Song Yuanhuanzhi

Chapter 43 Good Words, Bad Words

My younger brother came to Song Huan after the tearful teenagers left, and asked with a half-knowledge, "Sister, why did Sister Erya commit suicide? My elder brother once told me that the clean is cleared by itself."

Song Huan took a stool, placed it directly in front of him, and patted the stool.

Brother sat down and waited for sister's answer.

Song Huan said, "Then have you ever heard of 'the one who cleans himself will be cleansed, and people's words are to be feared'?"

Adi thought for a while, then shook his head.

Song Huan continued, "It's like when you wash a brush on a daily basis, a drop of ink in a bowl of water will turn it black, but a good reputation is like a bowl of water, and a drop of ink is a point of slander.

Nine points of pure reputation have already been achieved, but one point of slander will be completely smeared.

We always think that those who are clean are self-cleaning, but we forget that people's words are awesome. "

Song Huan looked at Adi and said seriously, "Sister taught you today, you must remember it in your heart!"

Brother nodded vigorously, "Okay, brother promised sister that he will always remember."

Song Huan looked into Adi's eyes and said seriously, "One of these is that a good word will warm the winter, and a bad word hurts the June cold.

It means that a kind and beneficial word can make the listener feel warm even in the severe cold of three winters.On the contrary, vicious and vicious language will make people feel cold even in the hot summer of June.

This also tells us that we need to learn to use the language of love to form good relationships. In many cases, a word of sympathy and understanding can comfort people a lot and increase their courage.

If at that time, Sister Erya could have a good friend to comfort her, relieve her, and her family would not put pressure on her and give her timely understanding and counseling, maybe her ending would be in another direction. "

Song Huan patted Brother on the head and asked, "Do you remember?"

Brother nodded, "Remember!" Then a childish voice sounded, repeating it word for word.

Adi asked again, "But, Sister, Adi still doesn't understand. If you don't do this, you won't be able to blame her. Sister Erya can completely ignore other people's words. But she was still hurt, is she using other people's mistakes to punish herself?"

Song Huan was stunned for a moment, then smiled, "Yes, sister Erya can obviously ignore other people's remarks, why?

This is what my sister said just now, 'people's words are awesome'. Of course, this is an external factor, mainly due to her, one is because of her character, and the other is her weak ability to resist pressure.

If, as Adi said, she can maintain her heart, she will be clean, and she can resist people's words and the pressure of public opinion, and she will have another ending.

There is never a shortage of people who love gossip and rumors in this world, and not everyone knows the truth of "a good word will warm the winter, and a bad word will hurt others and the June cold".

So instead of changing others, it is better to change yourself, let yourself be strong, free from the pressure of public opinion, free from the influence of others, and move towards your own goals. When you look back, you will find that these are just passing clouds. Most trivial. "

Seeing that brother was thinking, Song Huan didn't urge him, until brother asked again, Song Huan then came to the second point, "The second is that if you do something bad, you will eventually be out of control. .

Fire can burn paper, so it is impossible to wrap it.

Fu Xueshu, the other protagonist in this incident, cannot cover up the fact that she did harm morality and indirectly killed people. The sky has eyes, and she will be exposed to the sun one day. "

Brother said that he remembered it, and then said excitedly, "Sister, Brother knows one more!"

Song Huan asked "Oh?" in surprise, encouraging him to speak.

Adi's eyes were shining brightly, "If we have strength, others won't bully us!"

Song Huan laughed, "Yes, this is our means of protecting ourselves.

We can not deceive others, but we cannot allow others to have the opportunity to deceive us. "

Brother nodded hastily, he still remembers the scene of that day!
Sister is mighty and domineering!

A brother should be like a sister!
Fu Yuanzhi leaned against the door, quietly listening to Song Huan's words.

She really... has a lot of golden sentences.

The tearbag boy and Liang Dayong already knew of Fu Yuanzhi's existence, and now they don't have to hide in the room when they are studying and studying, and they returned to the main room.

That day, the two wanted to ask Fu Yuanzhi why he stayed in the Song family, but they were overwhelmed by other explosive news one after another and couldn't remember it. By the time they recovered, it was already August.

Song Huan didn't go out of her way to understand the incident two months ago. She only knew that Fu Xueshu married that man in the end.

The kind without dowry!

It was originally planned to let brother learn sowing and farming in the first half of the year, but because of the previous episode, Song Huan didn't let him go, and this matter has been delayed until now.

Now that it's time to harvest the rice, Song Huan asked brother to go to the field with the boy with tears in his eyes. He didn't need to do much, just help out occasionally, and it was fine if he didn't help.

The main purpose is to see and observe how everyone is doing it. Sometimes Adi will ask questions if he doesn't understand.

After going back and forth, brother also gradually joined the group, and Liang Fukang, the younger brother of the tearful boy, became brother's little friend first.

The two are about the same age, and Liang Fukang is the youngest in the family, but now he has a younger brother who is younger than him, so he is very happy.

Consciously rose to the role of an older brother.

As a younger brother, he often takes his younger brother to the rice fields to catch "fart bugs". This bug is harmful to crops, and there is no pesticide in this era, so they can only be removed manually, so the task of the two is to go to the fields that have not been harvested. Tian Li catches the spanker.

When the fart bug is not disturbed, it has no peculiar smell. Once it is startled and caught, the unpleasant smell will come out, so the people call it the spanker.

Brother did not forget what sister said while playing, and kept in mind the purpose of his visit.

Sometimes he will ask Liang Fukang when he encounters a question that he doesn’t understand. Liang Fukang will tell him what he knows. If he doesn’t know, he will bring his brother to his brothers to ask. up.

Adi studied in the morning and went to the fields in the afternoon. Fu Yuanzhi freed up time in the afternoon. Sometimes he would stay at home to read books, take care of housework, and sometimes he would follow Song Huan into the mountains.

On the afternoon of the seventh day of August.

Fu Yuanzhi went into the mountain with Song Huan. It has been a year since Song Huan came. She has walked through this forest once, but she has walked through most of the places. She also has a general idea of ​​what is there.

Now it is August, and there are not only chestnuts picked last year, but also awls in the forest.

The taste of the awl is similar to that of chestnut, but the shape is slightly different, most of them are in the shape of water droplets.

Not only these, but also jujube and peaches.

She also learned wild vegetables from the boy with tears in her eyes, and got to know wild yam, duck foot vegetables, wild celery and Houttuynia cordata.

She knows Houttuynia cordata, she has been in contact with this thing in her previous life, but like the other three, she just heard about it but didn't really know it.

There is also wild chili dish, which is delicious when eaten in soup.

Fu Yuanzhi and Song Huan carried baskets on their backs. When they went to the place, one picked chestnuts and wild vegetables, and the other went to see the traps. , time will slowly pass.

(End of this chapter)