frowned, and said in displeasure, "This car is too expensive to maintain."

Wang Gang said: "It's okay, I can afford it."

Yan Ziyou saw that the atmosphere of his parents was not right, and shouted: "Mom and Dad, let's go home!"

Tian Yulan suppressed her displeasure temporarily, and took her son's hand home.

After the family of three returned home, Wang Gang asked Yan Ziyou to take a bath first, and he happened to tell Tian Yulan about his resignation.

"What, you want to resign and work in your father's factory?!" Tian Yulan shouted.

"Don't be so excited, be careful not to be heard by Ziyou." Wang Gang said.

Tian Yulan said angrily: "Why don't you discuss such an important matter with me."

"Aren't I discussing with you?" Wang Gang was puzzled, "Why are you reacting so strongly?"

Tian Yulan said angrily, "I don't agree with your resignation."

Wang Gang was puzzled and said, "Why?"

Tian Yulan said: "We are living a good life now, why are you resigning?"

Wang Gang said: "My father is getting older and older, and he has to do things in the factory all day long. As a son, I can't eat and die all day long."

Tian Yulan said: "No way, you can ask your father to sell the factory and retire directly."

Wang Gang looked at Tian Yulan in surprise, he didn't expect his wife to say such a thing.

Tian Yulan felt terrified when Wang Gang looked at her.

"Why are you looking at me like that?"

Wang Gang sighed and said, "The factory is not only the family business of my Yan family, but also the livelihood of hundreds of employees. You can sell it if you want to. My father will not agree to it, and neither will I."

Doing business can't just think about making a fortune for yourself, but also a series of issues such as social welfare, employee livelihood and so on.

Tian Yulan has always been a migrant worker, and her thinking is superficial.

"Anyway, I don't agree with you going to help in the factory." Tian Yulan said unreasonably.

"If you disagree, there must be a valid reason!" Wang Gang said disappointedly.

Tian Yulan snorted coldly: "If you resign, we will divorce!"

Wang Gang became more disgusted and said, "Are you threatening me with divorce?"

Tian Yulan took out the divorce agreement that had been printed out from her bag and threw it on the table.

"Have you prepared it long ago?" Wang Gang picked up the divorce agreement and found that the woman hadn't signed it yet.

Tian Yulan said: "Before I married you, I drew up a divorce agreement. The property under our name is half of each person. I don't want a penny more. The custody of the child belongs to me, and you have the right to visit."

(End of this chapter)