Roaming in the dark

Chapter 649 You Know That Time

"You know at that time, when I decided to get along with Lao Yu, what did Yanyan say to me?" Xue'er asked.

Sheng Chuncheng shook his head.

"She told me that many of my views on Lao Yu are my own imagination, unreal, and I am in a dream created by myself, which is surreal.

"Of course I don't think it's possible. A real person is right in front of me. How could I miss it? How could it be imagination? I think this is another kind of prejudice Yanyan has towards men. In the end, alas!"

Sheng Chuncheng asked: "Is there any difference between the silly egg? I mean, how did his attitude towards you change before and after marriage?"

Xueer's fingers stopped turning the phone on the table, but clamped the edge of the phone, trying hard to stand her iphone 13 pro max upright on the table, but failed twice after trying twice. Turned over, with his back facing up, his fingers danced like playing a piano on the three cameras on the back of the phone.

After a while, she shook her head and sighed again: "I don't know if he has changed, but I feel that when the two of us are together, it seems to be different. Yanyan said, my dream is broken , disillusioned, I don’t think so.”

Sheng Chuncheng didn't want to irritate Xue'er, so he asked carefully, "Why is it different?"

"I feel that there is always a layer between us. Although he is still like that, laughing and joking, but I feel that he seems to have a shell. I can't always see the real him. When I want to get close, he He stepped back, his shell was hard to see, touch, or pierce, and he wrapped himself tightly in this shell.

"Sometimes I even doubt that his hippie smile and his sense of humor are all his disguises, the purpose is to make people unable to see the real him."

"Toughness." Sheng Chuncheng said, "I think it may be toughness, just like you must succeed in doing things, just like when you make money, you get into the eyes of money, and the fool also has his toughness. To put it bluntly, you can Say yes.

"I don't know what to say. I told me about learning the violin when I was a child. Although I don't know how to play the violin, I know that practicing the violin is very hard. People who don't have toughness can't persevere. It is even more impossible for the egg to reach this level without a strong heart and resilience. This may be difficult for the outside world to understand, and I don’t understand it, but I know it exists.”

Xueer nodded thoughtfully: "Maybe. Let me tell you what we are like now, that is, there are many times when I talk to him, he is responding to you, but I can see that he In fact, he wasn’t listening at all, he was just perfunctory, you told him not to do anything, he said he knew it, but he continued to do it while talking.”

Sheng Chuncheng laughed: "And you, did you start to lead a team to make money when you were in college, and then you have a company, you are used to it, and you must listen to what you say next?"

"Of course, otherwise, how can I have the ability to execute." Xue'er said.

"But the problem is, the idiot is not an employee of your company, he is your husband. How can you deal with him the way you treat a company employee? Have you ever thought that this will hurt his self-esteem?" Sheng Chuncheng ask.

Xue'er froze for a moment, lowered her head and said nothing.

Sheng Chuncheng said: "Silly on the surface, he just doesn't want to conflict with you. Even if he thinks what you say is wrong, he won't refute you. It's just that you say what you say, and he does what he does. From your point of view, It's just that he's playing tricks on you."

Xue'er raised her head and looked at Sheng Chuncheng: "Are you talking for him?"

"No." Sheng Chuncheng said, "I'm just analyzing, using the analysis I understand. You're right, the silly egg must have a hard shell, and inside this hard shell is the toughness I mentioned earlier, hard The outer shell is his self-protection layer, which protects him from getting hurt, and protects him from sticking to the path he thinks is right, so that he can go all the way to today.

"Using what you said about Mr. Zhang and Mr. Liu earlier, you said that a person with a strong heart does not need external embellishments. I think that a fool is a person with a strong heart. When I first met him, At that time, he had no performances, no rehearsals, and no subsidies. With that little basic salary, it was not enough to pay off the mortgage every month.

"He had no choice but to drive an online car-hailing car. If it were someone else, he would be the first violinist of the Hangzhou Orchestra, an artist, wearing a tuxedo on stage, and the people below were applauding. I'm sorry, I'm afraid of being seen by acquaintances or audiences who know him, maybe they will wrap themselves up tightly.

"No fool, he is very calm, he is still very happy in his work, and he is never afraid of others knowing that he is the head of the orchestra. If he is not strong in heart, how can he accept this kind of role change? How can there be no psychological gap? An artist , doing the work of migrant workers in other places, and still cheerful, how can I do it?
"A person with a strong heart must be very stubborn and insist on his own things. It is very difficult for you to change such a person. He doesn't want to change, and he doesn't want to conflict with you. He must use words to deal with you."

"You say that, do you want to say it's all my fault?" Xue'er asked.

Sheng Chuncheng said no, "What I haven't mentioned is that you are actually such a person, and you are also a person with a strong heart. You think that the foolish egg has a hard shell and is difficult to approach, but from the foolish egg's point of view, Maybe he will feel that you also have a hard shell, and he can't get close to you or understand you.

"You two people who are strong and persistent are together, that is just confronting each other, head-to-head. No one backs down, each of you is persistent, and you both want the other to change in your heart, and think that the other should listen to you, so how do you Harmony maybe?"

When Sheng Chuncheng was talking, he thought about whether Yu Dazi and himself were in tune, and what harmony there was.Sheng Chuncheng didn't know what harmony was, and he didn't know what tempo and tempo would match, but he felt that if both of them had the strongest vocals, and they were both so upright, the tempo would definitely not match.

Every family, no matter what, always has to distinguish priorities. It is impossible to say that there are two parents in one family and two people who make decisions.If two people make a decision, it means that there is no decision, or there will be a lot of quarrel.Fortunately, Xueer and Yu Dazi are still self-cultivated, so they didn't make any noise.

"Okay, Sheng Chuncheng, what you said has some truth." Xue'er thought for a long time, and finally said: "So, what should we do now?"

"Compromise, you two, you must learn to compromise. For example, the foolish egg told me that playing the violin is the only thing he has done successfully in his life, and he has worked hard for more than [-] years. He did it, how can you ask him to leave the orchestra now?" Sheng Chuncheng said.

"According to you, shouldn't I have this request?" Xueer asked.

"If you think about him, I don't think you should." Sheng Chuncheng said.

Xue'er shook her head: "This will fulfill him, he has his wish, right?"

Sheng Chuncheng looked at Xueer, but didn't fully understand what Xueer meant.

Xueer asked: "What about me? Am I wronging myself? I need to wrong myself to fulfill him, right?"

(End of this chapter)