The days when I was an obstetrician and gynecologist in Chang'an

Chapter 569 Parents love their children, but they have far-reaching plans

Li Sanniang is currently sitting in the main hall of the Song family, being entertained by Mrs. Song, the square table next to Li Sanniang not only has tea, but also snacks and a fruit plate, and now Li Sanniang is eating with an ice bowl filled with cheese.

In the middle of the morning today, the mother-in-law of the Song family came to the medical hall and invited Li Sanniang to go out for a consultation.

Before, Mrs. Song invited her through a lot of connections. Dr. Sun, a master gynecologist who used to work in the imperial medical office, came to the Song family to check Song Zhenzhu's pulse. Later, Dr. Sun recommended her brother, Dr. Wang, to come to Song Zhenzhu's pulse again.

(Chapter 556 Plot)
Dr. Wang has practiced medicine in the folk all year round, and he has seen many more types of women's diseases than Dr. Sun. Moreover, Dr. Wang is also the kind of person who is a little different from ordinary people with sensitive five senses like Li Sanniang.

Moreover, Dr. Wang was a little unconstrained in the world, he volunteered to do palpation for Song Zhenzhu.

Of course, Mrs. Song did not agree.

Although Dr. Wang has gray hair and beard roots, and is old enough to be Song Zhenzhu's ancestor, Mrs. Song still feels a little inappropriate.

However, Dr. Wang didn't force it. He stroked his beard and said: "It's okay, but the female doctor surnamed Li must be able to directly determine Miss Song's illness because she is Miss Song. palpated.

However, the old man has been practicing medicine among the people for decades, and he has seen two cases of a disease like Miss Song's.

One was premature birth, but the delivery went well, and both mother and child were safe;
The other one was not well, the fetal position was abnormal, dystocia, one dead body and two lives. "

Seeing that Mrs. Song and Song Zhenzhu were both scared, Dr. Wang nodded and said again: "However, Mrs. Song doesn't have to worry too much about this, since that Dr. Li just said that in the future, Mrs. Song will be married. You have to pay attention after getting pregnant, and didn’t directly say that it’s best not to have an offspring, the old man thinks there should still be a chance to give birth safely.”

Mrs. Song panicked at the time, but she was the head of the house for more than [-] years, so she suppressed the anxiety in her heart. Mrs. Song thanked Dr. Wang respectfully, and sent a considerable amount of consultation money and gifts. He and Song Zhenzhu happily sent Dr. Wang out of the house.

"Aniang, Aniang, me, I, am I not going to be able to have children in the future?

What should I do then?Who will marry me?
Aunt, I can't give birth anymore, I"

Mrs. Song slapped Song Zhenzhu's hand directly, and there was a loud "slap", which stunned Song Zhenzhu who was already in a trance. Song Zhenzhu raised her head and looked at Mrs. Song in a daze. I can't even feel the pain on the back of my hand that is already red.

Mrs. Song winked at the woman behind her, and the woman was blessed and retreated, standing at the door to guard the door.

The headed wife is going to teach her daughter again, so naturally she can't lose face to Song Zhenzhu.

(Chapter 527-529 plot)
In this way, Mrs. Song took Song Zhenzhu to sit down, rubbed the back of her hand that was still red for a while, and said with some reproach in her mouth: "You child, you have reached the age of marriage, why are you still so troublesome? ?”

"Auntie?"

Mrs. Song raised her hand and stroked Song Zhenzhu's hair, and sighed: "Oh, your temper is not entirely your fault, it's because you and I, Aye, have pampered you for many years and always think about you In the future, if you want to marry into someone else's family, you can relax as much as you can during the days at home.

It's inevitable that I've been slack in your upbringing, making you always yell and yell when you encounter problems, and you don't come to a conclusion.

But, Zhenniang, don't worry, at most, you and I, Aye, will pick out an in-law for you that our Song family can live in. As long as you and your elder brother are in official positions, so what if you don't have children?

Zhenniang, don't worry, Aniang will protect you for the rest of your life. "

That night, the head of the Song family and Mrs. Song reached an agreement in the dim light, and the future candidate for Song Zhenzhu's son-in-law was directly changed to a scholar who had many heirs in the family, had outstanding looks, and needed the support of the Yue family.

Originally, Mrs. Song wanted to find Song Zhenzhu from among her natal in-laws a good-looking family with a simple family.

But now if it is really difficult for Song Zhenzhu to have children in the future, then the offspring will be a big problem.

People at this time, no matter if they are aristocratic families, ordinary people in the market, or poor villagers, isn't the primary purpose of anyone marrying a daughter-in-law is to reproduce offspring and pass on the family line?
This primary goal cannot be achieved, how can the husband's family think highly of the daughter-in-law?

How can you not show your daughter-in-law's face?

What's more, it can even grind people?

Just like Shen Qiuniang (the plot in chapters 31-33), the main reason is not on him, so why doesn't his former son-in-law treat Shen Qiuniang as a person?
Now, the main reason is Song Zhenzhu. If she doesn't choose a good family, even if Song Zhenzhu comes from the Song family, she will still be tortured by others.

Moreover, she has been childless for many years, how can she not say that Song Zhenzhu can pass the test in her heart?
How few women can not embarrass themselves in childbearing?
At least in the current environment, most girls can't do it.

Therefore, it is not easy to choose a suitable son-in-law for Song Zhenzhu, the Song family can handle it well, and the Song family can also solve problems in the future.

Parents love their children, and they have far-reaching plans.

Mrs. Song really loves her little girl.

At this time, you may say, if it is impossible to have a child, or if there is a great risk of childbearing, it may be rejected by the husband's family, so why don't you just not marry?
If it is in the modern society, it is easy to say that it is true that there is no need to get married and have children. If you want to fall in love, you only need to explain it before falling in love.

But the problem is that this is the Tang Dynasty, a feudal society, and the era of the patriarchal clan system based on the small peasant economy.

Even if the Song family could support Song Zhenzhu for the rest of her life, allowing her to live a life without worrying about food and clothing, and still be able to afford Song Zhenzhu's "single tax", the impact it would bring would be immeasurable.

Terrible.

If Song Zhenzhu doesn't marry, all the daughters of the Song family will have to bear the burden of "Is it because Song Zhenzhu has a disease or a problem with her upbringing, that's why she doesn't marry. Does the other daughters of the Song family also have problems?"

Song Zhenzhu's parents and brothers were willing to raise her for the rest of her life, using their own money.

But are the rest of the Song family really willing?
"Your daughter doesn't marry, so why do you get so much property from the clan?

A girl who doesn't get married will bring my daughter's reputation into trouble. Your family should take out the assets to compensate my family! "

Yes, it's that unreasonable.

In the face of interests, reason and morality are nothing.

Therefore, Song Zhenzhu would still marry, but Song's father and Mrs. Song were able to choose a more suitable family for Song Zhenzhu, which was already very good.

Li Sanniang put down the ice bowl in her hand, listened carefully to Mrs. Song's words, and understood what Mrs. Song meant.

Then Li Sanniang said: "Don't worry, ma'am, I will keep my mouth tightly shut after leaving this door, and no one other than you and me will know about Mrs. Song's situation.

Secondly, just like Dr. Wang mentioned by Madam just now, this disease is probably not that serious.

However, it is true that after Mrs. Song gets married in the future, she must pay attention to it when she becomes pregnant.

If conditions permit, Mrs. Song can ask me to see Mrs. Song again.

At that time, if there is a problem, if a decision is made as soon as possible not to have this baby, it should be able to save Lady Song's life.

In this life, nothing is more important than your own life.

Of course, it is also possible that Mrs. Song was completely fine and gave birth smoothly.

However, I still want to say that even if it goes well, the number of births should be reduced as much as possible to avoid any uncontrollable things.

Mrs. Song, this girl's pregnancy and childbirth are like going through the gate of hell, and she can't get through it every time. "

After hearing Li Sanniang's explanation again, Mrs. Song nodded, and stopped talking about Song Zhenzhu, and turned to the flower viewing party that Song's family will hold during the Mid-Autumn Festival in a few days.

"Doctor Li can also bring your little girl here, I heard from Mother Zhen that Doctor Li's child is very smart.

At this flower viewing banquet, most of the wives who are invited to come will bring their own children, and it will be a pleasure for the children to play together. "

　Zuo Shigong said: "Parents love their sons, and they have far-reaching plans. When I send off the queen, I hold her heels and weep for her. The sorrow is far away, and I am also mourning." —— "Warring States Policy" "Touching the Dragon and Telling the Empress Dowager Zhao"

　　Interpretation:

　　Zuo Shigong said: "Parents love their children, and they must think about them in the long run. When the old lady sent off the queen swallow (to get married), (she got into the car) she still held her heels and wept for her, missing and saddened by her far away. Married, this is sad enough.

　　——The above is from the Internet

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　　When I wrote this chapter, I just came across a social news on Douyin, which is simply staggering.

　　17-year-old father abandons his 2-year-old daughter for the second time.

　　This sentence is simply full of information. . . .

　　What's even more explosive is that I found out in the comment area that the child's mother was only 12 years old when she gave birth. . .

　　In other words, I only had my period when I was 12 years old.

　　From this social news, we can see many aspects, ① how lacking is the sex education for minors in our country; There is a complete set of mechanisms to send it to the adoption supervision system; ③ It is still a legal and institutional issue, and the people do not raise the official and do not investigate. In fact, in this case, there should be a women and child protection agency involved.

　　However, the law is indeed not to protect the weak, but a tool to maintain a stable system.

　　Hey~
　　
　
(End of this chapter)