Don't pretend, I feel so fragrant after hugging the prince's thigh

Chapter 116 Remarriage Theory

Yin Ruhua had already followed Situ Ji to the mountains.

But she was a little depressed sitting in the carriage.

Situ Ji said: "The widow's future life will not be a big problem, you don't have to worry too much."

Yin Ruhua leaned into his arms, "I know, I can tell by looking at her hands that she is a hardworking woman."

"You also sent those new weddings." Situ Ji said softly.

She is very smart, she did not send good cloth, the two pieces of cloth are just ordinary cloth they can use, the pig gave a mature pig, which can be sold for some money to solve the urgent needs of the winter, but the cow is specially made A half-calf was chosen.

This new wedding is not worth much, but it is a big help.

But this day is up to them to live by themselves. With their status, having too many things will only lead to more jealousy and right and wrong, so just stop at it.

She does everything with measure.

Yin Ruhua looked at him, "Your Highness, you don't need to comfort me, I'm fine, I'm just thinking...why don't you encourage widows to remarry?"

Situ Ji looked at her and said, "Do you think it's right for widows to remarry?"

Yin Ruhua pursed her lips, wanting to say something but dared not.

"You said, I forgive you that you are not guilty."

When Yin Ruhua heard this, she decided to be presumptuous again, "Of course it is right to remarry. It is wrong not to allow remarriage, and it is still a big mistake!" After speaking, she pursed her lips and looked at him.

Situ Ji didn't move his eyes.

"When I went to the manor before, I heard the old farmer on the manor say something, marry a man, marry a man, dress and eat. She told me why women marry and have children? It's not because they want to find someone to rely on. Do you want to find a man who can support yourself? A man is the pillar of the family, and the pillar has collapsed. Can't a woman find another way of life?"

Situ Ji didn't speak, just listened to her quietly.

Seeing that he wasn't angry, Yin Ruhua continued, "The widow's remarriage, at a young age, is for her own survival. But at an older age, it's actually for the prosperity and reproduction of our country."

Situ Ji raised his eyebrows, "Go ahead."

Now that Yin Ruhua has decided to get rid of the enchanting image that can only be charming, she will not change her face, "Your Highness, do you think that widows will have children after remarrying? The daughters they gave birth to will continue to marry and have children when they grow up." If you give birth to a son, when the son grows up, those who are capable can go to the front line to serve as soldiers to defend the country, and those who are not capable can stay in their hometown to reclaim wasteland and cultivate more. They are all strong laborers."

"I don't know what's going on on the front line, but I've also heard that there are occasional frictions. How many soldiers will die? How many people will we lose?"

"Where did the population come from? They weren't born by women. If a woman becomes a widow, she can't remarry. Isn't this a loss for the country?"

"It's not impossible for a widow to give birth to one or two children, and it's not impossible to have three or five children. As long as they can support them, they will be able to give birth."

"One widow is like this. Just imagine if ten widows remarry, one hundred remarry, one thousand two thousand? How many more people will be born?"

"Like this young widow, if she guards her sons and daughters, she will keep her reputation, but how difficult will her life be? If her sons and daughters don't have enough food and clothing, whether they can grow up is two different things. In the end, maybe It will also end up with the name of a Kefukezi."

"You can marry my brother-in-law instead. My brother-in-law will not only support her nephews and nieces, but her life will also be easy. In the future, she will definitely give birth to her brother-in-law, and she will live a very complete and happy life. One is that the future of the mother and son is uncertain like a candle in the wind. , will be extinguished at any time. One is to reorganize the family and live a happy life."

She looked at him, "Your Highness, which of these two endings do you think is better?"

"Public or private, the latter is better." Situ Ji couldn't help but rubbed her hand. He didn't know that she still had such vision and pattern.

Encouraging widows to remarry is indeed beneficial to the country and the people.

Yin Ruhua was a little disgusted, "Not allowing widows to remarry is a rule made by those aristocratic women who advertise themselves as models of women. It really doesn't hurt to stand up and talk. If you want to keep the chastity, you can go and guard it, and no one stops you, right? But They don't even want to think about how difficult life is for the women below."

"How do you know so much?" Situ Ji was actually surprised, he looked at her delicately, obviously she was a stickler.

But speaking of these is really a lot of knowledge.

"I heard from my grandma in the manor that when a girl is married in a farmer's house, it is a rare honor to be able to make extra clothes for the girl and take it to her in-law's house. Most of them marry with nothing. How can we have a family like us? So much dowry? Like when I married Your Highness, my father loves me, and my aunt is just my daughter, plus my grandmother and grandmother. They have collected a dowry of nearly 3000 silver for me. Of course, my dowry is also because I married His Highness. The family doesn’t want to waste too much, so they give more, but if a lady from a famous family gets married, there is also a dowry of [-] to [-] taels, which is also the difference between heaven and earth when marrying a peasant girl.”

"With the support of her natal family and the dowry, it's okay even if she doesn't remarry. She can't go hungry and can't stand the cold. But they really can't do it in the peasant family. Why do aristocratic daughters use their own rules to restrain them? How about them?"

Yin Ruhua spoke clearly and logically.

She was especially grateful for her aunt's vision.

My aunt used to take her to the manor to play, and every time she would let her see more of the outside world.

As for Yin Ruhua's own personality problem, she also likes to listen to the life stories told by the farmer's grandmother, and she listens with great interest every time.

I really know a lot about these things.

It is also because of this that she can understand how difficult life outside is.

He even knew how difficult it was for her to support her in the Hou Mansion after the Fan family fell behind.

It's not that she doesn't understand anything, nor does she know nothing, so she is very clear and clear about what she wants.

From the very beginning, she came to make Situ Ji happy for the sake of being rich and honorable.

He also made up his mind to let go of his kidneys and not his heart, but in the end he was overcome by him abruptly, and now he really loves him so much.

But love is love, but the image that should be established must also be established.

All along, she has always cheated and swindled in front of him with being delicate, charming and enchanting, but he wants her to be the crown prince, and wants her to be his wife.

Then of course she has to establish her own image and let him see some other aspects of her, instead of just blindly inviting pets.

When she was in her boudoir, her aunt even asked her to pay attention to her manners.

Tell her that's the behavior style of a legitimate daughter of a decent family.

Her aunt has always made her strong and soft, but Rumei can also support her family, depending on her future status.

As a concubine, there is no way.But if it is a wife, it will not be unable to support the family.

But if she can be an upright and dignified wife, who would want to engage in the trick of flirting with one's head?
Which woman doesn't want to be a dignified lady.

(End of this chapter)