After the Internet was hacked, I went to Tsinghua University to engage in education

Chapter 44 It's Better to Ask Your Children Yourself

Yu Xin: ...?
Yu Xin's feet were fixed by these words, and he couldn't move anymore.

Although Yu Chengming was taken aback by this sudden question, but thinking of Lu Zhi's identity, maybe he needed some cooperation from him, and with the knowledge of her just now, he inexplicably trusted her ability.

Lu Zhi is just a girl in her early twenties, it is normal to forget to be polite sometimes, but her educational ability is beyond doubt.

Based on my trust in her and my confusion for a long time, I opened my mouth and then continued.

"When my son was born, my wife and I had just started our business. At that time, I was just a small employee in our company, and my life was not as rich as it is now. At that time..."

Yu Chengming's thoughts drifted far away, his tone was calm, and the communication ability of the superior was fully reflected at this time.

Yu Xin had never heard of their past in his father's ears, and followed his father's voice back to the past, as if he saw him and his young parents when he was a child.

Yu Chengming was narrating, Lu Zhi in the study room listened quietly, nodding his head from time to time in response, Yu Xin outside the study room listened silently, his heart became more and more sour as he went to the back.

It turned out that it was so difficult for his parents before, but what did he know at that time?

"Ms. Lu, I work in publishing. I understand that the current society is different from ours, and the children's thinking is also different from ours at that time."

"I work hard and hope that my children and parents can live a good life. I think my children will suffer less in the future and work harder now, but it always seems to be counterproductive." Yu Chengming was a little depressed, "Then After many quarrels, my wife and I are also thinking about whether our way is wrong, pushing him too hard, let him go, at worst we will work harder to make money to support him.”

"So we became more and more busy, and the conflict with the children became deeper and deeper." He rubbed his hands on his face, as if trying to make himself look more energetic, "Mr. Lu, are we, are we really wrong?" gone?"

Yu Xin outside the door had a sore nose, it was the first time he heard his father say what he really thought.

Although his parents love him, he actually feels very empty. There is only a glamor on the surface, but there is a big vacancy in spirit.

They don't understand each other, but they are bound together by blood.

Yu Xin thought ruthlessly, no one in this world understands them anymore, only some of his friends feel the same way as him, so what do those grown-ups understand?

"Now is no longer the era when you couldn't have enough to eat when you were young. Everyone can have enough food and clothing, and the pursuit is naturally different."

Lu Zhi didn't answer whether Yu Chengming was wrong: "The spiritual needs have increased, not only your generation and your mother's generation, but children's spiritual needs are even greater."

"They may not be thinking about whether they will have food tomorrow, but they may be thinking about whether their parents will be disappointed if they do not do well in the exam."

As soon as the words fell, Yu Chengming was shocked and opened his mouth to refute.

She smiled: "I know what you want to say. You think your children are playing outside and being naughty at school. Why would you consider whether you will be disappointed? In psychology, there is a situation like this. They want to To attract the attention of parents or teachers, whether it is good grades or poor grades, after all, only these two types of people can get the attention of others more easily. People with no characteristics are not easy to be remembered. This is for your company It's the same inside."

Now it was Yu Chengming's turn to be silent. Yu Xin's eyes outside the door were already flushed, and no one knew what he was thinking so clearly after being told.

And Lu Zhi also found out his deeper reasons, yes, he just wanted to be noticed.

He just wants others to remember him a little more.

Is his way wrong?
The ways of his parents have hurt him, so is he hurting them too?
"Your child is far more powerful than you think. You can try to trust him, listen to him, and exchange ideas with each other. As a parent, you need more time and affection than your child, not just money."

Lu Zhi said slowly: "We educators are the same. We should teach them how to cultivate independent personalities, let them learn to distinguish right from wrong and make independent judgments, instead of directly drawing conclusions and telling them to study hard. They won't understand. How simple are the children’s ideas, they just think that their parents think I should do it, so I will go.”

She looked at Yu Chengming who didn't say a word, didn't say any more, picked up the document at hand and signed her name.

In fact, if it were an ordinary parent, she might not say these things to make them trust their children. Many parents actually don't understand. Their thinking is the same as that of children. They cannot understand and have no desire to understand.

In this regard, there is no difference between so-called adults and children. On the contrary, children who are eager to learn are more able to listen, and they will be the ones who make changes and guide them.

Yu Chengming seems to be the one who can be guided, so she chooses to try this way to start. It seems that the other party can still listen to a sentence or two, but the follow-up is out of her scope of consideration.

She believes in doing everything and knowing the destiny.

Lu Zhi handed the signed letter to the other party, and after Yu Chengming was silent for a while, he suddenly raised his head and asked her: "Then Teacher Lu, what kind of father do you think I will be in the eyes of my son?"

Yu Xin's throat was a little choked up, and he pursed his lips, not knowing what he was thinking.

Hearing the question inside, he silently thought about it in his mind.

Through the crack of the door, he saw the solid back. What kind of father?

"Mr. Yu, instead of asking me, you should ask your child yourself."

Yu Chengming's mind went blank for a moment, and he saw Lu Zhi smiling and looking behind him, his heart beating like a drum, he turned around stiffly, caught off guard, and crossed eyes with Yu Xin who was outside the door.

Yu Xin who was outside didn't know if he had been occupied for a long time, so he accidentally leaned towards the door, and when he held the door to stand firm, the door suddenly opened.

The figure of his father was completely exposed in his sight.

On the contrary, his embarrassment was also seen by his father at a glance.

"Asin..."

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