After the divorce, the ex-husband traveled six years ago to learn male virtue

Chapter 151 Rarely Confused
The distance between the two was only two steps. Seeing the sincerity in his eyes, Tang Jialin was moved for a moment.

"Why?" she couldn't help asking.

"Because it's your dream, and you're right, it's a subject that deserves to be filmed, to make people face up to the inequalities in it."

"Do you really think so?" Tang Jialin added, "Like my uncle's family, there is no obvious difference in daily life. Both children pay for college, but they only buy a house for the son and dowry money, not for the daughter. Is buying a home unequal?"

"Of course." Yu Lang replied very positively, "If your uncle's family has two sons, would this still happen?"

Tang Jialin smiled wryly: "Of course not." She turned her head and continued to walk forward, "No son can agree to a bowl of water that is not level, but if one of them is a daughter, they will often not argue about it. Do you think it is us Women, have been disciplined too thoroughly for thousands of years?"

Yu Lang caught up with her in two steps, "I think there must be the subtle influence of the so-called 'traditional culture', including your family. You said that your aunt was treated differently by the family because she was a girl..."

"My grandfather was pure and undisguised patriarchal." Tang Jialin felt that this was a little different from the problems encountered by her cousin.

Yu Lang nodded: "The old man's concept will definitely be reflected in his words and deeds. When your cousin grew up, she unconsciously accepted these concepts and might take them for granted. If she wants to fight, she is ignorant. "

"Yes, have you noticed that people always ask girls to be sensible, and this kind of sensibleness often corresponds to obeying their parents and not fighting or grabbing."

"I don't know much about these." Yu Lang smiled, "You know, I'm an only child, and I haven't had the experience of getting along with my cousins ​​since I was a child."

Tang Jialin: "Remember, your mother said that your father deliberately cut off your contact with them."

"what?"

"Don't you know? Your father despises all your cousins. In order to cultivate your aristocratic temperament, he deliberately isolated you from an early age to prevent you from being influenced by them."

"..." Yu Lang frowned, "No wonder..."

Tang Jialin found it very interesting: "It's still your father who is amazing. He clearly divided the ranks within your family, but no one thought it was wrong. They not only obeyed them honestly, but also passed them on as a 'good story'."

Yu Lang: "..."

"Long live the mountain call." Tang Jialin added.

"..."

Tang Jialin saw that he had nothing to say, and asked with a smile, "Did I go too far?"

Yu Lang shook his head: "Although I don't want to admit it, it's true."

"Three days after farewell, it's really impressive." Tang Jialin gave him a thumbs up, "You're actually willing to admit it."

He didn't admit it before because his parents had disguised themselves in front of him, and he believed in them deeply. Now that everyone has torn off their masks, what else is there to deny?
"After all, I have been beaten by reality." Yu Lang smiled wryly, "But my dad's situation is indeed a special case. He deliberately created this class difference, but your grandfather and uncle are more influenced by traditional concepts and the previous generation. "

One is active, one is passive, there is an essential difference.

Tang Jialin agrees: "My grandpa got better later on, especially after our grandchildren were born. When I went to my grandparents' house, I was not treated lightly just because I was a granddaughter, and I was never asked to give way to my cousin when I was young. "

She even occasionally bullied her cousin with her cousin, and was sued several times by her aunt.

But Ms. Sun is not easy to provoke, every time she will go back, saying that the siblings are playing around, what are the adults getting involved in?
"I remember you said that your cousin also has a strong personality?" Yu Lang asked.

"Yes, but she wants to be strong. It's not that I want to compete with my younger brother at home for the wealth my parents have saved, but that I go out and work hard. I can live well without relying on you." Tang Jialin felt that her cousin began to take the initiative. Half of the money to build a small building has this factor.

"It's actually pretty good."

"Yes, it's actually ambitious. But looking back, unfairness is unfairness."

Yu Lang nodded: "Thinking about it this way, this topic is quite complicated. Family love is the most difficult thing to distinguish between right and wrong, and sometimes we can only live in a muddle."

Tang Jialin was surprised: "I really didn't expect to hear this sentence from you one day."

"To be honest, I didn't think of it." Yu Lang sighed, "I used to dislike the words 'rarely confused', and I still despise those who hang these words at home or in the office."

"Do you understand now?"

Yu Lang nodded: "Because if I don't, I won't be able to go home to see my dad again."

Tang Jialin looked at his profile and said hesitantly, "Actually... I thought..."

"Think I'm going to break up with my dad?" Yu Lang asked.

"Ah."

"Did you forget that you said a few days ago that I am still a shareholder of Mingjian?"

"..." So it was because of interests, Tang Jialin sighed, "I was so naive, I thought it was because you couldn't let go of the relationship between father and son."

Yu Lang was silent, and after walking a few steps forward, he said, "Of course there is still family affection. Sometimes I feel that he is just parasitized by the devil..."

It turned out that he didn't take it too seriously, Tang Jialin continued: "Well, that's right, the devil named 'Desire'."

Yu Lang smiled and said, "Yesterday my mother called me and cried, saying that my father had already flown to Singapore."

"..." I really can't wait.

"I called my aunt and asked her to accompany my mother to Hawaii for vacation." Yu Lang glanced at his watch, "They should have met by now."

Tang Jialin praised: "It should be like this. It's been so many years, anyway, I can't control it, so I just let go and live a happy life by myself." It's not that I don't have money.

"Tired? Do you want to sit for a while?"

The two were talking, and they had walked a long distance before they knew it. Tang Jialin looked back and nodded: "Sit for a while, let's go back."

Yu Lang took out the water bottle again and handed it to her. Tang Jialin didn't even know when he put it in it, and asked, "Isn't it confusing? Are you sure it's mine?"

"Yes, I tore off the outer packaging of mine." Yu Lang took out his own bottle and showed her, "And I only have half a bottle left."

Tang Jialin looked at the water bottle that she had only taken a few sips before unscrewing the cap to drink water.

After drinking the water, Yu Lang leaned on the back of his chair to look at the scenery of the lake. Tang Jialin didn't say a word, but took a few sips of water slowly, screwed on the bottle cap, and picked up the camera to take a few photos.

A kind of just right tranquility lingered between the two. Tang Jialin thought it was a good feeling. After taking the photo, she put her arm on the railing and rested her chin in a daze.

Thoughts flew away a little bit, from home to work, and I didn't know if the store was busy today. Tang Jialin sat up straight and wanted to ask Cao Xuan with her mobile phone, but Yu Lang beside him seemed to be frightened, his arm shook, and the phone slammed It fell at Tang Jialin's feet.

"What are you doing? What have you done wrong?"

Tang Jialin bent down to pick up the phone and found that it was a photo page. Before she could say anything, Yu Lang snatched it back.

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(End of this chapter)